Best place to find a man to fuck your wife??

[Cathy1-85]

My husband and I are really thinking about making our hot wifing fantasy reality but there is so much we have no clue about.
Where/how is the best way/place to meet somebody to bring into our relationship??

Send her to a night club alone, dressed to thrill, she will do the rest for you, trust me, tell her to not wear underwear, she'll have more fun

 

[atantonov]

Send her to a night club alone, dressed to thrill, she will do the rest for you, trust me, tell her to not wear underwear, she'll have more fun

I ...... my first hotwife at the night club. She was dressed like street hooker. As soon as I laid my eyes on her and her girlfriend I knew they were in the club to pickup guys! I got lucky Susan picked me!

 

[Cathy1-85]

I ...... my first hotwife at the night club. She was dressed like street hooker. As soon as I laid my eyes on her and her girlfriend I knew they were in the club to pickup guys! I got lucky Susan picked me!

That's the way it goes sometimes, lol

 

[werekinky2]

May have already posted this, - if so, I apologize. After responding to ads and placing our own ads in swinger's pubs, we abandoned that approach - it's time consuming, and often yields guys who aren't what they claimed, no-shows, dick pics and so forth. It can work - we met one guy out of hundreds of responses to our ad seeking single or married males for threesomes.

1. What worked best for us was: friends that we knew already, - more than one guy from my wife's work who had already not so subtly indicated his interest. When her boss came on to her, it was a gift that paid off for us for several years. So we'll call these guys coworkers as well as friends. And the big benefit of this approach was that it was my wife choosing who she'd be interested in. Not me, pushing her.

2. If you live near a city with a lot of business centers, try the bar at a higher end hotel used by business people traveling for work (and smart locals). Go as a couple between the hours of 6 pm and 11 pm. It's all horny guys who have had a drink or two and who have a room there at the hotel. Hubby needs to drift away after you get there, so that guys can hit on you. Hubby might wait elsewhere in the hotel - even get a room for you to come back to after your tryst if you don't yet want to go home. Sometimes you have to spend a little, to get a lot. This isn't a time to cheap out. A room at a cheap motel sends the wrong message.

3. As others have noted, businesses (like bars, clubs, and even restaurants) near military bases. These are also good for meeting couples.

Bars can be pretty noisy, making it difficult to talk, but it's something you just have to work around. Body language plays a big role. That's how we met or got to know men for my wife, along with one chance encounter when she was dropping the kids off at ...... care. She met a guy there who was doing the same. Two weeks later, he was in our bed with my wife. It's one of our favorite encounters that lasted for more than one time.

I agree with this. We have been on a few swinger sites for a while. I have read and responded to so many guys. Some I would message for weeks then time to meet they would flake and straight up disappear. I try and have a few chats back and forth now and meet as soon as possible to try to cut down on waisting our time.even at that some guys we may meet them and after they are ghost. I’m kind of feeling like maybe some guys like the build up but can’t follow through. I do remember when my wife and I first got together before we were into sharing. Her and I would always meet guys at bars…we had even gone home with a few and that didn’t even seem like trying . So many missed opportunities now that I look back on it lol.