Super reluctant wife who eventually came around?

[staggy]

Hello all

I wanted to inquire from those who had super reluctant significant others who wanted nothing of this fantasy. How did they eventually come around? What was the setup like, how did she choose the guy and what was that experience like, how did she change afterwards?

 

[Wantsomefunto]

Love to dm with you with some helpful ideas

 

[Connor48]

I wanted to inquire from those who had super reluctant significant others who wanted nothing of this fantasy. How did they eventually come around? What was the setup like, how did she choose the guy and what was that experience like, how did she change afterwards?

We had a similar experience. In the beginning, my partner was completely against this fantasy — not only was she uninterested, but she would also become defensive as soon as the topic came up. I tried to explain that this wasn’t just about my desire, but something that could become a part of our emotional honesty and trust in the relationship

 

[coocoo]

Love to dm with you with some helpful ideas

I would like to get some ideas as well plz.

 

[Randr7896]

Our experience was a little different, but there was some reluctance on my wife's part once I brought it up.
Feel free to DM and I discuss all the details.

 

[coocoo]

Our experience was a little different, but there was some reluctance on my wife's part once I brought it up.
Feel free to DM and I discuss all the details.

Have you been able to convince?

 

[Randr7896]

Have you been able to convince?

Yes. We've been in a full blown hotwife, bull, cuckold relationship for the last 2 years.

 

[coocoo]

Cool. Need some advice from you then.

 

[Randr7896]

Cool. Need some advice from you then.

DM me to chat

 

[wormwood]

The purpose of this website is to provide information about cuckolding. I would hope that all of you share the advice that is given and not go to DM's. I'm sure there are many on here that would like to hear about your experiences, especially your successes.

 

[JMC987]

We had a similar experience. In the beginning, my partner was completely against this fantasy — not only was she uninterested, but she would also become defensive as soon as the topic came up. I tried to explain that this wasn’t just about my desire, but something that could become a part of our emotional honesty and trust in the relationship

Yeah. I introduced this fantasy to my wife through pillow talk. Talking about her escapades on work trips. She enjoyed the talk but always ended it with I would never do that for real (spontaneous sex with a stranger).

Many months later, she agreed to go to lifestyle resorts and a party with me. She didn't play but had fun. Now we are talking to and have meet once for coffee, a young stud that checks all her boxes. However she still says, he is intriguing but no sex.

However, stud is coming over to the pool this weekend. Wife still says she will show off her bikini and flirt. But no sex. I think she's trying to lower the expectations so there is no pressure. Which I completely understand and I'm good if nothing happens. But I have a feeling something may... even it's just making out. We shall see.

 

[atb147]

Any advice is appreciated. I have tried to convince my wife for years to have sex with other men. This topic was a taboo for her. She was saying that she didn't like to have sex. Actually we were not having sex for months. She was trying to renew our sex life but now I'm not interested in her. A few days ago for my greatest surprise my wife told me that she will find another man to fuck her if I don't want to do it. It seems that she mean it and she will do it. She is usually shy and I wonder how to help her find someone to fuck her without interfering too much. Any suggestions?

 

[Ironmike]

Been trying for years to get my gf to play but no luck only the other week she admitted that it turned her on sober always role plays when ...... but not sober so I’m taking the fact she said it sober as a small step

 

[coocoo]

Any advice is appreciated. I have tried to convince my wife for years to have sex with other men. This topic was a taboo for her. She was saying that she didn't like to have sex. Actually we were not having sex for months. She was trying to renew our sex life but now I'm not interested in her. A few days ago for my greatest surprise my wife told me that she will find another man to fuck her if I don't want to do it. It seems that she mean it and she will do it. She is usually shy and I wonder how to help her find someone to fuck her without interfering too much. Any suggestions?

I hope my wife will say that one day.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

Any advice is appreciated. I have tried to convince my wife for years to have sex with other men. This topic was a taboo for her. She was saying that she didn't like to have sex. Actually we were not having sex for months. She was trying to renew our sex life but now I'm not interested in her. A few days ago for my greatest surprise my wife told me that she will find another man to fuck her if I don't want to do it. It seems that she mean it and she will do it. She is usually shy and I wonder how to help her find someone to fuck her without interfering too much. Any suggestions?

After months of nothing, and in your place, I’d respect her as a woman more if she did. Suggest supporting and facilitating her in whatever she decides.