We discussed what I wanted and how it made me feel when she did those things. I've been reinforcing that each time she does something that involves cuckolding me. She has actually been somewhat receptive to them. She enjoyed the one experience she had with another guy recently, though he had a hard time performing. We experimented in the past, but I jade a hard time dealing with the emotions, so we stopped. She did give me reasons, to include my previous issues, but I think I have gotten her past that recently. We have a loving relationship that still involves lots of cuddling, open communication, and having sex somewhat often, though her recent interactions with other men have made her want me more often too. I'm 41 and she is 36. Currently she is sexting with a 23 yr old guy.