Hot role play, asking for input and ideas.

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I’ve read a good bit from this site, never posted until now.
Maybe my wife and I are a bit too vanilla for this site, but that doesn’t mean we’re 100% vanilla.
I have an incredible wife. She’s absolutely gorgeous, I most definitely married my dream girl.
We send naughty messages and pics throughout the day. I like to say the “crock pot” is always cooking. I think of her all day at work, can’t wait to get home to her at night.
We have a wonderful monogamous sex life, but our role play has escalated exponentially. Almost anything is on the table. It has evolved so that I play a double role: the caring, loving, supportive husband, then occasionally, I become “Peter”. He sends her incredibly detailed naughty messages, very coarse language, he makes plans, tells her he’s bringing or going to send friends. Peter comes over when her husband is not home and totally ravages her, uses completely different tactics, techniques, language, bondage, toys, etc. There’s absolutely nothing vanilla about it. Of course all of this with her husbands blessing. After Peter leaves, (and I return), she fills me in on every detail, and we have the most incredible reclamation sex.
“Peter” and I talk often, compare notes, trade stories, make plans to push boundaries.
The other day I threw out something I thought was very hot, then she said something that kicked things into overdrive.
I said something about Peter coming over, the she said “what if he told you he was coming to take me away for a few days, what would you say to that?” Pretty sure I leaked a little!
Later that night, I left for a bit, but I wrote and sent her a message to tell her how I would respond to that.
I was stunned by her reaction. She thinks it’s the hottest thing I’ve ever written. If I’d known she’d like it that much, I’d have done a better job of writing it. It is written as if I’m replying to Peter.
My wife and I would like to know what you all think about it.

Suppose Peter contacted me and said “I need to “borrow” your wife for a few days”:

First of all, I already know your intentions for her. There’s certainly no need to ask.
The standard rules still apply. Absolutely no kissing on the mouth by any males. (Females are excluded from the rule)
I must know the dates she’ll be gone so I can juggle her schedule, and make up credible stories for why she’s gone.
I must be told of her whereabouts at all times; knowing when she is traveling, and when she has safely arrived to every destination.
She will have access to her phone ANY time she wants. She will keep me updated on her progress and her condition when she has the opportunity. I will NOT bother her by calling and texting, I will wait for her to contact me.
The events must take place at least a hundred miles away to lessen the likelihood of running into anyone she may know, or anyone who may know her.
I would like her to be disguised as much as possible, wig, hair dye (temporary), eye glasses, etc to keep her from being recognized by any participants.
She must be properly prepared: hair, makeup, clothing, etc. I want her to look incredibly hot, totally irresistible!
I want three webcams in the room with her at all times. They must be able to be pointed, focused, and zoomed by my computer at home. No one else will be able to log in except me.
I want all three cameras recording also, just in case the internet should go down, I will still get a backup.
I strongly suggest when activities begin that she is blindfolded and led into the room. It may not happen, but I do not want to take the chance of her becoming overwhelmed. Also, I know she thrives on the uncertainty. Not knowing where she is going or what is about to happen will add to her intensity. I know she loves the feeling of hands on her body, not knowing how many hands will drive her off the charts. I know she loves being surrounded, and being the center of attention. You may remove her blindfold anytime after she has accepted her surroundings.
Most certainly, you will pay her very handsomely for her services, whatever amount she asks for with absolutely no negotiation. You will also tip her handsomely for a job well done. (20% is the proper amount). She will also accept tips from any individual participants.
No marks on her. (except for deep red hand prints on her ass)
Naughty name calling is allowed, even encouraged, but do not call her a bitch or the show is over.
Very importantly, there will be absolutely no cum IN or ON her pussy. That is my pussy! I love to eat it and I’m sure I will be eating it as soon as she is returned to me.
The recordings of ALL activities from ALL cameras must be given to me when she is delivered. You are allowed one copy, I will have one copy. Those will be the only two ever made.
She will be delivered safely home, into my arms, and I will see to it that she gets anything she needs to be comfortable while she is recovering, filling me in on every last detail as I reclaim every inch of her body.
Thanks for your feedback or ideas.
 
My wife and I used to go to bars and pretend we didn't know each other, then roleplay the fantasy of picking up and fucking a stranger in a bar. It was very hot. The first time we did it, we were so turned on and keen to get each others clothes off, that we had sex in the car in the pub car park. Which was witnessed by 2 or 3 people. Great fun.
 
