Do Many Single Women Want a Cuckold?

[TheBetaMale]

For almost two years now I've been advertising and seeking a female-led relationship and had very little success. I'd be more than happy to be a cuckold for a woman and to encourage her in whatever she chooses to do. I know I don't measure up to a lot of guys out there, especially black guys, so I would never expect any woman to just settle for what little I can offer sexually. That being said, when I started searching, I never thought it would be so incredibly difficult finding a woman who is interested in such a relationship.

Covid may have played a part in making my search more difficult, but I have noticed that what offers I have received have almost all come from the United States. Whether women in the UK aren't as interested in the lifestyle as women in the US I'm not sure, but regardless of that, I'd love to hear from all the women out there what your opinion is. Are there that many ladies out there looking for a cuck, or is it one of those things that grows out of a conventional relationship?

Having been on this site for a while it does strike me that perhaps a lot of women are introduced to the lifestyle by their husband, so maybe that is the problem. From what I see though, it also seems like women are waking up to alternative lifestyles much more than ever before too. All opinions and advice welcome.

 

[jusme]

To be fair, it was an exgf that introduced me into cuckoldism. In them days it was called an open relationship. At the time I thought it odd that she wanted to know every tiny detail but I just put it down to her being so horny all the time
To put some perspective on the relationship, we lived quite close to each other, me with my mum and dad and her with hers but her dad was the landlord of the local pub. After around 6 months her dad was relocated to a much more prosperous pub with an adjoining restaurant, but it was over 50 miles away. We agreed to keep seeing each other, every weekend and holidays together. When we did meet it was mad sex all the time, one time I picked her up and as soon as we got in the car she was straight on my cock sucking me dry and chewing on my balls.
After about 3 years together she asked me if we could see other people during the week while we were apart. I asked if she had anyone in mind but she said not really, but she worked in a large Ford dealership and there were upwards of 50 guys working there so not too much thinking and she was a very attractive woman of 21 with a great sexy figure.
While we were discussing the ins and outs I found my mind was racing and my cock drooling at the thought of another guy screwing my gf. We got together at the weekends and would relate what we had done and who with. She would tell me how big or small their cocks were and who she was having sex with and I did the same. She got a fri night job working bar for her dad so I got to watch her getting chatted up and flirted with, which I found ridiculously horny and often I would go to have a quick shuffle in the toilets.
Eventually after 6 years we drifted apart and she ended up living with the owner of the dealership so all was well in the end. I still have a quick knuckle shuffle at the experiences she related to me as we fucked.
She was the one to initiate the open relationship and was the fist to fuck others, some were gangbangs so she got multiple cocks

 

[sub2femdom]

For almost two years now I've been advertising and seeking a female-led relationship and had very little success. I'd be more than happy to be a cuckold for a woman and to encourage her in whatever she chooses to do. I know I don't measure up to a lot of guys out there, especially black guys, so I would never expect any woman to just settle for what little I can offer sexually. That being said, when I started searching, I never thought it would be so incredibly difficult finding a woman who is interested in such a relationship.

Covid may have played a part in making my search more difficult, but I have noticed that what offers I have received have almost all come from the United States. Whether women in the UK aren't as interested in the lifestyle as women in the US I'm not sure, but regardless of that, I'd love to hear from all the women out there what your opinion is. Are there that many ladies out there looking for a cuck, or is it one of those things that grows out of a conventional relationship?

Having been on this site for a while it does strike me that perhaps a lot of women are introduced to the lifestyle by their husband, so maybe that is the problem. From what I see though, it also seems like women are waking up to alternative lifestyles much more than ever before too. All opinions and advice welcome.

Covid has definitely taken a shit on the lifestyle. It's bounced back in some ways - the swinger parties are back in full rotation. I'm not sure how many people go now vs. then, I only know that I haven't attended any but the invites are back to pre-covid levels. As far as personal meetings with singles or couples, those seem to have vanished entirely. I'm in the US and it was on the news that as a society, we're having so much less sex that it's starting to raise concerns.

The good news is that a lot of swinger parties are themed and cuckold parties are popular among some groups. It's not hard to find parties, just join a swinger site that has local groups, they aren't too hard to find. Avoid sites like AFF and dating apps. The one I use is called SLS (swinglifestyle), you can google them, they offer free memberships but with a lot of limitations and you won't likely get any success as most paid members block free accounts from even viewing them. That's what works in my area though - they are popular in the US if you live in a populated area. What works in the UK.. who knows, but cuckold parties are really great, I strongly recommend them.

