The key word in the question is "men." I was a pretty promiscuous teen, liked the attention I got from the boys in middle and high school and didn't make them work to hard to get in my knickers ... did a lot of crazy stuff too. But they were just boys and I don't count them any more. My husband was the first man I had sex with, not because of his age (he's actually a bit younger than me) but our first time together completely rejiggered what I thought I knew about sex. For most of our 35 years together I played the upright, faithful wife and hid my dirty little secret past. Since we went down the hotwife/wife sharing path a few years ago though it's been six other men. Husband has been there and participated at various levels for all of them. Unfortunately the universe seems to be conspiring against us and that may be the final total :-(