Wife cheated me, but I liked it. Help!

A cheating wife is often a trigger, and lead-in to cuckolding. As to your questions:

- in my experience, it's almost certain that a woman's cheated based on the situation you're describing. Whether or not she'll ever completely admit to it is another thing all together.

- you almost certainly can't "convince her" to cuck you, at least not in a one-sided sense. She has to decide that for her own reasons. There are things you might do to encourage her, however you're not in charge in the matter. You can either be supportive and understanding, or negative - either way, she'll do her own thing.
 
Absolutely non of this is fabricated and it’s 100 percent real. This happened about 10 months ago. So please, I don’t want any hate, im just seeking advice.

I still remember when I found out that my wife was cheating on me, it was one of the craziest days of my life, I’ve always fascinated with the idea of a cuckold relationship. I felt a sense of panic yet excitement in this situation.

Me and my now wife had a long distance relationship for several months. I was visiting her when this all happened. It was a Friday night and we both were getting ready to go out with a group of mutual friends. Recently Apple had added a new feature in which you could see recently deleted iMessage texts. Out of general curiosity while she was getting ready, I saw this as an opportunity to go through her phone. Some might think this is an invasion of privacy, but let me explain. Before we were married, she had previously messaged another guy in the past, with the intent of going over his house for some drinks. Her plan was to lie to me telling me that she would have to work late into the night and that we wouldn’t be able to sleep on FaceTime like we did every night. I had already confronted her on that situation before and I had forgiven her about that and she said it would never happen again, that it was a stupid mistake. Now back to my main situation. Which happens about a year later.

I went through the deleted messages, and to my surprise I saw a weird number saved under one of her female friends name with a bunch of emojis. Well the curiosity got the best of me and I re-opened the deleted chat. Boom, there it was. She was texting another guy, who she eventually told me would often go visit her while she was working.

The first message began with a simple “Hey, do you remember me?” She then responded with a “of course I do.” He then says, “I can’t stop thinking about you!” Which my wife responded with “I think about you a lot too”

In one of the messages he told her "I honestly can't forget your kisses that night, you did all of that on purpose. So that I wouldn’t be able to forget you” followed by “When I see you im going to fuck the shit out of you!” To my surprise my wife reacted to the message with “you better, but the issue is that I don’t work anymore and he’s always around it’s going to be hard to see each other.”

Living in a pretty small town, it’s not uncommon to see the same people everyday. Me and my wife walk to the gym, nothing unusual about, my wife wears the basic gym girl stuff. Leggings and a regular shirt. Never really put too much thought into it.

He then told her, “ I see you going to the gym almost everyday and I see the leggings you wear, that ass makes me sooo hard. I want to say something, but he’s always around you.” She responded “It’s not fair that you can only see me. I want to see you too, but if I look around too much he’ll get suspicious. Why don’t you come to the gym and watch me train? I want to see you at least for a couple of minutes!”
My wife eventually told him, “ I’ll try and find an opportunity to sneak out for at least 20 minutes, but I don’t think you’ll be able to satisfy yourself in that little bit of time.” He then said “With you, I’ll finish quickly.” At this point my cock was hard and my heart was raising. I was filled with anger and excitement. Anger based on the fact that she was cheating, but the excitement of imaging her pleasing another cock.
He then told her “just let me know if wanted you want me to pick her up at the same place I dropped you off last time.” She told him to send an audio message just so that she can 1000 percent sure confirm it was him, in which he did, but I quite honestly don’t remember what he said during the audio message. From there the messages had stopped.

At this point I confronted my wife and she began to cry, telling me that nothing ever happened, that they never had sex, that it this was a stupid mistake. I asked her about the “kisses” and she told me that he once dropped her off after work and had given her a kiss on the cheek and that was it. That she didn’t know why he was being so intense. Her excuse to the whole situation was that she was scared that he would do something to her. But what I don’t understand how can you be scared of him, but yet want to meet up with him for 20 minutes alone.

Regardless, What she didn't know is that while we were having this conversation. I was pretty hard, she was hysterically crying still, so seeing an opportunity to tell her I didn’t mind the situation.
I moved her hand on my cock so she could she how hard I was, but in doing that she started to cry more and she asked me with fear and panic in her voice “why are you hard!?! Wait, do you want to see me fuck someone else, what the fuck!” and seeing how she reacted I said "noooo love, that's not it, I’m just trying to change the topic” and I invented something to change the conversation. From there it took a while for our relationship to get back to normal.
But actually I do think about what they said over text and find myself running to watch cuckold porn and imagine it being my wife. I really want to be in a cuckold marriage. My wife lovessss watching double penetration porn and I sometimes as her if she would do something like that, but she’ll either say “baby, stop” or “we’ll see”.

