Best to choose the Bull for his interest in the wife but not taking her away. Married Bulls are probably safest for that.
introduce her to a well hung friend, make sure she is aware he is hung, tell your friend she is hot for him and leave them alone tor a few hours, they will fuck for sure
When you agree to become her Cuck your agreeing give her your sexuality unconditionally for her to do as she chooses.I've been thinking for a while about suggesting to my wife that she has a lover and for us to become a cuckold couple but how risky is this? How many marriages have failed because the couple quite genuinely entered the cuckold lifestyle but split as a direct result?
For those of us who are living the lifestyle "Achilles_The_Bull" lays it out for you.There always the risk , but the real cuckolding should make the marriage stronger, no secrets, trust ,full play usually long term bull help in that case, of course the cuckolding is not porn video that you see on the internet and exited for few mins and want to try and your fantasy , cuckolding is much different more intense nothing like the internet videos that want someone to promote something different. In this lifestyle everyone should know their role the focus is always starting on the hotwife > bull > cuck. The bull should know that the couple accept him in their family, the bull that create bad influence on the marriage that could even broke up , he is completely failed and its usually because of the egoistic character , the bull role can be dom, breeder, etc , but he must to know always to be gentleman to. Any many couples should know cuckolding it's not porn videos, once you start it you must be ready for everything and be 1000% sure that you want it both. communication in the couple is the most important part. So my opinion is, cuckolding is not risky, if there is right people included, cuckolding can make the marriage much better, fails is can be only is the couple is not ready and the bull don't know hes part in this lifestyle.
The bulls are just interested in fucking another man’s wife and go back home.
I was not making a prediction, I am saying based on my actual experience.Unfortunately, you have no way of knowing that, until maybe its too late.
I was not making a prediction, I am saying based on my actual experience.
Lol. Funny. The past (and present) gives you a view in to the future. Should I also be worried that another woman may seduce her away from me? It’s certainly possible but based on past experience I’m not concerned.Well, if you're still cuckolding then that experience is meaningless as it is still a possibility if you continue.
You're talking about the past ("experience"). I'm talking about the future ("the prediction, or possibility of it").
Its like saying "who needs a seatbelt, I've never had a car accident.". The past is irrelevant if you still intend to drive in the future as the future still presents the possibility of it happening.
Lol. Funny. The past (and present) gives you a view in to the future. Should I also be worried that another woman may seduce her away from me? It’s certainly possible but based on past experience I’m not concerned.
Look, I’m not gonna spend the rest of my day going back and forth on this. We’ve been in this lifestyle for over 10 years and we‘ve had 12 bulls on and off for most of that time.The past (and present) gives you a view to the future? Where do you purchase this crystal ball, lol?
So would you argue that every couple who is married right now will remain married because they were married in the past and are married now? Clearly that is absurd. People change, circumstances change, better offers become temptations. That is reality.
Well, we learn from others and refuse to do so at our peril. There are many stories on here and elsewhere of couples who were as secure as you say you are. And yet the wife still ended up with the bull and leaving the husband. You believing that it does not happen does not alter reality.
This is why ground rules that limit emotional intimacy are so important. These are widely documented to reduce the risk. They include full transparency with all communications between wife and bull (or sometimes all communication is only with bull and husband), and/or that the husband is always present, or commonly that the number of meets with a given bull is limited to some maximum (some only having one night stands).
Its pretty obvious how these things reduce the risk.
No-one is saying that you *personally* have to do them, or anyone has to. I'm just pointing out the wisdom of learning from others, some of whom lost their wives because they were complacent. It does happen. And no, they (obviously!) did not predict it!!!
We all choose our level of risk. You have chosen yours (hopefully, as an active choice by agreement). But without sensible ground rules that logically minimise the chances of emotional intimacy, you are in reality taking a greater risk that others.
To be clear, we all have to weigh up the risks and decide for ourselves how far we will go to protect the primary relationship in the pursuit of what is a lot of fun.
The level of risk that you choose is nobody else's business. But the reality is that it is clearly a greater risk than others are prepared to take, simply because you choose to not take the same precautions that others do. But no-one is questioning your right to do that.
Look, I’m not gonna spend the rest of my day going back and forth on this. We’ve been in this lifestyle for over 10 years and we‘ve had 12 bulls on and off for most of that time.
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I will not live my life worrying. Doesn‘t mean that she can never leave me for one of her bulls, it just means that at this time I have no reason for concern.
I use that experience as a guide.
If you or anyone want to worry about what can or may happen that’s your prerogative.
YOU sir are so correct! My gf/hotwife and I found a very ignorant bull last year. Almost exactly one year. First off, whike he had a constant hardon ( i tinks viagra, maybe not) his cock was little. So little my gf on cam referred to it as Mini Mex hotddog.😜 He also drank a lot when with her.There always the risk , but the real cuckolding should make the marriage stronger, no secrets, trust ,full play usually long term bull help in that case, of course the cuckolding is not porn video that you see on the internet and exited for few mins and want to try and your fantasy , cuckolding is much different more intense nothing like the internet videos that want someone to promote something different. In this lifestyle everyone should know their role the focus is always starting on the hotwife > bull > cuck. The bull should know that the couple accept him in their family, the bull that create bad influence on the marriage that could even broke up , he is completely failed and its usually because of the egoistic character , the bull role can be dom, breeder, etc , but he must to know always to be gentleman to. Any many couples should know cuckolding it's not porn videos, once you start it you must be ready for everything and be 1000% sure that you want it both. communication in the couple is the most important part. So my opinion is, cuckolding is not risky, if there is right people included, cuckolding can make the marriage much better, fails is can be only is the couple is not ready and the bull don't know hes part in this lifestyle.