Do big cocks last longer?

[Drew3739]

My wife dated a guy that had a very big dick. Much larger than anyone else she has been with. She said he lasted significantly longer too. It would typically last at least 20+ min but frequently would 45-60 min. She said it was amazing in the beginning because the previous guys she slept with lasted 3-5 min usually and rarely lasted more than 10 min.

I also found a study while back that kind of made sense why bigger guys last longer. Supposedly all dicks have the same amount of nerve endings regardless of size. On a small dick those nerve endings are much closer together causing increased sensitivity. The nerve endings on big dicks are more space between them which causes less sensitivity .

 

[wasper]

More on my personal experience in this space. My ex-roommate had a huge 9” cock. His typical sex session was letting a woman blow him and then thrusting her as deep and hard as he could until he came, which would usually take 30 minutes. While we were roommates (we had bedrooms with a common wall) I was frequently treated to the sounds of his sex sessions. He would typically pick women up in bars, and bring them home after both of them were drunk. Every session sounded the same. They began with the woman making coughing and gagging noises while she sucked him (or should I say while he mouth-fucked them) and then the “oh my gods”, gasping, grunting and and yelping would start as he started pounding away. Once that began I knew i would be hearing his bed banging against my wall for 30 minutes with no pauses. How he was able to thrust for that long, with no breaks, without cumming, was always amazing to me. A few times my gf (now wife) was over when one of my roommate’s sex sessions happened. I would tell her - listen to this! She would start blowing me while we listened to the gagging from the other room, and then mount me when the banging started. Within a minute she would be cumming multiple times while on top as she listened. After she was done, I would bang her tight Asian pussy doggy style and then put her legs over my shoulders and go deep until I came. All of that would take 10 minutes at most and then we would marvel as we listened to my roommate pound away for another 20 minutes. One time he went for an hour and I got hard again and my wife and I fucked a second time and finished while he was still pounding away LOL. My wife said “He must be murdering her with that big cock!” So in my experience my 5.5" cock generally shoots in 5-10 minutes and my ex-roommate's 9" cock could last 30-60 minutes on average. Small smaple size but supports the overall theory nicely.

 

[DewMyWife]

More on my personal experience in this space. My ex-roommate had a huge 9” cock. His typical sex session was letting a woman blow him and then thrusting her as deep and hard as he could until he came, which would usually take 30 minutes. While we were roommates (we had bedrooms with a common wall) I was frequently treated to the sounds of his sex sessions. He would typically pick women up in bars, and bring them home after both of them were drunk. Every session sounded the same. They began with the woman making coughing and gagging noises while she sucked him (or should I say while he mouth-fucked them) and then the “oh my gods”, gasping, grunting and and yelping would start as he started pounding away. Once that began I knew i would be hearing his bed banging against my wall for 30 minutes with no pauses. How he was able to thrust for that long, with no breaks, without cumming, was always amazing to me. A few times my gf (now wife) was over when one of my roommate’s sex sessions happened. I would tell her - listen to this! She would start blowing me while we listened to the gagging from the other room, and then mount me when the banging started. Within a minute she would be cumming multiple times while on top as she listened. After she was done, I would bang her tight Asian pussy doggy style and then put her legs over my shoulders and go deep until I came. All of that would take 10 minutes at most and then we would marvel as we listened to my roommate pound away for another 20 minutes. One time he went for an hour and I got hard again and my wife and I fucked a second time and finished while he was still pounding away LOL. My wife said “He must be murdering her with that big cock!” So in my experience my 5.5" cock generally shoots in 5-10 minutes and my ex-roommate's 9" cock could last 30-60 minutes on average. Small smaple size but supports the overall theory nicely.

On the other hand, I'd fuck my Asian wife-to-be for an hour. She would complain that I took too long!

 

[wasper]

On the other hand, I'd fuck my Asian wife-to-be for an hour. She would complain that I took too long!

Taking 8" for a hour would make any Asian wife complain! On the rare occasion I was able to last that long, my Asian wife complained too... despite my cock only being 5.5".

 

[majorem]

Non-asian wives also frequently complain once you get past the 45m mark

 

[DewMyWife]

Back then I was able to cum, keep my erection, and keep going until a second ejaculation! May would be satisfied and sometime sore. If she was still sore the next day, she relied on her cock sucking skills to take care of me!

 

[DewMyWife]

Back then I was able to cum, keep my erection, and keep going until a second ejaculation! May would be satisfied and somewhat sore. If she was still sore the next day, she relied on her cock sucking skills to take care of me!

 

[compassionatedom]

Taking 8" for a hour would make any Asian wife complain! On the rare occasion I was able to last that long, my Asian wife complained too... despite my cock only being 5.5".

My Asian wife could only take me missionary. I was too thick for her.
On the other hand, between my cock and tongue, she was a frequent squirter

 

[wasper]

My cock & tongue also provided my Asian wife with multiple orgasms, albeit not the squirting variety. She would lubricate heavily thinking about big cocks but find my smaller cock satisfying and fulfilling. But I think we both always wondered what a huge cock would be able to do.