In all honesty though with the reaction she gave me, I'm afraid to tell the truth now. So, I have two questions. Do you guys think that she had a sexual relationship with that guy that she was texting and two how can I “convince” her to cuck me?
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A cheating wife is often a trigger, and lead-in to cuckolding. As to your questions:

- in my experience, it's almost certain that a woman's cheated based on the situation you're describing. Whether or not she'll ever completely admit to it is another thing all together.

- you almost certainly can't "convince her" to cuck you, at least not in a one-sided sense. She has to decide that for her own reasons. There are things you might do to encourage her, however you're not in charge in the matter. You can either be supportive and understanding, or negative - either way, she'll do her own thing.
How can I “encourage” her into cuckolding based on your experience?
 
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if she already fuck someone she jump at the chance tp do it open make sure she understands that this is not trick and you get off thinking about it
How can I do that though, because based off her reaction when she saw I was hard, kinda scared me off to telling her about being a hotwife
 
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Yes, she's having a sexual relationship with him. Why would you confront her once again about cheating? Just let her do it and enjoy it. Eventually you can subtly hint that you are aware and go from there. She's probably too traumatized to do any "cucking" activity. She WILL cheat again because a cheating wife does that. Just enjoy it when she does and try putting her in situations where she has opportunities. Also tell her that some guy you know or at the gym is interested in her. You heard him talking to another guy about her and it was a very inappropriate conversation, but you found it a turn on. That sort of thing.
I confronted her based off the emotions I felt which was anger and of course excitement, but the anger more because it was the second time she cheated. I like the cuckold aspect of my wife pleasuring another cock, but I don’t like the cheating part of it, I’d prefer trust and both of us knowing and accepting who her sexual partners would be.
 
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You can clearly see that anger makes her feel "guilty" and uncomfortable with this. You can't react like that anymore. If you want her to hotwife or anything, you just have to give her the freedom to keep doing what she's doing for now. It may even be too late for that now. This makes 2 separate incidents where you've over reacted about something you wanted to have her do. Not all wives do this the same way and it does NOT normally happen the way you want it to happen. In any case, she's had a taste of cheating so she'll probably go back to sneaky sex.
if she does go back to sneaking around or cheating. Should I let her do it and later confront her about, but with a more “I know what you’re doing, but keep on doing it because I like that” kinda of way? Or how would you go about it?
 
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if she does go back to sneaking around or cheating. Should I let her do it and later confront her about, but with a more “I know what you’re doing, but keep on doing it because I like that” kinda of way? Or how would you go about it?
Right now you just need to let her do it her way. Don't confront her and enjoy it from afar. Eventually this behavior will become "normalized" and then you can start working your way into the conversation. The primary goal is getting a wife to have sex with other guys. After that, it's all good.
 
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Absolutely non of this is fabricated and it’s 100 percent real. This happened about 10 months ago. So please, I don’t want any hate, im just seeking advice.

I still remember when I found out that my wife was cheating on me, it was one of the craziest days of my life, I’ve always fascinated with the idea of a cuckold relationship. I felt a sense of panic yet excitement in this situation.

Me and my now wife had a long distance relationship for several months. I was visiting her when this all happened. It was a Friday night and we both were getting ready to go out with a group of mutual friends. Recently Apple had added a new feature in which you could see recently deleted iMessage texts. Out of general curiosity while she was getting ready, I saw this as an opportunity to go through her phone. Some might think this is an invasion of privacy, but let me explain. Before we were married, she had previously messaged another guy in the past, with the intent of going over his house for some drinks. Her plan was to lie to me telling me that she would have to work late into the night and that we wouldn’t be able to sleep on FaceTime like we did every night. I had already confronted her on that situation before and I had forgiven her about that and she said it would never happen again, that it was a stupid mistake. Now back to my main situation. Which happens about a year later.

I went through the deleted messages, and to my surprise I saw a weird number saved under one of her female friends name with a bunch of emojis. Well the curiosity got the best of me and I re-opened the deleted chat. Boom, there it was. She was texting another guy, who she eventually told me would often go visit her while she was working.

The first message began with a simple “Hey, do you remember me?” She then responded with a “of course I do.” He then says, “I can’t stop thinking about you!” Which my wife responded with “I think about you a lot too”

In one of the messages he told her "I honestly can't forget your kisses that night, you did all of that on purpose. So that I wouldn’t be able to forget you” followed by “When I see you im going to fuck the shit out of you!” To my surprise my wife reacted to the message with “you better, but the issue is that I don’t work anymore and he’s always around it’s going to be hard to see each other.”

