I don't have an exact count before me. We met when she was 21 and she had partied hard from 18 to 21 and wasn't sure how many boy toys she had. Her best estimate was around thirty before me. For then next 15 years, it was just me as far as I know. Though there have been plenty of opportunities for her to cheat if she wanted to. If she played during that time, it is what it is. She became an official hotwife three and a half years ago and has been with 22 other men during that time. We have a very busy life and her play happens in waves. She can go months without extracurricular play and then fuck several men over a few week period of time. She always puts her family first and when things are busy, her play stops. I wish there was a better balance between meeting her needs and the family, but she has her priorities right! She is an amazing woman!
She will be mid forties when we become empty nesters and I know she will have plenty of time for endless fun then. Watch out bulls!!