Can a cock be too big?

Boyyyt

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I had an experience recently where I was chatting to a new girl and things got a little sexual. Ended up sending some cock pics and she told me that she wouldn’t meet up cause I was too big. Kinda shocked me. 😅 Any ladies got similar feelings? I look forward to hearing your opinions 😊

There’s are pics on my profile if you need reference but I’m about 8.5”
 

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For me personally, I can take almost any man's penis regardless of how big he is. But I asked one man to stop, but it was after trying to take him for over an hour, and it just wasn't working. He did have a huge penis, well over 10" and very thick, but it was more that he just went directly to trying to get inside me with no foreplay. I know if he had flirted a little and kissed me, I would have become aroused, and things would have been different. I met him on SLS, and I think it was just a fuck for him. He wanted to get off and get on with his day. I get very wet naturally when I am aroused and rarely need lube unless we are doing anal. That day, with no build-up, I was dry and needed lube, but I think not being turned on had me dry inside too.

I had one other man who was equally as large, he came over, and we spent several hours having a bottle of wine and talking, making out, and when he began to undress me, I would not wait to get his penis inside me. When he went down on me, he was amazed at how wet I was, and he could get balls deep inside me without difficulty.

I think it is more about how the man uses what he has versus his size.

One night, I had one very large man who fucked me for a long time. I never did climax due to how rough he was, his cock was pounding away at my cervix the entire time, and although his thickness felt wonderful, I could not get past the pain. I kept telling him to go less deep, but he just continued. The next morning I told him no when he tried to get inside me. He just came into the bedroom and got on top of me as if I was going to let him in. He has never fucked me again, and while we still are "friends," he acts like I was just leading him on.

I did have bleeding after and went in to see my GYN about it. I had to tell her what I had done, and she told me no rough sex for a month, lol. Our friend is a very nice-looking guy, and I think if he didn't have to try proving how big he is, that it could have been very good.

My husband has a video of a very large guy who is well over 10" He knows how to get me ready for his huge penis and can have me begging for him inside me. He uses his tongue, mouth, fingers, and charm, and I have a puddle in the bed by the time he enters me. Ideally, a penis in the range of 6-7" with thickness is perfect for me. But a larger penis can be ok if the guy knows how to use it.


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majorem

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Women can definitely accommodate any thickness of cock - there are no 2 cocks together that are thick enough my wife wouldn't be able to handle them and enjoy it. Length though is an issue for many women. If you watch porn with women taking huge dildos, I've seen 12"+ going up the butt but you rarely see a woman get more than 8" or so inside her pussy. So yeah, like cocks, pussies seem to come in different depths... but yeah, if they can get a baby out, cock thickness is not really a problem.

A couple girls I occasionally get with have said they stopped seeing guys because their cocks were too long and they dreaded sex. On one hand, I'm sure it could have been great if the guy showed more restraint / maybe more foreplay. On the other hand, it kind of sucks as a man having to worry about that during sex, so I'm sort of glad my cock isn't much longer.

I'm only like 8" but occasionally if I thrust too hard at the wrong angle, I've gotten a yelp from certain ladies. My ex-girlfriend of many years was rather shallow and I had to be careful. I enjoy my wife's pussy a lot more because I don't have to hold back except in like missionary when her legs are back and I can hit really deep. In recent years she has actually complained my "dick is too big" (which I certainly don't think is the case) and she gets sore but I think it is because she is often tired and a women's vagina elongates when they were turned on. So when she comes home drunk and horny, she wants to get pounded and its no problem but when tired and not as into it, she gets sore and complains.

I'm sure she'd be happy though if it were an inch shorter but twice as thick. I just have to keep working at getting her some DP... She loves the idea but hasn't happened yet.
 

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... a women's vagina elongates when they were turned on. So when she comes home drunk and horny, she wants to get pounded and its no problem but when tired and not as into it, she gets sore and complains.

I'm sure she'd be happy though if it were an inch shorter but twice as thick. I just have to keep working at getting her some DP... She loves the idea but hasn't happened yet.

I saw my wife's post from earlier today while I was at work.

@majorem I think you have the answer in your post. I have watched my wife take a few really, abnormally huge cocks and do fine with them. But, I have seen her take some much smaller ones and say they were too large or made her uncomfortable.

Years ago, my wife did a guy bareback multiple times over the course of a full weekend. The guy was very large, but my wife took him easily. She was super turned on. Back home, she began to regret taking a stranger bareback and having him cum deep inside her, and as her nerves got the best of her, we went to a local county health department to be checked. The female health department doctor did a pelvic and bloodwork, and then my wife said we had unprotected sex since, and she wanted me to be checked too. Down went my pants, and I gave blood to be tested.

My wife said the sex was painful, and she wasn't sure if that was a symptom of an STD or size. The doctor, not understanding my wife's statement and looking at my tiny cock, told my wife that my penis should not feel uncomfortable inside of her. My wife explained that I was her husband, and she had unprotected sex with a very well-hung stranger for a weekend of wild sex. The doctor looked back at me and replied it was understandable that my wife needed more and that she strayed as she put it. The doctor described how the vagina, during arousal, will elongate and self-lubricate to accept the male penis of any length or circumference. She also told us how the vagina self cleanses itself after male ejaculation.

So, in my wife's case, although she has been diagnosed with a "shallow vagina," the space between her labia and her cervix, when properly aroused, her vagina will elongate naturally to accept large cocks.
 

majorem

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Years ago, my wife did a guy bareback multiple times over the course of a full weekend. The guy was very large, but my wife took him easily. She was super turned on. Back home, she began to regret taking a stranger bareback and having him cum deep inside her, and as her nerves got the best of her, we went to a local county health department to be checked. The female health department doctor did a pelvic and bloodwork, and then my wife said we had unprotected sex since, and she wanted me to be checked too. Down went my pants, and I gave blood to be tested.

My wife said the sex was painful, and she wasn't sure if that was a symptom of an STD or size.
Lol, that must have been quite the doctor's visit.

Sounds a bit like a female "friend" of mine who said she dated a 6'3" guy with a huge cock and it was really exciting taking his big dick at first but left her so sore afterwards that she started to dread seeing him and broke it off after a few weeks. Guess it is a lot more fun when its a one-time thing.
 
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The doctor looked back at me and replied it was understandable that my wife needed more and that she strayed as she put it
That's a doctor who understands the dynamic. Took the time to comfort the wife and give a little dig to the cuckold husband.
 
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The doctor looked back at me and replied it was understandable that my wife needed more and that she strayed as she put it
That's a doctor who understands the dynamic. Took the time to comfort the wife and give a little dig to the cuckold husband.

She was a little lady with a strong accent, but she just made the statement as matter-of-factly as if saying the sun comes out during the daytime.
 
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