In my experience MFM is harder to find than cuckolding

This. we're on a couple sites. no shortage of messages from males. Sadly, seems like most singles on such sites never matured beyond 15-16 years old. Won't read your profile preferences, etc. Or, if you do happen to meet - and make it as far as the bedroom - act like they've never been laid before...
I am sure there is no a big difference between MFM and MF in that case.
 
Understand completely. Once we find a good one we keep him in the rotation. Finding a good one can take a lot of effort. Lots of guys can talk the talk but when it comes times to actually participating it can be a different story altogether. I have read this from another couple on here but you will likely find better quality on paid sites such as SLS etc. Free means anyone who has access to the internet will be messaging you. Paid are usually more sane and serious. But once from a paid site we actually had a guy show up and he literally did not know how to have sex. He was from a different country and i think maybe his society prevented sex before marriage etc. Anyway keep it up and you will find a good one !


We are on a couple paid sites definitely getting a lot of mail reply’s. But also not a lot of follow through. Sadly
 
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I have had several MFM. Most men don’t like their cocks rubbing against another cock so they don’t want DP. Improvisation needs to be made. My MFM consists of one cock in my mouth and another in my pussy. It’s actually my favorite thing to do. We do get most of our MFM action from other swingers.
I would love another cock rubbing mine inside you. Hell add a couple more men for my ass and mouth
 
So if you were able to set up a MFM and you were one of the men, in this case the other male is a friend of ours. Looking for best experience for everyone, do the men in here usually jerk off once before the encounter to help last longer when it starts? I tend to get excited about these things and if I were to jerk off an hour or so before I know I would be able to go for duration. My wife gets aroused when I cum so I could likely cum sooner if I did not but feel it may take longer for me to recover to get "back in the game". so there are all three of us active in the threesome. Any advice here?
 
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So if you were able to set up a MFM and you were one of the men, in this case the other male is a friend of ours. Looking for best experience for everyone, do the men in here usually jerk off once before the encounter to help last longer when it starts? I tend to get excited about these things and if I were to jerk off an hour or so before I know I would be able to go for duration. My wife gets aroused when I cum so I could likely cum sooner if I did not but feel it may take longer for me to recover to get "back in the game". so there are all three of us active in the threesome. Any advice here?
So if you were able to set up a MFM and you were one of the men, in this case the other male is a friend of ours. Looking for best experience for everyone, do the men in here usually jerk off once before the encounter to help last longer when it starts? I tend to get excited about these things and if I were to jerk off an hour or so before I know I would be able to go for duration. My wife gets aroused when I cum so I could likely cum sooner if I did not but feel it may take longer for me to recover to get "back in the game". so there are all three of us active in the threesome. Any advice here?
The more cum the better. Skip the pre-encounter jerk, and just do it more than once.
 
So if you were able to set up a MFM and you were one of the men, in this case the other male is a friend of ours. Looking for best experience for everyone, do the men in here usually jerk off once before the encounter to help last longer when it starts? I tend to get excited about these things and if I were to jerk off an hour or so before I know I would be able to go for duration. My wife gets aroused when I cum so I could likely cum sooner if I did not but feel it may take longer for me to recover to get "back in the game". so there are all three of us active in the threesome. Any advice here?
This is really a trial and error problem. Unless you suffer serious premature ejaculation Id just go with the flow. I find I do cum quicker in an MFM situation than in a 1 on 1 but I also reload and get "back in the game" quicker as well. Keep in mind even an all night MFM isn't constant sex. Even the wife needs to rest and recuperate.
 
Our 1st 3sum was easy. We weren't looking for one, it just happened.
But after that finding someone to join us in a 3sum was more difficult.
Our first 3sum went fairly smooth considering I snuck a friend in our bed room to watch but the wife an I had been talking about it for a yr before it happened and boy she was hooked it lasted 10yrs but after he moved and I tried to find another person things would start out good but then a lot of guys would try and get her to meet alone and so we wouldn't hook up or they weren't available alot those I think were the cheaters and some just wanted phone sex it took awhile till we found someone we got alongI with and hooked up
 
Our first 3sum went fairly smooth considering I snuck a friend in our bed room to watch but the wife an I had been talking about it for a yr before it happened and boy she was hooked it lasted 10yrs but after he moved and I tried to find another person things would start out good but then a lot of guys would try and get her to meet alone and so we wouldn't hook up or they weren't available alot those I think were the cheaters and some just wanted phone sex it took awhile till we found someone we got alongI with and hooked up

Our first 3sum went fairly smooth considering I snuck a friend in our bed room to watch but the wife an I had been talking about it for a yr before it happened and boy she was hooked it lasted 10yrs but after he moved and I tried to find another person things would start out good but then a lot of guys would try and get her to meet alone and so we wouldn't hook up or they weren't available alot those I think were the cheaters and some just wanted phone sex it took awhile till we found someone we got alongI with and hooked up


Sounds similar to what we are dealing with.
 
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Both are a lot more difficult that most people would think. But from personal experience, we find it harder to find an experienced qualified Bull than it is to find a 2nd male for casual MFM.

We have picked up quite a few single guys over the years for threesome fun, but have only scored 4 men in 25 years who could comptently play the role of Dominant Alpha Bull to our satisfaction.

There is a lot to playing the role of Bull and we find that most guys just aren't up to it.