yes, Yes, YES, YEEESSSS, YYYYYEEEEESSSSSSSS!!!
I agree with you dear one. I cannot see why any loving caring spouse would ever want to see their mate humiliated.
Fantasies are wonderful things to have.
My husband does Role Play well with me even things he might never do in reality. He does it for me, for my fun and I do his for him, for his fun. We do enjoy those parts, we love to see each other having fun. How about you guys?
So how do the two of you swing? What do you do, if I may ask and get a response?
"the selfish attitude about their spouse and the sense of entitlement for any sexual proclivity that they may imagine"
I agree. I want the best for my mate.
"That's not the way it works in a real marriage. You both compromise and sacrifice, but you don't force the other to do something they don't like."
Wow you sound so much like me. Making any of the crazy things we talk about here become a reality is often risky at best that is why more fantasy and role play make sense. We have had many things become real but always after a very very long time and a great deal of slow patience and trust building. As you alluded to, there are a lot of crazy selfish, self centered goobs out there. Gotta weed them out and time is usually the best weeder.
I get that, been there, dealt with that, and somehow a long way down the road we are overcoming parts of it.
Is there anyway it would okay for it to happen to others as he watched? we are making some head way with him watching live some of my crazy desires.