My wife and I used to go to bars and pretend we didn't know each other, then roleplay the fantasy of picking up and fucking a stranger in a bar. It was very hot. The first time we did it, we were so turned on and keen to get each others clothes off, that we had sex in the car in the pub car park. Which was witnessed by 2 or 3 people. Great fun.
 
It is so much visible, that you want Peter to be other person. Otherwise part of the rules give more hassle than atmosphere.

As for input - I'd suggest that while with Peter your wife texts you and asks to break some of the rules e.g. kissing, cumming in ass/pussy, going to the shower together (to do something out of camera view).

Another idea: while your wife is with Peter - she turns into a dirty and craving slut and does things she never did to you - feet licking, rimming - anything goes.
 
Honestly, I don't like the term "borrowing" the wife, it's not really sexy. Perhaps a better angle is she's asked him to take her away on a short vacation and he has decided to do it. He's NOT ASKING you, he's telling you he's decided to give her what she wants. He will leave it up to you and her to decide how to proceed.

Honestly, all of those "rules"? What an energy sucking waste of time. She's not going to follow them nor is he. Just tell him you trust them to have a great time and do what's appropriate. After that, the control is in their hands and their not worried about your rules. I would never play under all of those rules. I would probably just agree and then do whatever I wanted to do. No kissing?? Honestly? No way a girl is spending a weekend with a guy she can't kiss. But don't worry, they'll tell you whatever you want to hear.
With all due respect to a very established member of this site, I feel the need to reply to your comments.
“Borrowing” is a word that she and I have used. It works for us. I have actually asked my wife what words she likes to hear and which ones she does not. It may not be sexy to others, and that’s perfectly ok.
As far as her asking him to take her on a short vacation: I take my wife on vacation. She gets that from me.
Personally, I like the fact that he and I “discuss” things, and make arrangements that are suitable for everyone. This has absolutely nothing to do with a vacation, this is solely about sex, and an opportunity for her to make money.
As far as rules being an “energy sucking waste of time”, I must disagree. These are rules that she and I have discussed and agreed upon before anything occurs. These are HER rules too, I’m implying my will on no one.
Rules are made for many reasons in many circumstances. “ I don’t mind if you do this, but I would appreciate it if you’d respect my wishes and not do this”. That’s life in general. As long as everyone knows ahead of time, it’s not a problem. If she or he decided not to follow the rules that we had all agreed upon, then someone is not of the character they should be. They are disrespecting OUR wishes, and this won’t happen again.
As far as you never playing under all of those rules, I understand. It’s not for you. Almost every “Rule” is in place for my wife’s safety. When you remove my wife’s safety from the equation, there are only TWO RULES left, and once again, those are HER rules as much as they are mine.
Kissing? I love my wife dearly. We have a very vivid and active imagination, but at the heart of it, we’re crazy in love with one another. Kissing is an intimate act that is exclusive to the two of us. Once again, agreed upon beforehand.
I have enjoyed being on sites like this, trolling for sexy ideas for the two of us to enjoy and act upon. It makes us crazy horny and we can’t keep our hands off each other.
There are so many posts I’ve read that simply don’t appeal to me for whatever reason. I’m definitely not submissive, I’ve never felt inferior to any man. If I read something about humiliation or abuse, I just skip it. There are many stories and situations that just don’t appeal to me. My wife is the same way. If she doesn’t like it, it’s not for us. I accept that there are people who do things differently than I do, and like things differently than my wife and I. That’s perfectly ok.
I’ve never felt the need to tell anyone how they’re doing it all wrong and we’re the only ones doing it right.
To each his own.
 
