Super reluctant wife who eventually came around?

[Gwentman]

Hello all

I wanted to inquire from those who had super reluctant significant others who wanted nothing of this fantasy. How did they eventually come around? What was the setup like, how did she choose the guy and what was that experience like, how did she change afterwards?

Hi my wife and I often had a fantasy of imagining her with another man. She would call me someone's name that she or we both knew as had sex.
This was about 30 years ago when a freind of mine from our school days emigrated to Australia and came over to visit his family.
My wife was 34 and myself 37 at the time of this visit.
The last time we had saw him was 10 years previously at our wedding
He was planned to stay 2 weeks with us. I managed to get the first week off work my wife the second,the plan was to show him around meet other feinds , generally have a good time
I could see my wife was attracted to him, I mean he has a tanned fit body and a cute accent as she says.
l noticed lots of flirting between them and when I mentioned to my wife if she thought of him when we had sex , she said no I would never do that, but when I said well what about your alone time when you masturbate,she went quiet and said yes she does think of him.
The last night before he flew home we has dinner together then put some music on , had a few glasses of wine.
I pulled my wife up to dance then asked my freind to dance e with my wife ,he held her close she had her hands around his neck.
Then I said it's my turn and as I danced with her I kissed her passionately.
When it was my freinds turn I asked if my wife if she would kiss my freind, they started kissing passionately.
I was so turned on watching this, but my wife then said we should take a break.
He then said good night and went on up to bed ,
We followed shortly after. I said to my wife well is he a good kisser ,she laughed and yeah pretty good. I said would you like to go to his room and have sex, she looked at me and said your not serious are you, I said yes id love you to,but you must not shut the doors and I want to know every detail.
We talked about tomorrow and how was is going to effect us, I told her I was happy for her to go to him, this was about 1.90am noe,she put fresh underwear and a cami top on and went to his room.
I could hear the bed going and my wife moaning so I got up and went to the bedroom door and could see her riding him hard .
It was such a wonderful sight I took my dick out and started wanking it.
After I came I went back to our bedroom and at 6.00am she crawled back into bed with me.
She said that was amazing,he fucked me 4 times and came everytime.
I reached down and she was soaking so I went down on her and cleaned her up.
That was the start of me sharing her

 

[funky00]

Yeah. I introduced this fantasy to my wife through pillow talk. Talking about her escapades on work trips. She enjoyed the talk but always ended it with I would never do that for real (spontaneous sex with a stranger).

Many months later, she agreed to go to lifestyle resorts and a party with me. She didn't play but had fun. Now we are talking to and have meet once for coffee, a young stud that checks all her boxes. However she still says, he is intriguing but no sex.

However, stud is coming over to the pool this weekend. Wife still says she will show off her bikini and flirt. But no sex. I think she's trying to lower the expectations so there is no pressure. Which I completely understand and I'm good if nothing happens. But I have a feeling something may... even it's just making out. We shall see.

What happened?

 

[Robert Smith]

It took me a year and half to convince her to try it once. She told me later she had planned on fucking the two of us and the next day telling me she did not want to do it again and to quit asking. Luckily she actually liked it and we were in the Hotwife LS for over 30 years