Best place to find a man to fuck your wife??

[Loridan]

The very best and safest place to share your wide the first time is in your own home, with a guy that both you and your wife are comfortable/friends with. it's easy for you or her to set up and you or her can ask him to come over. A simple way to get the ball rolling is to get her to flirt a little with him and you dare her to show him her titties, then you dare him to show her his dick, from there let nature take it's course. But before you agree to invite a guy over, set some rules

. The guy has to be married and never tell anyone what happened, married because he will be more likely to be discreet
. Either you or her have the right to pull the plug on proceedings at any time
. The guy must not be rough or hurt her in any way
. Agree before he gets their who's cock she is going to suck first, yours or his, is he allowed to cum in her mouth
. Agree on whether or not the guy must be well-hung, circumcised or not
. Does the guy need to wear a condom when fucking her
. Does he only get to fuck her once or more that first time
. Do you all fuck in front of each other or does one guy leave the room
. Is the guy that's not fucking her allowed to kiss her or fondle her while she's being fuck by the other guy
. Her husband is to guide the new guy's cock into his wife's pussy that first time, that way he can never say he didn't want the guy to fuck her

Have fun

Other than the guy we do this with pretty regularly now we have very little experience.
We never talked about it and didn't plan the first time it happened. Long boring story but our hot tub, friends and alcohol were involved. Our friend and my wife did it over the back of the couch. The whole deal took 8 minutes if that, he left quickly after.
Since then we've worked up to a pretty good thing with him. He's a super cool guy we trust. Divorced, has a good job, pays support to his ex, works like 60 hrs a week and dosent date. Other than having him to a few backyard BBQ gatherings with our friends we don't socialize with him.
He comes to our place, we're comfy at home. Nothing crazy happens, we take turns with her and we all have fun. We don't have any rules, he usually cums in her but he's cum in her mouth a couple of times and in her butt once in a while and it's all good. We don't need condoms with him.
Lots of kissing happens. They usually start off but not always. We lay around naked and just chill between rounds. It's a fun relaxing time for all of us. He's younger, skinny nerd type body with a very big dick. Wife likes sex with him a LOT and i like watching them.

We did this with a different local guy our age three times, it was good but we like it with our friend better.
We hooked up with a stranger out of town once, it was exciting as hell in the hotel bar leading up to going to his room but once they got started he wanted me to leave, wife kinda thought about it but said we do this together and we left. Huge buzz .......

I guess we just fell into a good thing with our friend.
We kinda talk about doing this with a cool black guy but so many things would have to line up so I doubt it will happen.

 

[Stevens4fun]

I actually had a guy walk out on us. First off he was late to meet. Thought he was a flake but he finally approached us at the bar as if he had been there the whole time. My ex and him went up to the room, i waited 20 min later to walk in on them. He looked at me and said "your gf is hot man"
5 min later he while pounding my ex, he rushed out and said "im sorry man, i cant do this...."
ex even called him an assole lol

I actually had a guy walk out on us. First off he was late to meet. Thought he was a flake but he finally approached us at the bar as if he had been there the whole time. My ex and him went up to the room, i waited 20 min later to walk in on them. He looked at me and said "your gf is hot man"
5 min later he while pounding my ex, he rushed out and said "im sorry man, i cant do this...."
ex even called him an assole lol

We only had one situation when we were in the hotel room and my wife called it off. She lied (gracefully) and said she'd like to reschedule, but that she had the cramps. She didn't have the cramps at all. It was becoming clear to both of us that the guy hadn't showered before meeting us at the bar. Normally, my wife would be all in for a sexy shower, after enjoying her BF, but when a guy doesn't address basic hygiene before meeting a couple it's a vibe killer. We couldn't wait to get out of there. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

 

[Cathy1-85]

We only had one situation when we were in the hotel room and my wife called it off. She lied (gracefully) and said she'd like to reschedule, but that she had the cramps. She didn't have the cramps at all. It was becoming clear to both of us that the guy hadn't showered before meeting us at the bar. Normally, my wife would be all in for a sexy shower, after enjoying her BF, but when a guy doesn't address basic hygiene before meeting a couple it's a vibe killer. We couldn't wait to get out of there. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Good for you, hygiene is really important.

 

[Cathy1-85]

Other than the guy we do this with pretty regularly now we have very little experience.
We never talked about it and didn't plan the first time it happened. Long boring story but our hot tub, friends and alcohol were involved. Our friend and my wife did it over the back of the couch. The whole deal took 8 minutes if that, he left quickly after.
Since then we've worked up to a pretty good thing with him. He's a super cool guy we trust. Divorced, has a good job, pays support to his ex, works like 60 hrs a week and dosent date. Other than having him to a few backyard BBQ gatherings with our friends we don't socialize with him.
He comes to our place, we're comfy at home. Nothing crazy happens, we take turns with her and we all have fun. We don't have any rules, he usually cums in her but he's cum in her mouth a couple of times and in her butt once in a while and it's all good. We don't need condoms with him.
Lots of kissing happens. They usually start off but not always. We lay around naked and just chill between rounds. It's a fun relaxing time for all of us. He's younger, skinny nerd type body with a very big dick. Wife likes sex with him a LOT and i like watching them.

We did this with a different local guy our age three times, it was good but we like it with our friend better.
We hooked up with a stranger out of town once, it was exciting as hell in the hotel bar leading up to going to his room but once they got started he wanted me to leave, wife kinda thought about it but said we do this together and we left. Huge buzz .......

