Best place to find a man to fuck your wife??

Send her to a night club alone, dressed to thrill, she will do the rest for you, trust me, tell her to not wear underwear, she'll have more fun
I ...... my first hotwife at the night club. She was dressed like street hooker. As soon as I laid my eyes on her and her girlfriend I knew they were in the club to pickup guys! I got lucky Susan picked me!
 
May have already posted this, - if so, I apologize. After responding to ads and placing our own ads in swinger's pubs, we abandoned that approach - it's time consuming, and often yields guys who aren't what they claimed, no-shows, dick pics and so forth. It can work - we met one guy out of hundreds of responses to our ad seeking single or married males for threesomes.

1. What worked best for us was: friends that we knew already, - more than one guy from my wife's work who had already not so subtly indicated his interest. When her boss came on to her, it was a gift that paid off for us for several years. So we'll call these guys coworkers as well as friends. And the big benefit of this approach was that it was my wife choosing who she'd be interested in. Not me, pushing her.

2. If you live near a city with a lot of business centers, try the bar at a higher end hotel used by business people traveling for work (and smart locals). Go as a couple between the hours of 6 pm and 11 pm. It's all horny guys who have had a drink or two and who have a room there at the hotel. Hubby needs to drift away after you get there, so that guys can hit on you. Hubby might wait elsewhere in the hotel - even get a room for you to come back to after your tryst if you don't yet want to go home. Sometimes you have to spend a little, to get a lot. This isn't a time to cheap out. A room at a cheap motel sends the wrong message.

3. As others have noted, businesses (like bars, clubs, and even restaurants) near military bases. These are also good for meeting couples.

Bars can be pretty noisy, making it difficult to talk, but it's something you just have to work around. Body language plays a big role. That's how we met or got to know men for my wife, along with one chance encounter when she was dropping the kids off at ...... care. She met a guy there who was doing the same. Two weeks later, he was in our bed with my wife. It's one of our favorite encounters that lasted for more than one time.

I agree with this. We have been on a few swinger sites for a while. I have read and responded to so many guys. Some I would message for weeks then time to meet they would flake and straight up disappear. I try and have a few chats back and forth now and meet as soon as possible to try to cut down on waisting our time.even at that some guys we may meet them and after they are ghost. I’m kind of feeling like maybe some guys like the build up but can’t follow through. I do remember when my wife and I first got together before we were into sharing. Her and I would always meet guys at bars…we had even gone home with a few and that didn’t even seem like trying . So many missed opportunities now that I look back on it lol.
 
I agree with this. We have been on a few swinger sites for a while. I have read and responded to so many guys. Some I would message for weeks then time to meet they would flake and straight up disappear. I try and have a few chats back and forth now and meet as soon as possible to try to cut down on waisting our time.even at that some guys we may meet them and after they are ghost. I’m kind of feeling like maybe some guys like the build up but can’t follow through. I do remember when my wife and I first got together before we were into sharing. Her and I would always meet guys at bars…we had even gone home with a few and that didn’t even seem like trying . So many missed opportunities now that I look back on it lol.
The no shows are usually guys who are afraid they can't get it done with another guy there. We found that my presence sometimes intimidated guys, even after they got to know us and were invited to fuck her in our home. I learned to read the room, so to speak, and stayed back when the occasion called for it. Soon enough, the guy lost his inhibition.
 
My husband and I are really thinking about making our hot wifing fantasy reality but there is so much we have no clue about.
Where/how is the best way/place to meet somebody to bring into our relationship??
There are websites such as this but sometimes you are going to have to sypth thru the fakes and flakes to find real legit people.
1) Ask to see face photos and/or video call
2) Find a method of communicating; if they are willing to give you their contact# that can be good step in the right direction
3) If meeting in person, go somewhere public for starters for conversation to see if Chemistry is a match
4) Make sure everyone is on the same sheet of music that NO PRESSURE to Play on First Date Meet Ups! (Very Important)
5) Move forward with Hotel Playtimes first until more comfortable
6) Possibly then to one another's home later down the road
7) In and Out of the bedroom Fun makes things so much better when you get to the Sex

Hope this all helps 😉
 
When we were in our mid 20 till about 45 we had a lot of fun in the Bars. Vacations at Hotels with bars was always a good time. The last two where from a online SPAM. Both maried.
Here is a boyfriend she meet through a SPAM. He was the perfect size and dam he could fuck. This was only the second time i actually seen my wife orgasm from a good fuck. My wife's contractions are incredible to see. I dam near blow watching her contractions squeeze in perfect sync with his cock's contractions. WOW! I still masturbate watching this one.
I did get to cleanup his wet cock and her cum fill pussy that time.
Thats so hot
 
The bar, on a weeknight, at a major hotel (higher end) used by business people who are traveling for work. Especially if you live near a big city or major business center. You'll also see some work trucks in the parking, - that let's you know some craftsmen or men who work in the trades are there as well. Choose carefully, - some of these hotels are where the sports teams stay when traveling for work. With this scenario, you aren't asking your wife to fuck some questionable guy in as sleezy motel, etc., and you don't have to worry about who will pay for the room if you get lucky. His company has paid for the room and probably the drinks as well. Her new BF probably won't want her all night because he has to be able to function at work the next day.

This scenario affords the married couple for the wife to enjoy a drink in a nice environment with people who can articulate their thoughts, walk, and chew gum at the same time. These might not be the guys who will fuck the hell out of her, but they are pretty good candidates for a pretty good fuck. Hubby can stay in the shadows in the bar, watch and wait, or can stand at the bar with his wife, help her meet guys and let things develop from there. Be sure and excuse yourself for frequent restroom breaks and take your time doing so. Let things warm up and develop at the bar. Your wife knows what to do to offer encouragement.....

If you have the means to do so and are on the way for your wife to meet a man she already knows, consider spending a little money and rent the room next to the room your wife will be having sex in. You'll be able to hear some of the fun, especially if the rooms have an adjoining door (sould travels well through these, as we all know). When he leaves, you'll be able to simply open the adjoining door and get right in bed with your wife. How would like that?! It's a rush as the seconds the two of you experience will be beyond words.