Yes, she respects me and does not consider me a beta male. On the contrary, it takes a very confident and secure man to condone sharing his wife. I have never felt threatened by another male in this respect and the wife has never made any sort of comparison that might make me feel inferior to one of her lovers. I do have sex with other women, we have tried MMF, MFMF, and FFM scenarios. My preference is to watch her play.