Should I encourage her?

[GlendaleAvg]

First post here so bare with me. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 2 years now and everything is going great however we have been doing Long Distance for the better half of 6 months ever since she got a job in Europe.

When she first arrived she was having fun, exploring, meeting new people, etc. However we got into an big argument one time when she told me she went out and was flirting with a guy at the bar. She did tell me he kept trying to touch her and she denied his advances but still felt excitement over it. She said it won’t happen again and wanted to tell me because she didn’t want secrets between us. I was confused after this because part of me was angry but the other part was turned on after hearing how he kept trying to touch her.

Fast forward to yesterday, we had a discussion about intimacy because she said it’s hard since we’re in a long distance relationship. She also admitted to me she has recently been fantasizing about flirting with guys at the bar and talking to someone new. I told her if she wants a one time hookup she can go for it. During our discussion she told me she didn’t want to because it sounds weird and it’ll make her feel terrible on how it would make me feel. She also told me if she were to do it she doesn’t like the idea of me flirting/ having sex with someone else because it would make her jealous.

Should I tell her I want her to flirt and hookup with another guy? Also what do you think of the situation I’m in? Thanks a million!

 

[Machoativo60s]

A opinião dos outros não importa. O importante é se houver troca de parceiro para flirt , isso dá tesão/vontade aos 2 ou não ? Que a aventura não termine em uma briga entre vocês , isso não.

 

[generoushub]

Definitely go for it as long as you're comfortable. She deserves someone filling her up if you're not there. If she's worried about developing feelings ask her to get a different guy each time. It's emotionally simpler.

 

[Sandycheeks4242]

Depends! Can we see some pics?

 

[Cuckwanttobe]

I think you should encourage her to flirt with guys and see where it leads.

 

[sri65]

She has a job in Europe and has been gone for six months...probably chances of returning are slim. So you guys are doing a dis-service to each other by clinging on to hope. Both of you should move on, or one of you should move to be closer. Any such flirting will lead to break up for sure.

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

She has a job in Europe and has been gone for six months...probably chances of returning are slim. So you guys are doing a dis-service to each other by clinging on to hope. Both of you should move on, or one of you should move to be closer. Any such flirting will lead to break up for sure.

Agreed 100%

She has shown that she has a healthy open and honest mindset. But LDR is tricky, at best.
You are in a place of being mostly out of sight/out of mind and if she is flirting and talking to new people; it is not because she shares your specific fantasies but is feeling the strain of Distance and is thinking of moving on, but not at that point of feeling certain about moving on.
If she finds a person that fills the absence of you, though - it will create that certainty.

 

[shymalea62]

first of all you should know she loves it or otherwise she never told it to you,so you can do 2things,encourage her and stay in a hot relationship or don,t and get used to be single.Youmust confess you love her so much and don,t want to loose her,than confess you were really turned on thinking how she was seducing&flirting with men,than ask her very obedient to do it again,and in return you do anything she wants from you,just ask her to put something more risky&sexy on and afterwards tell you everything,i,m sure she,s gonna be a bit mad you asking her to do this,but she,s gonna do it!let us know

 

[chaseasl]

That's a personal choice but if your comfortable with it then definitely let her know your ok with it and you don't need to see anyone else.

 

[btweets]

The fact that she was openly honest with you and told you what you would have otherwise never known is a huge deal!! That’s often very rare and she’s definitely a keeper!!! Well for as long as you possibly can anyway!! I can’t help but get the feeling that she’s testing you out to see where you stand and how you respond to what she’s telling you now and getting a good idea of how you would react if she were to continue being honest but about something more. She wants to know if it upsets you or turns you on, and she wants to know that if she did follow through with her fantasies, that you could handle it as long as she’s completely honest about it, and that she also knows that you wouldn’t use that as an excuse or revenge for you to fuck another woman!! You have what so many men can only dream of having!! So in my opinion, considering that there’s a fairly high chance that you two might not be able to make a LDR last and survive, you really have nothing to lose and so much to gain!! Let her know that you found it exciting when she told you about it and that you could only imagine how much more it would, if she had even more details to tell you and to make certain that she knows that as long as she never hides anything from you and that she always tells you all the details honestly, that you wouldn’t and don’t have any desire to be with another woman and that you would get your sexual gratification vicariously through her!!

