First time watching

Well, I guess you two would have a good talk over it before hand. I personally do not strictly request my wife to be "only sex and nothing more", many women and my wife included have to have some sort of emotional connection to the guy she is having sex with. We agree to always put each other and the marriage first and before any other things, the rest should be for hers or your own enjoyment. Just fyi, my first time 3some was so exciting that I couldn't stay hard for more than 5 mins and I was only watching for the most part, lol
 
Well, I guess you two would have a good talk over it before hand. I personally do not strictly request my wife to be "only sex and nothing more", many women and my wife included have to have some sort of emotional connection to the guy she is having sex with. We agree to always put each other and the marriage first and before any other things, the rest should be for hers or your own enjoyment. Just fyi, my first time 3some was so exciting that I couldn't stay hard for more than 5 mins and I was only watching for the most part, lol
I 100% agree with that. I often marveled how I’d use the wife all night and then hold hands chin chatting while strolling through a farmers market or something
 
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I 100% agree with that. I often marveled how I’d use the wife all night and then hold hands chin chatting while strolling through a farmers market or something
Similar, we had a good time Friday night, room service lunch on Saturday, but went out after that to enjoy each other's company. Back to business later that night after clubbing before seeing hubby next day, which was a first for me. Having written that I think it's probably off topic because he wasn't involved Friday or Saturday. Sunday he only got to watch, to his dismay. She was happy, which was all that mattered.
 
Hi, my wife and I are getting ready to play with our first guy in a threesum. I was wondering how people were able to accept that it’s just sex and it didn’t mean anything more than that to your wife. Thanks for your help
It's a mental attitude, it doesn't occur overnight. We are fortunaet that we are both ont he same page. Many hotwives, the majority I think, feel they need a connection to have sex: conversation, dinners, holding hands, hugging, etc. For use it just about sex, we both expressed it and are living it, when she feels an emotion she ends it. She says "IT'S JUST SEX".
 
Our first was a thrill for me. Elaine seemed hesitant to ask him to the bedroom. Eric excused himself to use the bathroom and I checked with her to see if she was still up for it and she said yes but just did not know how to bring up the subject. When he came back I simply asked him if he would like to take my lovely girl to bed. He said sure and off they went leaving me nervous and hoping for the best. They left the door partially open and I could hear idle chit chat for a couple of minutes, then the talking stopped. After several more minutes I slowly opened the door to see Elaine on her back and Eric's head buried under her dress. She smiled and waved me in and the party started.
Keeping in mind she was 29 or 30 and we all had a lot of sexual energy we kept busy sucking and fucking until all were satiated. He thanked us profusely and left. We collapsed in bed asleep. In the morning I was afraid she would feel guilty and say never again. I asked her what she thought about everything that happened. She asked me if I had a good time. I assured her I had and she said great. I asked would she do it again and she said probably but it would have to our special secret and we must be discreet.
We continued in the lifestyle for 30 years and never regretted it
 
We have been doing this for years and one thing I can tell you is there is no room for jealousy at all here....even if you feel it some just let things flow and you will all have a great time with it. We find it very hot to have her pleasured and everything but anal is on the table for us. In the end you must have good communication to make it work and if it does all will get what they need. Sometimes there is an emotional connection and thats when it is best for her so choose your bulls wisely and do what it takes to keep him engaged in the relationship giving them time together alone, then with you there to watch and help them to make it the very best sex she has had. I have also been the bull for a few couples and I can tell you I find it very nice to have a hubsand that wants nothing more then to see his wife pleasured by someone different either alone with her, with him watching and learning or helping with the pleasure.
 
After a couple of years we started having FWB and by that I truly mean a friend. We enjoyed the sex with the other men even if we never saw them again. Some guys were friendly and we liked them but they lacked something in the sex department. Elaine would use them as a sex toy and enjoy them for the night but not invite them back. Most men asked or hinted at being invited back and we always said "We will see or maybe" then later the two of us would discuss possible return engagement. Over the years we found several men we both liked in and out of bed. One guy would even bring a date over to our house for a cocktail or swim in the pool and no sex but it was nice to know we could call him up and have a great evening without having any worries about whether or not they would show or in someway not be satisfactory. Neither of us ever had a jealousy issue at all. My wife always liked to play with a dildo or vibrator and watch porn when we were alone. I thought of the other men fucking her as a dildo or vibrator with a man attached, LOLrdil58.jpgrdil59.jpg
 
After a couple of years we started having FWB and by that I truly mean a friend. We enjoyed the sex with the other men even if we never saw them again. Some guys were friendly and we liked them but they lacked something in the sex department. Elaine would use them as a sex toy and enjoy them for the night but not invite them back. Most men asked or hinted at being invited back and we always said "We will see or maybe" then later the two of us would discuss possible return engagement. Over the years we found several men we both liked in and out of bed. One guy would even bring a date over to our house for a cocktail or swim in the pool and no sex but it was nice to know we could call him up and have a great evening without having any worries about whether or not they would show or in someway not be satisfactory. Neither of us ever had a jealousy issue at all. My wife always liked to play with a dildo or vibrator and watch porn when we were alone. I thought of the other men fucking her as a dildo or vibrator with a man attached, LOLView attachment 336383View attachment 336385
i really like her friend bringing a date. so innocent & yet so erotic at the same time.

pete
 
My first time watching was in the closet unfortunately lol but my wife knew I was in there when he left.. she knew it’s something I wanted but ultimately she accepted it and made it possible.. she talked to him privately and accepted it.. it was part of her agreement so we could all enjoy each other sexually without anything more.. this included sexual attraction, satisfaction, stimulation, etc.. which they’ve had no issue with.. I’m along for the ride.. So letting her talk to him privately worked for me.. she enjoys having multiple men enjoying her as the center of attention. Some people need more than physical attraction, they may need to be mentally attracted and/or have feelings for them in order to be short or long term.. it depends on all parties involved in my opinion
 
It is for my wife's pleasure and we agree it is only sex for her satisfaction. We lay out the ground rules to the third we chose from there I usually just
watch the first time he enjoys her body and she enjoys his body. If he can go again after a short rest then she takes both of us together and we both
cum in her.
 
Going into our first time, we knew we were meeting the bull just for sex. After the wife and I met him for drinks, they were very comfy with each other and they headed to his room. Wife told me.. wait downstairs I’ll be back later... I received quite a few texts while she was up in the room of a wife getting pounded by a big cock bull.
Communication is important.
 
I will never forget the first time I actually watched KK having full-on sex with another guy.

I was simultaneously physically ill; nauseous, wobbly, feeling like I would pass out, my heart pounding, a body-wide burning sensation, combined with an iron-hard erection, an ache in my balls, and a feeling of total lust. I had a spontaneous orgasm, ejaculating in my boxers watching KK go at it with a stranger she’d picked up in the hotel lounge.

Even though I’d fantasized about it for years, nothing prepared me for the savage reality of watching KK kissing, fondling, being touched by, and fucking another man. The conflict of jealousy and the intensity of erotic lust is indelible in my mind.

For weeks after that first real experience, I couldn’t think of anything else, and suffered anxiety, lust and inexplicable emotions, wanting her to do it again, but not wanting it, emotional conflict and fascination over seeing KK give herself to another man.

More than a decade later, after watching her with countless men, those feelings still persist.