Hey there everyone!
So I made an introduction post a while ago, but circumstances have changed. I am still with the same woman, but a lot else has changed, So I am just going to redo this!
I am a 25 year old man living in Southern California with my 22 year old GF. We are about 2 1/2 years into a very serious relationship. We both intend to get married to each other. Our relationships has had its ups and downs. Earlier this year we took a short break from each other for a variety of unrelated reasons, but we are back together and things have been stronger than ever!!
Now that the boring context is done, I wanted to ask the opinion of you all. Through our first year together we were spending a ton of time exploring each other's sexuality and it was great. It was around this time I also ran the idea of a threesome by her and even eventually a gangbang and she was into the idea for each. It was so exciting for me. I figured I would start with something like a MMF threesome to see how the ENM stuff really made me feel. But as we kept discussing it over the next couple weeks/months, she told me that she just wasn't quite comfortable with another guy. We discussed it and why she feels that way. She said its mostly just that she wants to feel safe with a man, but that takes several dates to get to that point. Several dates she doesn't really want to go on since shes only really interested in me.
I didn't mention it for a while and we ended up taking our break before the topic was brought up again. When we got back together there was a passing joke made about sharting her and we both laughed it of and agreed it was time to rehabilitate our relationship, not to try new things just yet. Since then its been almost a year and it hasn't yet come up. But I feel like we are ready and I really want to try it. I also think knowing things now it might be better to just tell her outright that I would like to be either a cuckold or a stag. That way we can at least more accurately hone in on what the end goal is, rather then spending time following a kink I am not really into (MMF threesoms) just to kind of dance around it. This way maybe I can get her a dildo and feel around by watching cuckold porn while she uses the dildo. Or tell me about her past experiences while we play...
Part of it is that I am worried about the stigma. So I am worried to just tell her outright that I want to try cuckoldry. So I would like some tips. Does my approach sound like a decent one? Also any resources to look into or things to try? What should I watch out for and what should I make sure I discuss with her?
Feel free to dm or respond here. Thank you!!
So I made an introduction post a while ago, but circumstances have changed. I am still with the same woman, but a lot else has changed, So I am just going to redo this!
I am a 25 year old man living in Southern California with my 22 year old GF. We are about 2 1/2 years into a very serious relationship. We both intend to get married to each other. Our relationships has had its ups and downs. Earlier this year we took a short break from each other for a variety of unrelated reasons, but we are back together and things have been stronger than ever!!
Now that the boring context is done, I wanted to ask the opinion of you all. Through our first year together we were spending a ton of time exploring each other's sexuality and it was great. It was around this time I also ran the idea of a threesome by her and even eventually a gangbang and she was into the idea for each. It was so exciting for me. I figured I would start with something like a MMF threesome to see how the ENM stuff really made me feel. But as we kept discussing it over the next couple weeks/months, she told me that she just wasn't quite comfortable with another guy. We discussed it and why she feels that way. She said its mostly just that she wants to feel safe with a man, but that takes several dates to get to that point. Several dates she doesn't really want to go on since shes only really interested in me.
I didn't mention it for a while and we ended up taking our break before the topic was brought up again. When we got back together there was a passing joke made about sharting her and we both laughed it of and agreed it was time to rehabilitate our relationship, not to try new things just yet. Since then its been almost a year and it hasn't yet come up. But I feel like we are ready and I really want to try it. I also think knowing things now it might be better to just tell her outright that I would like to be either a cuckold or a stag. That way we can at least more accurately hone in on what the end goal is, rather then spending time following a kink I am not really into (MMF threesoms) just to kind of dance around it. This way maybe I can get her a dildo and feel around by watching cuckold porn while she uses the dildo. Or tell me about her past experiences while we play...
Part of it is that I am worried about the stigma. So I am worried to just tell her outright that I want to try cuckoldry. So I would like some tips. Does my approach sound like a decent one? Also any resources to look into or things to try? What should I watch out for and what should I make sure I discuss with her?
Feel free to dm or respond here. Thank you!!
