My wife says the size of a guys penis has never been a deciding factor for her in choosing to hook up with a guy if he has a good personality, a sense of humor, knows how to flatter and flirt with her and seduce her, she is most likely going to fuck him. I have to say based on my observations, that is 100% true. I have seen her with tiny little dicks and huge dicks. She hooked up multiple times with a guy who was smaller than me a few years ago over the course of about six years. She said it was not about the sex but how "wonderful he was" to her.