My gf has been very honest with me and admitted that she has interest in fucking other guys. I’ve wanted to be a cuck for years now so obviously when she told me I was excited. That being said, we haven’t yet been able to make anything happen. She’s very hesitant about it all, which is understandable, and I think she’s worried I won’t actually like being cucked. I’ve reinforced that it’s my biggest fantasy but she still seems hesitant. Do you think this will change once we’re married? Maybe she’ll feel more secure in the relationship which could make it easier. Or maybe she’ll realize what she’s been missing out on.
Do you think my will be more open about cucking me once we’re married?
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You have to be somewhat realistic regarding the possibilities. She may be "all in" on the idea and with you already receptive to the idea even better. It could happen and you guys have a great time doing your thing. And, you may very well be right about it being something you've been missing out on.
It could also affect how she views you, especially over time. She may have thoughts or doubts about whether you're "the man" she wants to have kids with. She may not feel the same level of respect for you. She may change her mind about you as being "long term". This experience is new to you both. It's going evolve as it progresses and come with a bunch of new feelings, emotions, reactions and perceptions.
I would think a smart wife that has committed herself and truly loves her man would be cautious and hesitant, even if the idea turns her on. She understands that her position wields a lot of power with implied and unspoken responsibilities. You would be the big unknown to her. She doesn't know how you'll REALLY react. Ultimately she would know it's hers to fuck up with stuff like NRE, or neglect, or over escalating, or too much humiliation or other things. It would be easy to just do whatever she wanted and not give a ...... about the consequences. Just shrug her shoulders and blow the whole thing up. Dismiss it by saying, "It wasn't meant to be!"
From all the stuff I've read on this forum and others, I've learned that a lot of threads just disappear, fade away. It's almost as if you can sense there's a lit fuse and eventually it's gonna blow up. It's my opinion that the care and maintenance of the cuck is critical. The wife and the bull/bf's jobs are easy. Find someone that you like, that attracts you, and have sex with them. I understand many women need an emotional attachment which further complicates things.
The cuck's experience is more mental and that will evidence itself. If it gets to be too much for him he may feel reluctant to say anything for fear of ruining it all. He may feel like he has to accept NOT enjoying it as much. The quarterback is the wife. She's the one that makes it work or not. Ultimately it's like any kind of power, you can use it wisely or you can use it with purely selfish intent. I know it's just my opinion but I only see this or any cuckold relationship working with a smart wife on the team. A dumb one would fuck it all up!
It could also affect how she views you, especially over time. She may have thoughts or doubts about whether you're "the man" she wants to have kids with. She may not feel the same level of respect for you. She may change her mind about you as being "long term". This experience is new to you both. It's going evolve as it progresses and come with a bunch of new feelings, emotions, reactions and perceptions.
I would think a smart wife that has committed herself and truly loves her man would be cautious and hesitant, even if the idea turns her on. She understands that her position wields a lot of power with implied and unspoken responsibilities. You would be the big unknown to her. She doesn't know how you'll REALLY react. Ultimately she would know it's hers to fuck up with stuff like NRE, or neglect, or over escalating, or too much humiliation or other things. It would be easy to just do whatever she wanted and not give a ...... about the consequences. Just shrug her shoulders and blow the whole thing up. Dismiss it by saying, "It wasn't meant to be!"
From all the stuff I've read on this forum and others, I've learned that a lot of threads just disappear, fade away. It's almost as if you can sense there's a lit fuse and eventually it's gonna blow up. It's my opinion that the care and maintenance of the cuck is critical. The wife and the bull/bf's jobs are easy. Find someone that you like, that attracts you, and have sex with them. I understand many women need an emotional attachment which further complicates things.
The cuck's experience is more mental and that will evidence itself. If it gets to be too much for him he may feel reluctant to say anything for fear of ruining it all. He may feel like he has to accept NOT enjoying it as much. The quarterback is the wife. She's the one that makes it work or not. Ultimately it's like any kind of power, you can use it wisely or you can use it with purely selfish intent. I know it's just my opinion but I only see this or any cuckold relationship working with a smart wife on the team. A dumb one would fuck it all up!
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