I've met a few women on the site as well that were interested in cuckoldry or related bdsm stuff. I will admit, they are not easy to find, you have to let them find you and a really great profile is key for success. They have forums on that site where other members will help you with advise on your profile and what you should cut, add, or re-word. Took me a couple months of regular adjustments to find what worked and what didn't.

Anyways, good luck. You will find your fantasy if you put in the work and pay a few bucks.

 

[Craigatore]

I don't think they do, the majority of women want a relationship with someone masculine and look up to. Being a cuck is still considered to be a loser, maybe it will change in the future, we don't know yet

 

[Craigatore]

You should find a partner first, if she wants to cheat on you or not it's entirely up to her

 

[sub2femdom]

If you aren't familiar with "switches", those are people who enjoy both dominant and submissive play. More women tend to be switches than men. Switch women make great cuckoldresses because they can balance dominanting their sub/cuck while at the same time be submissive to their bulls. I've experienced this first hand with a handful of women. Since everyone is personally different, the experiences are different as well.

 

[420destiny]

It's rare I think most women want a strong confident man and wouldn't think of a cuck. There are likely the rare women who know about this lifestyle, maybe came out of a relationship where cuckolding and cheating happened and a financially stable cuck is appealing to a few devious women.

 

[Craigatore]

It's rare I think most women want a strong confident man and wouldn't think of a cuck. There are likely the rare women who know about this lifestyle, maybe came out of a relationship where cuckolding and cheating happened and a financially stable cuck is appealing to a few devious women.

Amongst all the languages you have chosen to speak the truth

 

[sub2femdom]

cuckoldry is a kink, and just as not all men are into it, not all women are either.

That being said, You are frustrated because you are looking into the wrong places. And when you find the right places, you will again be frustrated if you don't put in the work. Look up legitimate swinger sites that cater to your area. There's at least one nationwide one in the US that I'm aware of and use. It's initals are SLS.

I would recommend you avoid any site that has different "tiers" of memberships, they are almost always infested with scammers.

Once you find a site, you will have to commit to being a long term member and pay for a membership. SLS was ideal for me because they have groups so I found two cuckold groups that play monthly in my area. I did have to spend a considerable amount of time writing and refining my profile, asking for advice on it in the forums, etc. It took time, but in the end, I found what I was looking for.

 

[sub2femdom]

I feel like there is a serious disconnect between the fantasy of the male wannabe cuck and the reality of the typical real non porn hotwife. Yes, you need a solid relationship first! The wannabe cuck wants a slut, but wants to be in chastity. No slut wants her primary man, ie. sex partner, to be in chastity. That is oxymoronic, heavy on the moron. That type of woman to start a relationship with is the experienced swinger and hence you ought to be a swinger too. But that’s not the wannabe cuck fmlr style is it. You want some devotion to you, you want her to fuck in front of you or come home to you after fucking someone else but why would we do that? The answer is that we love you, fuck for you and yes we enjoy it for ourselves but it’s to make you happy more than anything. You want to give all to us but it only works if we want to give all to you too. So yes the primary relationship must be first and this is stuff you do when you are totally in love with your husband, then you will fuck another guy for him. This is not how you start relationships, you got to work your way up to it and play the long game.
I certainly don’t speak for everyone and this stuff happens in all sorts of ways but that is the way I see it. I also see the alternatives as worse options. Start a relationship like this, you are what, a maid who pays to do the cleaning, gets no respect and is not loved. I think cucks want to be loved too. There is a certain devotion to go fuck other men and to come home and tell you all about it and get you off in whatever weird way you like after. That takes time to build up a relationship like that ☮️
So when you do get a relationship when the inevitable time to discuss sexual fantasies comes up mention that you would like to watch, wait, mmf, (whatever you are into) her with another man and go from there. Even a girl that will do it will be be non committing at first just to try and show some decorum. You got to play the long game, you have to be able to handle it after, this isnt for the weak, cuck has to be strong with will to get what he wants

You make some great points, I pretty much 2nd everything except one part and also that I've concluded the opposite, that any kinks are best to bring it up early, at least within the first month, around 2 weeks seems like a sweet spot to me at least. The longer you wait, the more it offends the partner because it appears to them that you were just hiding it from them 'this whole time'.