So if you were able to set up a MFM and you were one of the men, in this case the other male is a friend of ours. Looking for best experience for everyone, do the men in here usually jerk off once before the encounter to help last longer when it starts? I tend to get excited about these things and if I were to jerk off an hour or so before I know I would be able to go for duration. My wife gets aroused when I cum so I could likely cum sooner if I did not but feel it may take longer for me to recover to get "back in the game". so there are all three of us active in the threesome. Any advice here?