I guess we just fell into a good thing with our friend.
We kinda talk about doing this with a cool black guy but so many things would have to line up so I doubt it will happen.

If what you have work for you why change it

 

[Azncouple21]

We only had one situation when we were in the hotel room and my wife called it off. She lied (gracefully) and said she'd like to reschedule, but that she had the cramps. She didn't have the cramps at all. It was becoming clear to both of us that the guy hadn't showered before meeting us at the bar. Normally, my wife would be all in for a sexy shower, after enjoying her BF, but when a guy doesn't address basic hygiene before meeting a couple it's a vibe killer. We couldn't wait to get out of there. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wife and I had that exact situation as well.
Nice guy, came to our house, did the small talk but once he took his shirt off whewwww
It didnt help it was the middle of summer
My wife was a trooper and took one for the team but that mishap cost us 6 months of no 3 way action.

 

[Cathy1-85]

Wife and I had that exact situation as well.
Nice guy, came to our house, did the small talk but once he took his shirt off whewwww
It didnt help it was the middle of summer
My wife was a trooper and took one for the team but that mishap cost us 6 months of no 3 way action.

can't blame her for that

 

[okcple4mfm]

The very best and safest place to share your wide the first time is in your own home, with a guy that both you and your wife are comfortable/friends with. it's easy for you or her to set up and you or her can ask him to come over. A simple way to get the ball rolling is to get her to flirt a little with him and you dare her to show him her titties, then you dare him to show her his dick, from there let nature take it's course. But before you agree to invite a guy over, set some rules

. The guy has to be married and never tell anyone what happened, married because he will be more likely to be discreet
. Either you or her have the right to pull the plug on proceedings at any time
. The guy must not be rough or hurt her in any way
. Agree before he gets their who's cock she is going to suck first, yours or his, is he allowed to cum in her mouth
. Agree on whether or not the guy must be well-hung, circumcised or not
. Does the guy need to wear a condom when fucking her
. Does he only get to fuck her once or more that first time
. Do you all fuck in front of each other or does one guy leave the room
. Is the guy that's not fucking her allowed to kiss her or fondle her while she's being fuck by the other guy
. Her husband is to guide the new guy's cock into his wife's pussy that first time, that way he can never say he didn't want the guy to fuck her

Have fun

Well put ,I like the way you think

 

[Cathy1-85]

Well put ,I like the way you think

Thank you

 

[displayed4u2c]

May have already posted this, - if so, I apologize. After responding to ads and placing our own ads in swinger's pubs, we abandoned that approach - it's time consuming, and often yields guys who aren't what they claimed, no-shows, dick pics and so forth. It can work - we met one guy out of hundreds of responses to our ad seeking single or married males for threesomes.

1. What worked best for us was: friends that we knew already, - more than one guy from my wife's work who had already not so subtly indicated his interest. When her boss came on to her, it was a gift that paid off for us for several years. So we'll call these guys coworkers as well as friends. And the big benefit of this approach was that it was my wife choosing who she'd be interested in. Not me, pushing her.

2. If you live near a city with a lot of business centers, try the bar at a higher end hotel used by business people traveling for work (and smart locals). Go as a couple between the hours of 6 pm and 11 pm. It's all horny guys who have had a drink or two and who have a room there at the hotel. Hubby needs to drift away after you get there, so that guys can hit on you. Hubby might wait elsewhere in the hotel - even get a room for you to come back to after your tryst if you don't yet want to go home. Sometimes you have to spend a little, to get a lot. This isn't a time to cheap out. A room at a cheap motel sends the wrong message.

3. As others have noted, businesses (like bars, clubs, and even restaurants) near military bases. These are also good for meeting couples.

Bars can be pretty noisy, making it difficult to talk, but it's something you just have to work around. Body language plays a big role. That's how we met or got to know men for my wife, along with one chance encounter when she was dropping the kids off at ...... care. She met a guy there who was doing the same. Two weeks later, he was in our bed with my wife. It's one of our favorite encounters that lasted for more than one time.

#2 is our standard go to approach, hasnt failed yet

 

[Cathy1-85]

#2 is our standard go to approach, hasnt failed yet

I doubt it will ever fail, lol

 

[Stevens4fun]

#2 is our standard go to approach, hasnt failed yet

Exactly. Guys who really crave the idea of sharing their wife will never achieve it unless they can put their wife in the right environment to meet guys and be her sexy self. Going to a swing club or party is a big step unless she's done that before. Going to the right bar with hotel accommodations nearby is a smaller step that's easier for her to internalize. This isn't the time to be having doubts, and it isn't the time to cheap out. Put your wife in a situation that's inviting and comfortable for her as well as yourself and don't try to control every aspect of that happens. Your inability to supress the urge to control it all will be self-defeating and turn your wife off. She needs to have some say if it's to become reality - it's about her. How about if we just step back a bit and let her guide the fun?! 😁

 

[displayed4u2c]

Exactly. Guys who really crave the idea of sharing their wife will never achieve it unless they can put their wife in the right environment to meet guys and be her sexy self. Going to a swing club or party is a big step unless she's done that before. Going to the right bar with hotel accommodations nearby is a smaller step that's easier for her to internalize. This isn't the time to be having doubts, and it isn't the time to cheap out. Put your wife in a situation that's inviting and comfortable for her as well as yourself and don't try to control every aspect of that happens. Your inability to supress the urge to control it all will be self-defeating and turn your wife off. She needs to have some say if it's to become reality - it's about her. How about if we just step back a bit and let her guide the fun?! 😁

dead on assessment👍