 

[Cuckwanttobe]

Any updates?

 

[CONST65]

The fact that she was openly honest with you and told you what you would have otherwise never known is a huge deal!! That’s often very rare and she’s definitely a keeper!!! Well for as long as you possibly can anyway!! I can’t help but get the feeling that she’s testing you out to see where you stand and how you respond to what she’s telling you now and getting a good idea of how you would react if she were to continue being honest but about something more. She wants to know if it upsets you or turns you on, and she wants to know that if she did follow through with her fantasies, that you could handle it as long as she’s completely honest about it, and that she also knows that you wouldn’t use that as an excuse or revenge for you to fuck another woman!! You have what so many men can only dream of having!! So in my opinion, considering that there’s a fairly high chance that you two might not be able to make a LDR last and survive, you really have nothing to lose and so much to gain!! Let her know that you found it exciting when she told you about it and that you could only imagine how much more it would, if she had even more details to tell you and to make certain that she knows that as long as she never hides anything from you and that she always tells you all the details honestly, that you wouldn’t and don’t have any desire to be with another woman and that you would get your sexual gratification vicariously through her!!

If shes not coming back have you though about going there .

 

[WiseOld]

Long-distance relationships suck, but sometimes they can suck in a good way. I wrote about my good-way experience: https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/tantra-classes.38235/

Perhaps, your partner can find a similar instruction class.

 

[Fazeldex]

I dont mean this to sound negative. But there is something in the simplistic way she approached you, and it seems to indicate to me is certainly gauging your reaction. She has already been intimate with him.

 

[CONST65]

I think you should encourage her to flirt with guys and see where it leads.

My hotwife does she has 3/4 regular guys that she FUCKS one of them.about once a monrh. They are clean so they can CUM.IT HER she has been a hotwife for 5 years .She tells me she coukd never go back to.beung a ONE COCK WOMAN AND I TOTALLY AGREE WUTH HERE FEEL FREE TO ASK ANYTHINF YOU CAN PM.IF YOU WANT

 

[Tina&Fran]

She likes dick..she want it..you are far away ..did you expect that she will be only yours..hehe

 

[Tina&Fran]

You can watch her on video call while she fucks some dick..thats hot

 

[CONST65]

She likes dick..she want it..you are far away ..did you expect that she will be only yours..hehe

We agree from the beginning not just one guy it should be fun enjoyable sex. Not for one guy so they couldn't gat attached to.one guy

 

[Red_Hot]

First post here so bare with me. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 2 years now and everything is going great however we have been doing Long Distance for the better half of 6 months ever since she got a job in Europe.

When she first arrived she was having fun, exploring, meeting new people, etc. However we got into an big argument one time when she told me she went out and was flirting with a guy at the bar. She did tell me he kept trying to touch her and she denied his advances but still felt excitement over it. She said it won’t happen again and wanted to tell me because she didn’t want secrets between us. I was confused after this because part of me was angry but the other part was turned on after hearing how he kept trying to touch her.

Fast forward to yesterday, we had a discussion about intimacy because she said it’s hard since we’re in a long distance relationship. She also admitted to me she has recently been fantasizing about flirting with guys at the bar and talking to someone new. I told her if she wants a one time hookup she can go for it. During our discussion she told me she didn’t want to because it sounds weird and it’ll make her feel terrible on how it would make me feel. She also told me if she were to do it she doesn’t like the idea of me flirting/ having sex with someone else because it would make her jealous.

Should I tell her I want her to flirt and hookup with another guy? Also what do you think of the situation I’m in? Thanks a million!

My wife One day she came home early to find me sitting at home watching bbc cuck porn in panties stroking my lil cock lol at 1st she freaked out but now all she do is tease my lil cock while search n for some real dick.

 

[XTac]

She has a job in Europe and has been gone for six months...probably chances of returning are slim. So you guys are doing a dis-service to each other by clinging on to hope. Both of you should move on, or one of you should move to be closer. Any such flirting will lead to break up for sure.

A very sensible response....a little bit better than "lets see some pics" (wtf?)

Anyway I agree - this relationship is going no where. I mean he can use her flirting and fucking around with other guys for his own mental exercise but this relations seems doomed.