I guess my point is that there are a lot of guys who are also “wives” posting. It’s almost as funny as people going along with it and feigning credulity.
Fakers and fake posts are what ruins this site and other sites for me. Usually the extreme posts set off a warning light for me. I have a hard time believing that people that supposedly love each other can be so uncaring and cruel. I get that there are “outliers“ and some of the things I see/read are possibly true even when it seems impossible to me. Ultimately it’s my filter that accepts or rejects what I believe to be true.
My quest has always been to find women/couples that have a successful hotwife lifestyle that has worked over the duration of their marriage. I want to know how they made it work and kept each other excited, motivated and wanting to keep it going. I’m not looking for some ”one-sided” unrealistic explanation. I often shake my head at things like “permanent“ denial (of any and all kinds), unabated cruelty and diminishing the “value” of a spouse. I just don’t see the sustained thrill in giving or receiving that kind of attention.
So, when I think I “do” see something that looks like the information I’m looking for, I want to believe it. I often want to give the benefit of the doubt. Oftentimes, the lies are exposed, the thread dies and the fakers disappear. Sometimes, the posts are genuine and such a departure from my reality that I struggle to believe them. I’m not here to jack-off, I’m here to learn something.