Stag- Explain your rational... the high or thrill of "wife sharing".

[nitrotexansa]

for me it,s about humiliation&domination,getting forced to watch ,forced to be submissive and making her cum,doing whatever she asks,and the best thing that happened to me was getting feminized by my wife,confessing this to family&friends etc and wearing sexy outfits at home also with family etc,it,s dificult to explain but i just love femdom,dominated by women or my wife using me as housemaid,also letting family renting me as housemaid etc,i just love to be obedient&sexy&slutty&kinky&naughty etc for everyone ,and beside dominant women i got a big fetish for old&fat&hairy men!

Hot

 

[Indomiecouple]

I never imagined my wife could be this porn movie slutty
No shyness, no holding back just pure lust and freedom. Seeing her fully let go in front of me and sometimes she looks at me small smile, and returns to her pleasure. Makes me horny, and for her is when she knows i am watching and soemtimes touching her breast or slap on her ass.

 

[PornStud49]

"Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us".
I like the above quote, I think, from Nariah 1957

The other male in a Stag/Vixen marriage/relationship is basically a willing sex toy. Used... with his consent, to participate in what the wife and I like to do. While the wife is having her fun with the "3rd", I'm enjoying the show.
This image (not us) has the desired impact.

Wife is holding the 3rd in with her heels, even helping him pump using her legs to pull him in with the rhythm. The husband can see 3rd is balls deep in his wife. 3rd is not shy about packing every inch of his cock into the married woman's pussy as her husband watches.

Now I'm thinking if I'm watching this kind of action with my wife, there is no way 3rd is going to pull out. He certainly will cum in my wife. And she's encouraging it by holding him in. She wants the dick in here, she wants the dick to release. In that way she controlled the session, she's proven her desirability and was able to bring a complete stranger to orgasm without even knowing him an hour before.

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Now, that stud is going "balls deep"! That is incredibly hot.

I bet your woman came so hard.

 

[TheDrkKnight]

It’s the compersion for me. Seeing my wife satisfied by someone other than me. I even love watching her play with her toys.

 

[PornStud49]

It’s the compersion for me. Seeing my wife satisfied by someone other than me. I even love watching her play with her toys.

There is something very arousing about seeing an XXL cock. That's why straight porn is full of big dicks. They're jaw-dropping hot to look at it.

Straight men love to look at big dildos and use them on women.

Do you think your woman would like to play with my Big Boy Toy?

 

[TheDrkKnight]

There is something very arousing about seeing an XXL cock. That's why straight porn is full of big dicks. They're jaw-dropping hot to look at it.

Straight men love to look at big dildos and use them on women.

Do you think your woman would like to play with my Big Boy Toy?

It’s not black so no but thanks for trying

 

[dinoo-2]

Explain it rationally isn’t easy at all. With an emphasis on rational.​

There are a number of less rational or additional reasons for sharing her. I'll leave those aside for now.
I thought about it a lot and discussed it with my wife. But we couldn't come to a conclusion, so my wife said:
‘What does it matter? We enjoy it and that's the most important thing.’
Nevertheless, I would like to try again, even though I might not succeed.
I apologise for it being much longer than I intended.

Here we go.
Even before we got married, it was very clear that my future wife enjoyed being the centre of attention. Given her constant smile, this was understandable.
However, when I started university, I wanted to end our relationship because I didn't want to hurt her by seeing other girls.
My future wife thought this was a strange idea.
“Of course I understand that you don't want to live like a hermit and that you want to date other girls, but that argument doesn't stand up to scrutiny. I believe we are destined to be together, so why would you want to break up?”

In short, I was free to do as I pleased.
However, I couldn't resist telling her about all my escapades, some of which were painful for her to hear about. I wanted just to be honest.
BUT I BELIEVE THAT HER ATTITUDE IN THIS MATTER WAS THE BASIS FOR BUILDING COMPLETE TRUST IN EACH OTHER. Very rational I think.

Then, after two-three decades, the moment comes when, while I am having intercourse with her, she asks me if I have ever imagined having intercourse with another woman. (That is not to say that there were no sexual encounters during that period, however.)
I answered 'never, I’m very happy with you', and of course I asked her the same question.
'Yes, I've had those thoughts,' she, after some hesitation, replied honestly.
However, she did not want to say with whom. It was several men. Men I knew. I knew some of them very well.

She said, “The idea of ...... with another man really turns me on. If it would actually happen, would you be very angry with me?”
I gave her a clear answer: “As long as you keep me informed, preferably in detail, I won't get angry. You can hold me to that promise.”
Still rational I think but I agree when somebody argues it isn’t usual.

I clearly remember when she (yes she) suggested that we visit a sex club. From that very first visit onwards, our lives changed completely.
My wife clearly enjoyed having sex with both men and sometimes women.
It was as if it was an usual part of her life and she was glad to have it.
No, we both enjoyed it.
Again, still very rational I think but I agree it isn’t usual in our society.
Of course, we talked a lot about details and why we liked them.
These details are additional and I liked very much to read them in this thread. We had the same experiences.

To conclude, I have attached two pictures.
The first shows how we lived together.
The second shows my place in our secret life.

 

[JoeRee]

For me it is like watching live porn with my favorite star.

