Hi, my wife and I are getting ready to play with our first guy in a threesum. I was wondering how people were able to accept that it’s just sex and it didn’t mean anything more than that to your wife. Thanks for your help
I 100% agree with that. I often marveled how I’d use the wife all night and then hold hands chin chatting while strolling through a farmers market or somethingWell, I guess you two would have a good talk over it before hand. I personally do not strictly request my wife to be "only sex and nothing more", many women and my wife included have to have some sort of emotional connection to the guy she is having sex with. We agree to always put each other and the marriage first and before any other things, the rest should be for hers or your own enjoyment. Just fyi, my first time 3some was so exciting that I couldn't stay hard for more than 5 mins and I was only watching for the most part, lol
Similar, we had a good time Friday night, room service lunch on Saturday, but went out after that to enjoy each other's company. Back to business later that night after clubbing before seeing hubby next day, which was a first for me. Having written that I think it's probably off topic because he wasn't involved Friday or Saturday. Sunday he only got to watch, to his dismay. She was happy, which was all that mattered.I 100% agree with that. I often marveled how I’d use the wife all night and then hold hands chin chatting while strolling through a farmers market or something
It's a mental attitude, it doesn't occur overnight. We are fortunaet that we are both ont he same page. Many hotwives, the majority I think, feel they need a connection to have sex: conversation, dinners, holding hands, hugging, etc. For use it just about sex, we both expressed it and are living it, when she feels an emotion she ends it. She says "IT'S JUST SEX".Hi, my wife and I are getting ready to play with our first guy in a threesum. I was wondering how people were able to accept that it’s just sex and it didn’t mean anything more than that to your wife. Thanks for your help
i really like her friend bringing a date. so innocent & yet so erotic at the same time.After a couple of years we started having FWB and by that I truly mean a friend. We enjoyed the sex with the other men even if we never saw them again. Some guys were friendly and we liked them but they lacked something in the sex department. Elaine would use them as a sex toy and enjoy them for the night but not invite them back. Most men asked or hinted at being invited back and we always said "We will see or maybe" then later the two of us would discuss possible return engagement. Over the years we found several men we both liked in and out of bed. One guy would even bring a date over to our house for a cocktail or swim in the pool and no sex but it was nice to know we could call him up and have a great evening without having any worries about whether or not they would show or in someway not be satisfactory. Neither of us ever had a jealousy issue at all. My wife always liked to play with a dildo or vibrator and watch porn when we were alone. I thought of the other men fucking her as a dildo or vibrator with a man attached, LOLView attachment 336383View attachment 336385
I would have thought you couldn't have not stayed hard!Just fyi, my first time 3some was so exciting that I couldn't stay hard for more than 5 mins and I was only watching for the most part, lol
I'm sure that's not true.