Our first fight since starting the lifestyle.
- Thread starter Lisa and Nick
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We still live together in our apartment. He has no clue.
Do you think you'll stay together for much longer? Is he talking to you at all?
What would you propose to Nick as a condition for you both to stay together and stay married??
Then it’s time to reevaluate the lifestyle.
Nicks concern may be your safety and some breach of communication when the other four got involved. If that’s the case then he has a point.
Letting me go back to being a hot wife again, where I make my own decisions.
I'll bet they are really short conversations. Are you thinking he'll get over it? Does he seem defeated and hopeless?
Have you really stopped being a hot wife? It sounds like you're doing what you want to do. If you lose Nick will it be as fun for you to continue?
yeah. it's tough! he isn't too talkative about our relationship.
Would he be able to do the same? That is, could he sleep around too or would it be a situation where you keep him in chastity and he is required to clean you etc.??
If things turn really toxic Nick could make you really miserable couldn't he? Does that worry you?
This whole thing could blow up big time. Could Nick affect your Yoga business by leaking info on your lifestyle? How would your family (blood relatives) react if they found out? All of this has to be putting a damper on the real fun you could be having. Once again, would this be as fun without Nick? Does having Nick as a husband make this more fun for you? It sounds like Nick is really regretting this.
If I was in Nicks place you would never have had this problem. He should drop to his knees and beg your forgiveness. It sounds like you need to learn how to use a cane. Nick needs to either man up and put on pants and leave you or put on a dress and grovel at your feet offering total obedience.
Nick is messing up what we had!! Sure, he could affect my business and our family lives, but he would be outing himself too!
I'll bet Nick goes full-on passive aggressive and burns this to the ground. He's probably feeling like a caged animal that's not ready to drink the Kool-Aid just yet.
