Truer words have never been spoken! Some of the best times have been at house parties when I go looking for my absent wife and find her in a bedroom or bathroom with a dick in her mouth or bent over the bed getting fucked from behind. Can’t be gone too long, especially if the guys married and his wife’s at the party so it’s generally a quick suck and swallow or fuck. I will say she’s disappeared more times than I’ve went looking for her for sure especially if she’s fucked where we are at before.
Yes it's very similar for us. 1. Friends made through the lifestyle 2. People closer to us who we have involved who we know will be discreet - several of my friends husbands, a few of hubbys married friends and a couple of his relatives 3. The rest of our friends and family who have no idea 4. Strangers met purely for sex so don't really count unless I meet them again and they end up in catogory 1. I suppose a 5th cagagory might be aquantancies - not really friends but people we've known who I've fucked e.g. Neighbours
That's a great attitude and I admire you for it but isn't always possible for everyone. Due to the nature of the work I did I had to be fairly discreet. That's much less of an issue now I'm retired. But there are still people I wouldn't want to know - a lot of my family because they'd be judgemental and we can just do without the drama; my friends whose husbands I've fucked, I wouldn't want to know for obvious reasons, the wives of James friends I've fucked again for the same reason etc.
I understand and agree with you, for us it is very simple, those who do not accept us they take care of their lives, the wives or husbands of our friends know and they participate too as well as close relatives to us.
I prefer with strangers or co-workers as there is less risk of emotional involvement. I had sex with some friends, after parties, or because they needed company when they feel sad for some reasons, and it happened several times that I had to put a stop at a certain moment.
I forgot about that fifth category...married men we have known casually who, once they fucked Kate the first time, became much closer friends and repeat sexual encounters for Kate. Maybe we have just been lucky, but every casual friend we have involved in our sex fun has become a much better friend all around. Our relationship with that guy becomes deeper and more meaningful.
I like being around friends who know they are hung better than me too. I get to watch most of the time when one of my friends fucks Kate so I know how big their cocks are. They also know how big mine is because I openly jerkoff when I watch them with Kate.
