Thanks for the advice. But lets go slow here and take an obective non emotional look at it. As I know her 2 years and so my family and her best friends do: She is not a narcist. Not at all. She is very endearing and lovely and never, really never thinks about herself at the first place. She is not manipulative at all. Never. Of course you read the story here about her ex via the internet, but there is nothing in detail you can get to know about her personality etc. At the end she knows she can't get anything from me, even if we merry. I made that point very early.
I look at the matter soberly. She has decided to start a new life with me. She leaves her city. She brings me to the wedding of her best friend. I am with her family on Christmas. Not her ex. There are no romantic chats they have at all. The confirmed its over. I don't make too big a deal about it.
If anything serious happens I will know and react accordingly. But from what I saw it won't and there is nothing I should really worry about.
I look at the matter soberly. She has decided to start a new life with me. She leaves her city. She brings me to the wedding of her best friend. I am with her family on Christmas. Not her ex. There are no romantic chats they have at all. The confirmed its over. I don't make too big a deal about it.
If anything serious happens I will know and react accordingly. But from what I saw it won't and there is nothing I should really worry about.