Surprising things about the lifestyle

[HubbyJohn]

On the Bull-side of the lifestyle, I still can't get over how many cuckolds are retired US Marines ... big guys ... guys with 10 inch cocks ... not the type of guy that one would ever have expected to spend a Saturday evening watching baseball in the living room while I, or several of us, are filling his wife up with cum in the back bedroom.

Not as a surprising as it would seem when you think about it. Men who spend long periods of time on the other side of the world, likely start to fantasize about their wives being satisfied as they jerk off. Likely worry that their wife might cheat and use a cuck fetish to feel in control of the cheating. They also have high stress jobs that leave some trauma and I would imagine the idea of relinquishing responsibility for satisfying her sexually while at the same time controlling it would be natural. I feel like once your brain crosses over into being a cuck there is no going back.

 

[HubbyJohn]

For me what was surprising was that she had tolerated mu little dick for so long and was willing to live a life with unsatisfying sex or almost no sex with me before I encouraged her.

I’m also still surprised about the deep emasculating shame I still feel after I orgasm. It just never goes away. Also never imagined that I would stop initiating sex and just feel too inadequate to bother her with it. I serious think that I will never have PIV sex again in my life. With my wife or even if she left me. I just feel too small and inadequate to do that again. That is shocking to me that I have accepted it.

 

[Jack W]

Not as a surprising as it would seem when you think about it. Men who spend long periods of time on the other side of the world, likely start to fantasize about their wives being satisfied as they jerk off. Likely worry that their wife might cheat and use a cuck fetish to feel in control of the cheating. They also have high stress jobs that leave some trauma and I would imagine the idea of relinquishing responsibility for satisfying her sexually while at the same time controlling it would be natural. I feel like once your brain crosses over into being a cuck there is no going back.

I never thought about it like that.

 

[jsaltydog]

We go to a regular LS houseparty. Mature crowd. We're in our 50s and are usually the youngest couple there!! 70 seems the average age and, probably thanks to the wonder of modern ED meds, there are some very horny and active septuagenarians in attendance - both men and women! This is me (left) with two wives taking a break at one of those parties. I had the pleasure of having these two to myself that night and they were pure fire 🔥
SView attachment 3034913o yeah. I am surprised at the way older are embracing the Lifestyle these days!

Two really beautiful women.

 

[jsaltydog]

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Picture of mine on the right… I have some old homemade videos in the vault, but don’t know where or what lifestyle site allows videos, so, as of now I just take screenshots of the videos and share them.

Your wife is beautiful.

 

[Stevens4fun]

On the Bull-side of the lifestyle, I still can't get over how many cuckolds are retired US Marines ... big guys ... guys with 10 inch cocks ... not the type of guy that one would ever have expected to spend a Saturday evening watching baseball in the living room while I, or several of us, are filling his wife up with cum in the back bedroom.

You will also find high level businessmen, even CEOs who want their wives seduced and pleased by other men. Real life example: my wife's "big boss" at her workplace wielded total power, was an aggressive, domaneering alpha male. But in our home with my wife and traveling with her, or even with him in the corporate suite at the Marriott, she owned him. My wife loves this on many levels.

The Marines, and CEOs, professional athletes, etc. are accustomed to wielding power, and controlling things. But what "sharing" or "cuckolding" is really about is an exchange of power, of control. Most of the wannabes in this forum who are frantically jacking as they fantasize about watching their wife haven't yet moved beyond the more voyeuristic aspects. Or hubby wants to be an XXX director! 🤣🤣🤣🤣Giving up control is so hard for many guys.

Seriously, all of us guys have a little voyeur in us, but...in order for us to find our sexy wives enjoying other men often in a way that's rewarding to her, we have to give up some power in our marriage. We have to give the control up. Some guys can't do this, but it's the price.