We have just decided to get into the lifestyle. Mainly wanting to watch someone fuck my wife and maybe join in to make it a mfm threesome. Also wanting take pictures and film for our pleasure only. We have talked about going to New Orleans and find someone that is willing to come back to the hotel and fuck her brains out AND I may decide to join in on the fun! Any suggestions to help us make this an easier and more pleasurable experience?
Hi, we are newbies to the life and need tips..
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Also we are ok with her kissing him but no anal at all.
Hi, good luck on your journey! We're just "dabblers" in the lifestyle. Started swaping with couples, and gravitated to mfm. I found with mfm, I could watch my wife - very exciting - and video, photo, join in, whatever. Works for us!
In our 'limited' experience, we have had better times meeting others at nude or lifestyle resorts. Using 'swinger' web sites, not as successful - although we have met a couple 'gems' on sites.
Do let your wife take the lead, and go with someone who she chooses as suitable, don't rush into it, or choosing someone. That will make chances for a positive outcome much better.
After our 1st experience, with a couple, when my wife sat up and said "that was fun, I want to do it again" - I smiled...
In our 'limited' experience, we have had better times meeting others at nude or lifestyle resorts. Using 'swinger' web sites, not as successful - although we have met a couple 'gems' on sites.
Do let your wife take the lead, and go with someone who she chooses as suitable, don't rush into it, or choosing someone. That will make chances for a positive outcome much better.
After our 1st experience, with a couple, when my wife sat up and said "that was fun, I want to do it again" - I smiled...
Thank you for the info. That was much needed and appreciated. Makes perfect sense and that's what I am gonna do .
December 2023, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.
If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.
I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.
I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
Make sure the two of you set your rules and expectations. End of it is it's for the two of yous enjoyment.
I know I am going to make some haters but, the other guy is just for a real dildo with cum and a pulse! Later u can work on what u two want long term.
As for ease of it. Like was mentioned finding guys online that will show up and/or be what they say is like playing the lottery. Might win that free ticket but jackpot is hard to win.
As said by someone else swing clubs, adult theater, nudest resorts all going to give real life meets easier than internet. Some the swinger sites will tell when hotel parties are and where.
If she is a flirty type, then things might be easy to pick up from bars.
As for you two, talk through it all. Before and after. Keep open communication, it's key to success
Communicate a lot about what you want out of this. We are normally inviting men over for me to play with. My husband will sometimes help me find suitable guys. I also have some regulars that i like. Let each other take the time to feel out what is good for them. Normally we host at our home and my husband is fine just watching to start. Normally he might take a video then jump in for a MFM or wait for sloppy seconds as this is his favorite. We are VERY laid back . You might find some guys on here but we normally use SLS or Doublelist for new guys.
Thanks for all the tips. They have been very helpful. This is something we want to do but are going to ease into it and take all of the advice to heart.
I will say if you really do this be prepared to see a side of her you never imagined.
Sounds like you've discussed this and you both want to try it.
She might get into it more than you're ready for.
We're mid 50s, we enjoy mfm fun with a guy we know semi regularly. At first I didn't like how she got SO INTO it with him. I'm good with it now but sometimes I think she likes it a little too much. But it is damn hot fun.
Sounds like you've discussed this and you both want to try it.
She might get into it more than you're ready for.
We're mid 50s, we enjoy mfm fun with a guy we know semi regularly. At first I didn't like how she got SO INTO it with him. I'm good with it now but sometimes I think she likes it a little too much. But it is damn hot fun.
make sure you both agreed and specially husband must ready for everything if bull demand something special than you have no right to stop
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