With all due respect to a very established member of this site, I feel the need to reply to your comments.
“Borrowing” is a word that she and I have used. It works for us. I have actually asked my wife what words she likes to hear and which ones she does not. It may not be sexy to others, and that’s perfectly ok.
As far as her asking him to take her on a short vacation: I take my wife on vacation. She gets that from me.
Personally, I like the fact that he and I “discuss” things, and make arrangements that are suitable for everyone. This has absolutely nothing to do with a vacation, this is solely about sex, and an opportunity for her to make money.
As far as rules being an “energy sucking waste of time”, I must disagree. These are rules that she and I have discussed and agreed upon before anything occurs. These are HER rules too, I’m implying my will on no one.
Rules are made for many reasons in many circumstances. “ I don’t mind if you do this, but I would appreciate it if you’d respect my wishes and not do this”. That’s life in general. As long as everyone knows ahead of time, it’s not a problem. If she or he decided not to follow the rules that we had all agreed upon, then someone is not of the character they should be. They are disrespecting OUR wishes, and this won’t happen again.
As far as you never playing under all of those rules, I understand. It’s not for you. Almost every “Rule” is in place for my wife’s safety. When you remove my wife’s safety from the equation, there are only TWO RULES left, and once again, those are HER rules as much as they are mine.
Kissing? I love my wife dearly. We have a very vivid and active imagination, but at the heart of it, we’re crazy in love with one another. Kissing is an intimate act that is exclusive to the two of us. Once again, agreed upon beforehand.
I have enjoyed being on sites like this, trolling for sexy ideas for the two of us to enjoy and act upon. It makes us crazy horny and we can’t keep our hands off each other.
There are so many posts I’ve read that simply don’t appeal to me for whatever reason. I’m definitely not submissive, I’ve never felt inferior to any man. If I read something about humiliation or abuse, I just skip it. There are many stories and situations that just don’t appeal to me. My wife is the same way. If she doesn’t like it, it’s not for us. I accept that there are people who do things differently than I do, and like things differently than my wife and I. That’s perfectly ok.
I’ve never felt the need to tell anyone how they’re doing it all wrong and we’re the only ones doing it right.
To each his own.
You are absolutely right live your kink your way 💪
 
Make roleplaying for real, find a real Peter and make your dream story come true, or… keep dreaming. It's all about desires, dreams, frustrations, cheating is born of desire and frustration from unfulfilled desires, if she likes it, in the end it will happen in reality, with or without your will and knowledge, if you agree to share her with another men, all the better for both of you and your love.
I tried to do a real role play last night, we were out having a drink we were sitting by the bar, I spotted a friend of ours sitting at a table on the other side of the bar so I went over and chatted, his wife went to chat with my wife but she didn't stay long with her. my wife was sitting alone and this guy hit on her so they chatted a bit and when I came back the guy tried to excuse himself but I said it was cool, I can share her with you, I share her often with guys, he got all flustered and walked away. oh well no playing last night.
 
So, what if your "no pussy" rule led to her being taken in the ass all weekend long? Or the first three times were in her ass until she insisted that they use her pussy instead? How would you feel if she broke the rules for the sake of her comfort?
 
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So, what if your "no pussy" rule led to her being taken in the ass all weekend long? Or the first three times were in her ass until she insisted that they use her pussy instead? How would you feel if she broke the rules for the sake of her comfort?
That’s not what I said. I said no cum in pussy
 
I tried to do a real role play last night, we were out having a drink we were sitting by the bar, I spotted a friend of ours sitting at a table on the other side of the bar so I went over and chatted, his wife went to chat with my wife but she didn't stay long with her. my wife was sitting alone and this guy hit on her so they chatted a bit and when I came back the guy tried to excuse himself but I said it was cool, I can share her with you, I share her often with guys, he got all flustered and walked away. oh well no playing last night.
I could see where that would spook him a bit! I teased a guy once about his wife and before I knew it, he was telling me to clean her up before sending her home. Wasn’t expecting that one!
 
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If my man does not share me, we usually do roleplay. This way it still creates the illusion that I am doing it with another man.

Especially the more dominante role plays are great.

The one I love is when he pretents to be a thief breaking into my house. I then catch him and just dominate and command him.
He has to make me cum via oral with his hands tied behind his back or he can’t cum.

This site https://lustnerd.com/ has so many ideas and we are trying to get through almost all of their roleplay suggestions.

I would love to hear some more dominante role play ideas.
 
We role play a lot and his favorite is when I find a video on pornhub of a man talking/moaning (just search loud male moaning and some will come up.) I play that while I ride my most realistic dildo and sick his sick at the same time. I make sure he has a good view of the dildo going in and I respond to the man in the video. If he says. “I’m going to cum in that pussy.” I make my husband verbally give him permission and then I beg for it. I’d say hubby lasts about 5 minutes. Then we have reclamation sex. He always says that I may be a slut for other men, but I’m his good girl and that my pussy is his when it’s all said and done.
We may not be actually sharing, but it’s pretty hot.
 
