if he was smaller than you, it not really cuckold, it just her getting stray cock, isn't it???
I have always said that if you asked 100 couples to define the lifestyle, you would get 100 different answers. Every couple has their own likes, dislikes, preferences, rules, and guidelines and they are each unique to that couple.
We have had the good fortune to travel to many regional and national lifestyle conventions and we have met hundreds of lifestyle couples. The two most prominent questions when lifestyle couples meet for the first time are, "How did you get started in the lifestyle?" and "What are you two into?". The answers are always different from one couple to the next.
We have had the good fortune to travel to many regional and national lifestyle conventions and we have met hundreds of lifestyle couples. The two most prominent questions when lifestyle couples meet for the first time are, "How did you get started in the lifestyle?" and "What are you two into?". The answers are always different from one couple to the next.
Correct. I have not met many other couples, just a few at sex parties. But I do what works for me and everyone should do what works for them.
I know that some marriages cannot withstand lifestyle. But it’s not so much because of the lifestyle as it is because of them.
monogamous marriages fail as well, and I’m pretty sure it’s not because they were monogamous.
The bottom line here is when you enter into the Cuckold Lifestyle as a male you are giving your female partner your sexuality.
She can lock you up,etc. You have given her the power to do as she pleases sexually.
Now with that said a discussion should have been had before you go forward with basic ground rules.
Also where you are in life dictates what you can and can't do, such as family and job obligations.
As far as unruly bulls they just need to be shoved out the door.
People that constantly have this problem are not doing a good job of articulating what their expectations are.
Too many people want to be in the hotwife,cuckold and swinging scene.
They are all different lifestyles and you cannot be all things to all lifestyles.
Another problem on this site, there are too many bullshitting about lifestyles that they never have been in and
are clueless.
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I try to stick to my experience. Different strokes for different folks.
My rules are very few. Respect. But basically my wife decides what she wants to do and with whom and when.
My rules are very few. Respect. But basically my wife decides what she wants to do and with whom and when.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
PatWithWings
Male
It is high risk.
The intensity is wildly intoxicating and pushes both wife and husband to push it deeper and deeper. The wife may well get obsessed with the other man, feeling she is madly in love and lust with him. At first this can fuel the arousal but later it can destroy your relationship.
It can easily break marriages.
High risk.
Wendy
Female
Husband has problems he begged me to cuckold him so that I would not go without
I didn't want to at first but it's the best thing ever for both of us.
He is now fully bi and in his words the best sex he has ever had
I didn't want to at first but it's the best thing ever for both of us.
He is now fully bi and in his words the best sex he has ever had
play with fire and you may get burn. stay away from fire and you me freeze to death. the real question is, would a women who feels safe and secure have the desire to meet random strangers, with all the associated risks, when there are a plethora of toys that can get the job done, and be back to instagram?
There are risk but let’s not blow it out of proportion. Look at the divorce rate of non cuckold marriages. Maybe we are safer in a cuckold marriage.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
Agreed. The devil is in the detail, whether the marriage is a cuckold one or not. The important issues (for both) is communication, and having agree rules/boundaries in the relationship.
Also, it is worth considering the risk of going straight from birth to grave without anything more exciting than brushing your teeth
We cannot help you with that answer truly. For one we aren't a cuckold couple. We don't enjoy the aspects of cuckolding. We are in a Stag/Vixen lifestyle. But, I also don't think that could truly be answered that someone left because of cuckolding either.
Marriages fail for many reasons, no surprise there. But if you and your significant other are on the same page in your marriage and it's built on a good foundation, then I would say it "should" be fine. A lot, and I mean a lot of people do this for the wrong reasons, same as swingers. Thinking it can help "save" a marriage.
Our marriage is amazing. We only do it to enhance it. At anytime, if either one of us wants to opt out, we stop completely. Ask yourself, is this marriage on solid ground? Is there a possibility of cheating without permission going to happen anyway?
If it's something you both truly have an interest in and have talked about it to go along with the fact that your marriage is solid, then you should be alright.
Marriages fail for many reasons, no surprise there. But if you and your significant other are on the same page in your marriage and it's built on a good foundation, then I would say it "should" be fine. A lot, and I mean a lot of people do this for the wrong reasons, same as swingers. Thinking it can help "save" a marriage.
Our marriage is amazing. We only do it to enhance it. At anytime, if either one of us wants to opt out, we stop completely. Ask yourself, is this marriage on solid ground? Is there a possibility of cheating without permission going to happen anyway?
If it's something you both truly have an interest in and have talked about it to go along with the fact that your marriage is solid, then you should be alright.
DevotedCuck4Her
Couple
Agreed. But its also worth considering going from birth to grave with a series of failed relationships due to not communicating sufficiently and not setting mutually agreed ground rules to ensure that your primary relationship is not put at risk.
Its not a black or white, do or don't scenario. The success or failure is ALL in the detail.
If you don't have a solid marriage to start with this lifestyle could be very damaging to a couple. If it's strong you still need the communication to be totally transparent, no surprises, keep nothing from the other half.
Toys have basically cuck me I lick and she uses a lot of different dildos
We have a few rules. We BOTH have veto power regardless of our reason. Secondly this is just sex and Mrs Suncoast wants it that way. She has zero interest in sleep overs,. Mr Suncoast is always there watching or participating for fun as well as her safety. This may not apply to your situation but it works for us and we are stronger now than ever.
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