 

[Jsking31]

I can say my wife’s lovers are bigger than me. They last longer as well.

 

[compassionatedom]

I can say my wife’s lovers are bigger than me. They last longer as well.

And we BWC’s are appreciative

 

[Ctp069ctp069]

I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.

6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis

From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.

www.cosmopolitan.com

The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1

From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).

A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."

Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.

^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/

Well im 7 inchs and thick and i normally last at least 20 mins minimum. And it could be that all men have the same number of nerve ending in the penis so the smaller you are the more compact the never endings are so it could be more sensitive then a bigger penis.

 

[compassionatedom]

Well im 7 inchs and thick and i normally last at least 20 mins minimum. And it could be that all men have the same number of nerve ending in the penis so the smaller you are the more compact the never endings are so it could be more sensitive then a bigger penis.

And perhaps it’s because wives are so appreciative, but they get me hard for repeat performances after nice sessions

 

[Jsking31]

And we BWC’s are appreciative

My wife’s current gets a lot of appreciation from her

 

[compassionatedom]

My wife’s current gets a lot of appreciation from her

Love to know more about such an appreciative woman

 

[Duncanf]

Spot on. If you have seen any of the vids/pics I’ve posted of my wife and her coworker, it’s directly aligned with this here in regards to how they take there time and enjoy it. Almost to the point that I’m almost ready to pull the plug bc of how intimate its looking based off the hidden cam videos I’m receiving from him (and no, she’s not aware that I know about this, only him and I).

Wow, that's hot.

 

[Happy Mom]

My experience has been somewhat the opposite. Because I am pretty small larger cocks tend to cum fast because of how tight they fit in my pussy. I have had a couple big ones that could go longer but they were very confident Or maybe they were on round two. For a longer fuck I like the midsize cocks. For a good pussy stretch I like the big bulls! 💋

 

[fatherly]

A biological explanation is that the dick no matter was the size has the same amount of nerve endings. In a small the nerve concentration is higher than a big dick and thus a shorter fuse. In the bigger dick, the nerve concentration is lower making the big dicks less sensitive. Thus the other problem big dick don't cum easy and need jacking to finish. Or a big dick never finishes and the pumping, hammering, and speed can be over the top. Whereas with a normal dick might do the job better and give each person a chance to catch their breath. As for the smaller pussy, obviously the nerve concentration in a big dick is compressed and likely to trigger sooner as mention by Happy Mom, an expert on the subject.

Size, however, is not the only determinant for lasting longer. Physical condition, mental training, and emotion bounding also play a role in orgasm quantity, quality, and frequency.

 

[WaltHardman]

All intetesting info here... Julie, my wife enjoys cocks on the larger size. I am 8" when hard, Julie is not interested in sex with men with less than 6", or more than 9". We enjoy longer sessions of sex... we like cum.... our best long sessions involve multiple orgasm from her bf and myself. The ability to control your orgasm is great, but the ability to get hard again in 10 minutes is awesome... we like to get the cum flowing... tag teaming works for us.. cheers

 

[desimilf80]

I have a theory heavily influenced by my predilection for size humiliation. I refer to the below article which arouses me more than any porn - a women's magazine effectively saying size counts while providing a big cock user guide for their readers.

6 things you only know if you have had sex with someone with a huge penis

From high-fiving to 'ouucchh', having sex with the well-endowed can be V complex.

www.cosmopolitan.com

The main thing they emphasise is the requirement to take your time with a huge one ("gone are the days of quick poundings with your knickers still halfway down your legs"). Not only does going slow allow the receiver to adjust to the monolith going inside them it also ensures the sex lasts longer (obvs), which is pretty darn important given "likelihood or consistency of partnered orgasm is associated with penile-vaginal intercourse duration".^1

From my experience as a pencil dick it's literally seconds before I'm able to be fully inserted and can obviously move to full throttle (and thus ejaculation) much sooner than would a competently applied thick one. Thus, I am usually done in the 3-5 minutes it would take a woman to adjust to a big one (in my case this is exacerbated by intercourse for me usually being either the footnote to my wife getting off with her vibrator or her just getting it over with by tickling my balls).

A lot of the naysayers in the size counts debate are women who say they tried a big one and it was uncomfortable. I think these experiences though are the result of the well hung individual not taking their time. As per the article if a guy with a big cock has "played by the foreplay rules, then you're pretty much guaranteed to have totally amazing orgasms. With a penis that size it's impossible not to hit the spot."

Would love to hear from those with first hand experience whether this theory holds up in real life.

^1 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19170844/

If you are willing to try...what works for me is taking a 1/8 tab of Cialis a few hours before like 2mg that I shave off with a utility knife and after that can go for 10 mins, Helps in round 2 as well. It could be Placebo effect - who knows.