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With all due respect to a very established member of this site, I feel the need to reply to your comments.
“Borrowing” is a word that she and I have used. It works for us. I have actually asked my wife what words she likes to hear and which ones she does not. It may not be sexy to others, and that’s perfectly ok.
As far as her asking him to take her on a short vacation: I take my wife on vacation. She gets that from me.
Personally, I like the fact that he and I “discuss” things, and make arrangements that are suitable for everyone. This has absolutely nothing to do with a vacation, this is solely about sex, and an opportunity for her to make money.
As far as rules being an “energy sucking waste of time”, I must disagree. These are rules that she and I have discussed and agreed upon before anything occurs. These are HER rules too, I’m implying my will on no one.
Rules are made for many reasons in many circumstances. “ I don’t mind if you do this, but I would appreciate it if you’d respect my wishes and not do this”. That’s life in general. As long as everyone knows ahead of time, it’s not a problem. If she or he decided not to follow the rules that we had all agreed upon, then someone is not of the character they should be. They are disrespecting OUR wishes, and this won’t happen again.
As far as you never playing under all of those rules, I understand. It’s not for you. Almost every “Rule” is in place for my wife’s safety. When you remove my wife’s safety from the equation, there are only TWO RULES left, and once again, those are HER rules as much as they are mine.
Kissing? I love my wife dearly. We have a very vivid and active imagination, but at the heart of it, we’re crazy in love with one another. Kissing is an intimate act that is exclusive to the two of us. Once again, agreed upon beforehand.
I have enjoyed being on sites like this, trolling for sexy ideas for the two of us to enjoy and act upon. It makes us crazy horny and we can’t keep our hands off each other.
There are so many posts I’ve read that simply don’t appeal to me for whatever reason. I’m definitely not submissive, I’ve never felt inferior to any man. If I read something about humiliation or abuse, I just skip it. There are many stories and situations that just don’t appeal to me. My wife is the same way. If she doesn’t like it, it’s not for us. I accept that there are people who do things differently than I do, and like things differently than my wife and I. That’s perfectly ok.
I’ve never felt the need to tell anyone how they’re doing it all wrong and we’re the only ones doing anguished right.
To each his own.
Geez, fuckin RELAX, will you? NO need to write all this.....anguished bullshit over a single word.
Take a fuckin pill & chill out.
 
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I followed the advice from another posting and got my wife the book called - The Faithful Hotwife - off the Amazon site.
My wife was/is pretty much vanilla, and wanted no part of this lifestyle because she thought doing if for real was a No Go for her, and she had no ideas of how to do the roleplay thing. But this book changed that and she is now really into roleplaying beinga hot wife by taking these hot wife challenges in the book, which somehow takes the pressure off her as she is now just following the challenges in this book.
She wasnt before into toys, but now has a small collection of vibrators and realistic dildos that act as her lovers while she sometimes makes me watch or do whatever the challenge calls for. It's been life changing for her, and a lot of fun for me.
Will she ever go further and actually go out and fuck another guy? I dont know, but so far this is great for both of us.
 
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I’ve read a good bit from this site, never posted until now.
Maybe my wife and I are a bit too vanilla for this site, but that doesn’t mean we’re 100% vanilla.
I have an incredible wife. She’s absolutely gorgeous, I most definitely married my dream girl.
We send naughty messages and pics throughout the day. I like to say the “crock pot” is always cooking. I think of her all day at work, can’t wait to get home to her at night.
We have a wonderful monogamous sex life, but our role play has escalated exponentially. Almost anything is on the table. It has evolved so that I play a double role: the caring, loving, supportive husband, then occasionally, I become “Peter”. He sends her incredibly detailed naughty messages, very coarse language, he makes plans, tells her he’s bringing or going to send friends. Peter comes over when her husband is not home and totally ravages her, uses completely different tactics, techniques, language, bondage, toys, etc. There’s absolutely nothing vanilla about it. Of course all of this with her husbands blessing. After Peter leaves, (and I return), she fills me in on every detail, and we have the most incredible reclamation sex.
“Peter” and I talk often, compare notes, trade stories, make plans to push boundaries.
The other day I threw out something I thought was very hot, then she said something that kicked things into overdrive.
I said something about Peter coming over, the she said “what if he told you he was coming to take me away for a few days, what would you say to that?” Pretty sure I leaked a little!
Later that night, I left for a bit, but I wrote and sent her a message to tell her how I would respond to that.
I was stunned by her reaction. She thinks it’s the hottest thing I’ve ever written. If I’d known she’d like it that much, I’d have done a better job of writing it. It is written as if I’m replying to Peter.
My wife and I would like to know what you all think about it.

