He needs to go thru a vetting process. Its a pain in the ass & lots of guys misunderstand, but its a serious matter. Want to know: Age, build, hung, experience, education, profession, STD clean & both covid shots.
1st meet in public place (upscale hotel bar or pub) to varify & check.... chemistry between them.
Lost a lots of potentials due to this, but must be safe, not sorry.