Other than the guy we do this with pretty regularly now we have very little experience.The very best and safest place to share your wide the first time is in your own home, with a guy that both you and your wife are comfortable/friends with. it's easy for you or her to set up and you or her can ask him to come over. A simple way to get the ball rolling is to get her to flirt a little with him and you dare her to show him her titties, then you dare him to show her his dick, from there let nature take it's course. But before you agree to invite a guy over, set some rules
. The guy has to be married and never tell anyone what happened, married because he will be more likely to be discreet
. Either you or her have the right to pull the plug on proceedings at any time
. The guy must not be rough or hurt her in any way
. Agree before he gets their who's cock she is going to suck first, yours or his, is he allowed to cum in her mouth
. Agree on whether or not the guy must be well-hung, circumcised or not
. Does the guy need to wear a condom when fucking her
. Does he only get to fuck her once or more that first time
. Do you all fuck in front of each other or does one guy leave the room
. Is the guy that's not fucking her allowed to kiss her or fondle her while she's being fuck by the other guy
. Her husband is to guide the new guy's cock into his wife's pussy that first time, that way he can never say he didn't want the guy to fuck her
Have fun
We never talked about it and didn't plan the first time it happened. Long boring story but our hot tub, friends and alcohol were involved. Our friend and my wife did it over the back of the couch. The whole deal took 8 minutes if that, he left quickly after.
Since then we've worked up to a pretty good thing with him. He's a super cool guy we trust. Divorced, has a good job, pays support to his ex, works like 60 hrs a week and dosent date. Other than having him to a few backyard BBQ gatherings with our friends we don't socialize with him.
He comes to our place, we're comfy at home. Nothing crazy happens, we take turns with her and we all have fun. We don't have any rules, he usually cums in her but he's cum in her mouth a couple of times and in her butt once in a while and it's all good. We don't need condoms with him.
Lots of kissing happens. They usually start off but not always. We lay around naked and just chill between rounds. It's a fun relaxing time for all of us. He's younger, skinny nerd type body with a very big dick. Wife likes sex with him a LOT and i like watching them.
We did this with a different local guy our age three times, it was good but we like it with our friend better.
We hooked up with a stranger out of town once, it was exciting as hell in the hotel bar leading up to going to his room but once they got started he wanted me to leave, wife kinda thought about it but said we do this together and we left. Huge buzz .......
I guess we just fell into a good thing with our friend.
We kinda talk about doing this with a cool black guy but so many things would have to line up so I doubt it will happen.