Living in a pretty small town, it’s not uncommon to see the same people everyday. Me and my wife walk to the gym, nothing unusual about, my wife wears the basic gym girl stuff. Leggings and a regular shirt. Never really put too much thought into it.

He then told her, “ I see you going to the gym almost everyday and I see the leggings you wear, that ass makes me sooo hard. I want to say something, but he’s always around you.” She responded “It’s not fair that you can only see me. I want to see you too, but if I look around too much he’ll get suspicious. Why don’t you come to the gym and watch me train? I want to see you at least for a couple of minutes!”
My wife eventually told him, “ I’ll try and find an opportunity to sneak out for at least 20 minutes, but I don’t think you’ll be able to satisfy yourself in that little bit of time.” He then said “With you, I’ll finish quickly.” At this point my cock was hard and my heart was raising. I was filled with anger and excitement. Anger based on the fact that she was cheating, but the excitement of imaging her pleasing another cock.
He then told her “just let me know if wanted you want me to pick her up at the same place I dropped you off last time.” She told him to send an audio message just so that she can 1000 percent sure confirm it was him, in which he did, but I quite honestly don’t remember what he said during the audio message. From there the messages had stopped.

At this point I confronted my wife and she began to cry, telling me that nothing ever happened, that they never had sex, that it this was a stupid mistake. I asked her about the “kisses” and she told me that he once dropped her off after work and had given her a kiss on the cheek and that was it. That she didn’t know why he was being so intense. Her excuse to the whole situation was that she was scared that he would do something to her. But what I don’t understand how can you be scared of him, but yet want to meet up with him for 20 minutes alone.

Regardless, What she didn't know is that while we were having this conversation. I was pretty hard, she was hysterically crying still, so seeing an opportunity to tell her I didn’t mind the situation.
I moved her hand on my cock so she could she how hard I was, but in doing that she started to cry more and she asked me with fear and panic in her voice “why are you hard!?! Wait, do you want to see me fuck someone else, what the fuck!” and seeing how she reacted I said "noooo love, that's not it, I’m just trying to change the topic” and I invented something to change the conversation. From there it took a while for our relationship to get back to normal.
But actually I do think about what they said over text and find myself running to watch cuckold porn and imagine it being my wife. I really want to be in a cuckold marriage. My wife lovessss watching double penetration porn and I sometimes as her if she would do something like that, but she’ll either say “baby, stop” or “we’ll see”.

In all honesty though with the reaction she gave me, I'm afraid to tell the truth now. So, I have two questions. Do you guys think that she had a sexual relationship with that guy that she was texting and two how can I “convince” her to cuck me?
i Believe it's a good thing you want her to strange dick up her cunt because she most assuredly has Already been getting it. Men typically don't mssg someone they are going to fuck the shit out of them when they see them u less they have already been fucking. You married a cheating whore. Sorry. But I did too. So it's a good thing we like it because they aren't gonna stop it. They can't help it. The slut just comes out in them for some men.
 
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This isn't about her, its about UR reactions to it.
Yeah, but my reaction was based off the cheating aspect of it. I think for cuckolding to work, there should be the level of trust and doing things behind my back, that’s kinda why I got upset. Granted she never knew that I was into cuckolding, so I guess cheating was her only option in that scenario.
 
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Update: Around a week after the situation, we were watching a movie that had a sex scene in it. I recall saying that’s one of my fetishes (something that was shown in the movie) and out of no where she said “what, an unfaithful wife?” in a seductive tone while touching me. I was caught so off guard as it had absolutely nothing to do with what just happened in the movie, I kinda just made a grunting sound, but I think she took it as an unpleasant grunt and she laughed it off. Didn’t bring it back up and we continued our day as normal.
 
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Update: Around a week after the situation, we were watching a movie that had a sex scene in it. I recall saying that’s one of my fetishes (something that was shown in the movie) and out of no where she said “what, an unfaithful wife?” in a seductive tone while touching me. I was caught so off guard as it had absolutely nothing to do with what just happened in the movie, I kinda just made a grunting sound, but I think she took it as an unpleasant grunt and she laughed it off. Didn’t bring it back up and we continued our day as normal.
I think you can encourage her on this "unfaithful wife" direction. In your next love making session with her, while she's horny and sexed up, tell her that you are fantasizing her as an unfaithful wife, just like in the movie. Ask her "do you like that?" "You wanna be my unfaithful wife?" "Tell me, love?"
Get her to say those dirty unfaithful wife talks while you pound her.
 
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