Convincing my gf is confusing

[TheBlackStag]

So I have told my gf that I want to see her have sex with another guy before and after I told her I reassured her that I still love her and that it was something I really want but I told her that it is no problem if she’s not interested she said that she doesn’t want to have sex with another guy she said she wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing that so I said that’s fine no problem not even a week goes by and she woke me up in the middle of the night by giving me a handjob then she asked me if I wanted to see another man fuck her and I came so fast that happend about 2 or 3 times I was confused as to why she did that but ok some time goes by again and I ask her if she’s changed her mind about it she said no I accepted and skip to a few days ago she asked me if I wanted an open relationship is said that I don’t won’t to sleep with other women but that she can sleep with other guy IF she asks me first she said okay and that was it do I have a shot at convincing her if so what do I now (sorry for the long post)

 

[majorem]

Women are totally confusing - this is normal. I think what you're dealing with is she is not yet comfortable admitting to you that she is interested in your proposition for her to fuck other men. She is likely confused as to why you want this and is worried there may be an ulterior reason - that you want to be able to sleep with other women, so she is testing you to see if you want an open relationship. She also may become concerned that you don't love her enough or don't find her attractive, etc.

She clearly seems turned on by the idea, or you wouldn't be waking up to her rubbing your cock, asking if you want to see her fucked by other men. So it seems likely you can make something happen if you can help her to feel secure and confident that it will not upset you, that you're really turned on by the idea of seeing her with another man and there's no ulterior motive.

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

The automated response to the question is no, I only want to sleep with you. When you asked that question, it planted the seed of the idea in her and I think it is growing. My wife’s first thought was that I wanted to sleep with other women, I didn’t. I told her and she eventually believed me. I was surprised when she did it the first time and it didn’t take her long before she went back to him. Now she has 3 boyfriends and we are enjoying ourselves.

 

[Jamesass]

So I have told my gf that I want to see her have sex with another guy before and after I told her I reassured her that I still love her and that it was something I really want but I told her that it is no problem if she’s not interested she said that she doesn’t want to have sex with another guy she said she wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing that so I said that’s fine no problem not even a week goes by and she woke me up in the middle of the night by giving me a handjob then she asked me if I wanted to see another man fuck her and I came so fast that happend about 2 or 3 times I was confused as to why she did that but ok some time goes by again and I ask her if she’s changed her mind about it she said no I accepted and skip to a few days ago she asked me if I wanted an open relationship is said that I don’t won’t to sleep with other women but that she can sleep with other guy IF she asks me first she said okay and that was it do I have a shot at convincing her if so what do I now (sorry for the long post)

tell she does i can photoshop you some pic

 

[robbiewillsucku]

December 2023, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.

If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.

I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.

 

[jaandaj]

So I have told my gf that I want to see her have sex with another guy before and after I told her I reassured her that I still love her and that it was something I really want but I told her that it is no problem if she’s not interested she said that she doesn’t want to have sex with another guy she said she wouldn’t even feel comfortable doing that so I said that’s fine no problem not even a week goes by and she woke me up in the middle of the night by giving me a handjob then she asked me if I wanted to see another man fuck her and I came so fast that happend about 2 or 3 times I was confused as to why she did that but ok some time goes by again and I ask her if she’s changed her mind about it she said no I accepted and skip to a few days ago she asked me if I wanted an open relationship is said that I don’t won’t to sleep with other women but that she can sleep with other guy IF she asks me first she said okay and that was it do I have a shot at convincing her if so what do I now (sorry for the long post)

As smallhubby said it's an auto response. Both the first to replys are spot on to me. You planted the seed. She thinks about it and gets excited.
It is as confusing to a woman as to us. I have heard all sorts thier thinking. Is he trying to get rid of me, doesn't he love me, does he want an excuse to cheat.
She will come around I am sure if it.
Talk about rules. Talk through every as it goes on. Be open and honest. U will probably feel some jealousy after the first time. For most of us first time is a rollercoaster of emotion. Hell it even happens out of nowhere after years of hotwifing.

Would love to hear how ur progress is going. Good luck. And if u need to talk to someone, myself or some the other good guys will always be happy to help

 

[PNNP]

Women are totally confusing - this is normal. I think what you're dealing with is she is not yet comfortable admitting to you that she is interested in your proposition for her to fuck other men. She is likely confused as to why you want this and is worried there may be an ulterior reason - that you want to be able to sleep with other women, so she is testing you to see if you want an open relationship. She also may become concerned that you don't love her enough or don't find her attractive, etc.

She clearly seems turned on by the idea, or you wouldn't be waking up to her rubbing your cock, asking if you want to see her fucked by other men. So it seems likely you can make something happen if you can help her to feel secure and confident that it will not upset you, that you're really turned on by the idea of seeing her with another man and there's no ulterior motive.

Not really confusing about her behavior a all, a seed is planted, and it needs time to grow. She is definitely working with it for sure, and also willing to feed his needs with fantasy for now.

I told my wife fantasy about her having two men to get out of 7 years good relationship routine sex, and make it more exiting after trying many things. Massage porn and MFM starting to grow on us both, and just working with the fantasy, is so much more rewarding than just use of porn. I'm quite sure one day when we both are ready, and with the right person, it will happen, but no rush. The most important I love my wife, and want to keep it healthy, and not do anything stupid and risk it all.

Be patient and do not rush anything.

I tried to feed her with another fantasy, one girl riding me, and one sit on my face, and they making out, and I instantly felt she got soaking dripping wet, but wouldn't hear anything about it any more. Same reaction she get when seeing women ******** on men, wrestling men and rub their pussy on their faces which she have done to me a few times when drunk And totally letting it all loose.

 

[Desejo de corno]

Então, eu disse à minha namorada que queria vê-la fazer sexo com outro cara antes e depois de dizer a ela, garanti a ela que ainda a amo e que era algo que eu realmente queria, mas disse a ela que não há problema se ela estiver não estou interessada ela disse que não quer fazer sexo com outro cara ela disse que nem se sentiria confortável fazendo isso então eu disse que está tudo bem sem problemas nem passa uma semana e ela me acordou no meio do noite me dando uma punheta então ela me perguntou se eu queria ver outro homem transar com ela e eu gozei tão rápido que aconteceu umas 2 ou 3 vezes fiquei confuso sobre por que ela fez isso, mas ok, algum tempo passa de novo e eu pergunto ela se ela mudou de ideia ela disse não eu aceitei e pulei para alguns dias atrás ela me perguntou se eu queria um relacionamento aberto ela disse que não quero dormir com outras mulheres mas que ela pode dormir com outro cara SE ela me perguntar primeiro, ela disse tudo bem e pronto, tenho uma chance de convencê-la, se sim, o que faço agora (desculpe pela postagem longa)

ÓHello, I have the same problem as you, I don't know how to convince my wife to do it with other guys. Have you already achieved it? I need to give advice!!