Suppose Peter contacted me and said “I need to “borrow” your wife for a few days”:

First of all, I already know your intentions for her. There’s certainly no need to ask.
The standard rules still apply. Absolutely no kissing on the mouth by any males. (Females are excluded from the rule)
I must know the dates she’ll be gone so I can juggle her schedule, and make up credible stories for why she’s gone.
I must be told of her whereabouts at all times; knowing when she is traveling, and when she has safely arrived to every destination.
She will have access to her phone ANY time she wants. She will keep me updated on her progress and her condition when she has the opportunity. I will NOT bother her by calling and texting, I will wait for her to contact me.
The events must take place at least a hundred miles away to lessen the likelihood of running into anyone she may know, or anyone who may know her.
I would like her to be disguised as much as possible, wig, hair dye (temporary), eye glasses, etc to keep her from being recognized by any participants.
She must be properly prepared: hair, makeup, clothing, etc. I want her to look incredibly hot, totally irresistible!
I want three webcams in the room with her at all times. They must be able to be pointed, focused, and zoomed by my computer at home. No one else will be able to log in except me.
I want all three cameras recording also, just in case the internet should go down, I will still get a backup.
I strongly suggest when activities begin that she is blindfolded and led into the room. It may not happen, but I do not want to take the chance of her becoming overwhelmed. Also, I know she thrives on the uncertainty. Not knowing where she is going or what is about to happen will add to her intensity. I know she loves the feeling of hands on her body, not knowing how many hands will drive her off the charts. I know she loves being surrounded, and being the center of attention. You may remove her blindfold anytime after she has accepted her surroundings.
Most certainly, you will pay her very handsomely for her services, whatever amount she asks for with absolutely no negotiation. You will also tip her handsomely for a job well done. (20% is the proper amount). She will also accept tips from any individual participants.
No marks on her. (except for deep red hand prints on her ass)
Naughty name calling is allowed, even encouraged, but do not call her a bitch or the show is over.
Very importantly, there will be absolutely no cum IN or ON her pussy. That is my pussy! I love to eat it and I’m sure I will be eating it as soon as she is returned to me.
The recordings of ALL activities from ALL cameras must be given to me when she is delivered. You are allowed one copy, I will have one copy. Those will be the only two ever made.
She will be delivered safely home, into my arms, and I will see to it that she gets anything she needs to be comfortable while she is recovering, filling me in on every last detail as I reclaim every inch of her body.
Thanks for your feedback or ideas.
What worked for me... and my wife was getting her this hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife - which is all about getting started in hw role-playing.
I've suggested this to others that are having trouble getting their vanilla wives interested or even considering this lifestyle role-playing and this was the first success I had after I told her about my fantasy.
The book was about $3 on Amazon, but i previewed it for free first. This is the only hw book my wife would actually read because it was written by a woman seeing this from their perspective, which I also enjoyed learning.
I don't have anything to do with the book but enjoy telling others about it because it really worked for my wife's journey, and mine.
 
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What worked for me... and my wife was getting her this hw manual called The Faithful Hotwife - which is all about getting started in hw role-playing.
I've suggested this to others that are having trouble getting their vanilla wives interested or even considering this lifestyle role-playing and this was the first success I had after I told her about my fantasy.
The book was about $3 on Amazon, but i previewed it for free first. This is the only hw book my wife would actually read because it was written by a woman seeing this from their perspective, which I also enjoyed learning.
I don't have anything to do with the book but enjoy telling others about it because it really worked for my wife's journey, and mine.
I agree, we have the same book,
The HW challenges in the book is leading her along at her own pace. Some simple as dressing sexier, getting to wear an anklet, and others pretty advanced such as trips to buy sex toys and a lot of roleplaying.
Some of the things she would never even think to do are now OK because she's just following the challenge... such as making me jerk off for her while she tells me about a lover fucking her, or performing cleanup duties on her, to even forcing me suck her dildo. She used to be very timid sexually speaking, but with performing thise challenges she has turned into a super hotwife, even if for now only in roleplaying.
 
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