 

[Las_Vegas_Heisenberg]

Explain it rationally isn’t easy at all. With an emphasis on rational.​

There are a number of less rational or additional reasons for sharing her. I'll leave those aside for now.
I thought about it a lot and discussed it with my wife. But we couldn't come to a conclusion, so my wife said:
‘What does it matter? We enjoy it and that's the most important thing.’
Nevertheless, I would like to try again, even though I might not succeed.
I apologise for it being much longer than I intended.

Here we go.
Even before we got married, it was very clear that my future wife enjoyed being the centre of attention. Given her constant smile, this was understandable.
However, when I started university, I wanted to end our relationship because I didn't want to hurt her by seeing other girls.
My future wife thought this was a strange idea.
“Of course I understand that you don't want to live like a hermit and that you want to date other girls, but that argument doesn't stand up to scrutiny. I believe we are destined to be together, so why would you want to break up?”

In short, I was free to do as I pleased.
However, I couldn't resist telling her about all my escapades, some of which were painful for her to hear about. I wanted just to be honest.
BUT I BELIEVE THAT HER ATTITUDE IN THIS MATTER WAS THE BASIS FOR BUILDING COMPLETE TRUST IN EACH OTHER. Very rational I think.

Then, after two-three decades, the moment comes when, while I am having intercourse with her, she asks me if I have ever imagined having intercourse with another woman. (That is not to say that there were no sexual encounters during that period, however.)
I answered 'never, I’m very happy with you', and of course I asked her the same question.
'Yes, I've had those thoughts,' she, after some hesitation, replied honestly.
However, she did not want to say with whom. It was several men. Men I knew. I knew some of them very well.

She said, “The idea of ...... with another man really turns me on. If it would actually happen, would you be very angry with me?”
I gave her a clear answer: “As long as you keep me informed, preferably in detail, I won't get angry. You can hold me to that promise.”
Still rational I think but I agree when somebody argues it isn’t usual.

I clearly remember when she (yes she) suggested that we visit a sex club. From that very first visit onwards, our lives changed completely.
My wife clearly enjoyed having sex with both men and sometimes women.
It was as if it was an usual part of her life and she was glad to have it.
No, we both enjoyed it.
Again, still very rational I think but I agree it isn’t usual in our society.
Of course, we talked a lot about details and why we liked them.
These details are additional and I liked very much to read them in this thread. We had the same experiences.

To conclude, I have attached two pictures.
The first shows how we lived together.
The second shows my place in our secret life.

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Love the explanation. The decades of waiting until true honesty can come out. This was the regret I had in my marriage. So much wasted time, wasted youth.

 

[PornStud49]

Let's not forget: watching a stud with a BIG DICK is very satisfying to the eyes, especially when he's mounting a gorgeous woman.

Big Dicks are just arousing -- period, even if you're not interested in playing with one (me, not that interested). But I love to watch other hung men have sex with women.

 

[jimmyhamms]

It's a dominance thing. I loved exerting the power to tell her to fuck anyone I pleased, man or woman, and having her do it. I let a friend of mine cum in her.

Love when women eat other women out.

 

[dinoo-2]

Love the explanation. The decades of waiting until true honesty can come out. This was the regret I had in my marriage. So much wasted time, wasted youth.

Thanks for your comment. Obviously I'm not alone.

My wife said the same: it was a waste of time.
Is it because of raising our children? Or because we wanted to have good jobs?

It was so exciting before we got married.
My roommate and I rented three rooms together, and he would play with my girlfriend's bare breasts whenever he could.
A good friend (who was also a student, but at a different university) got my girlfriend at the time so aroused that took her clothes off in front of me.
They had some "harmless" sex next to me and brought her to orgasm while French kissing her.

However, a few times we could have hot encounters but without my wife was fucked.
The most indicative and memorable I posted was:

Post in thread 'Hottest thing MY wife has done in public (on purpose)'

May 25, 2025

The following event I can't keep from you. I posted it already elsewhere.
It took place some 15 years before my wife embraced the HW lifestyle with complete abandon.

Black Tie: A Dinner with a couple we were close friends with accompanied by a small Orchestra at a New Year’s Evening Event.

My wife LadyD was wearing a black sheer blouse with black ruffles that ran around the neck and that plunged down V towards her waist almost covering the area of her breasts but not her cleavage and not over them so that her black bra could sometimes be visible. It showed her beautiful...

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Simply enter her.


Examples of how things could have turned out very differently.

 

[PornStud49]

I like to compete sexually with other men. We are wired to compare and compete as men -- just like male animals in nature.

In an MFM, I can see another man get hard and penetrate a woman's pussy. I am not interested in sucking a dude's dick or him sucking mine. But I like the up-close and personal view of another man. I want to see his hard dick, and see his ass going up and down while inside of a woman.

If I am light bisexual, whatever. Most men are anyways. We all like to see a stud with a big dick. That's why straight porn is full of them. But I have little desire for oral/anal sex with a man.

In a rare scenario, I might touch a man's dick when he's penetrating pussy, or jack him off for a second (rare event). But it's more visual for me.

For actual sex, it's only with women. I'm crazy into into impregnation fantasies, lesbian porn, eating out good pussy.

I'm just a honest dude, which most men are not.