How to get my wife to try other men?

Merkaba34 said:
I want to know what the first step many of you tried?.....While my wife hasn't actually said she would do a MMF, or sleep with other men in front of me......she seems like she would try it if I allowed it. I was just wondering what possible situations or scenarios you would recommend to help facilitate it. I know alcohol would have to be involved to loosen her up and help with her inhibitions. Any help or ideas would be greatly appreciated.......
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I have a number of tips I can share with you. I would prefer to do it privately if you can post your email.
 
There are several excellent threads on here specifically on this topic where people have shared their experiences and how they got started, reading through those is probably a good way to begin. At the very least it will give you a few suggestions,
 
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Emma&Carl said:
We have only ever got as far as showing her pics to other men. It turns us both on especially tributes but neither of us can commit to the final act although its what we both crave. Its the finality of it... You cant undo the cock or cum once its done!
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My wife fucks only my best friend for me to watch but we also love for men to look at her naked and comment. I would love for you to show me pictures of your gorgeous wife.
 
I think everyone has secret desires that they would pursue if it were not for society's rules and their own fears . . . . so the key (to me) is getting the other to speak openly about their secret desires and letting them know that you provide acceptance and a safe place to explore their fantasies . . . I have written sexy stories for others and written their fantasies . . . it has lead some couples to open to discussions first and then their own sexplorations. their own fantasies.
 
Openandready69 said:
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I love your breasts. I love that they are round, full and natural. I love that you know how sexy you are when you hold them out to me . . . . beautiful gifts from the gods. I want to worship them. . . pay homage. . . blow kisses on them. I want to trace them with my fingers and gently spiral to the nipples at their center. . . Draw circles. Hear you sigh. Feel you push them warm against me. Your nips swell. Little bumps rise all around your areola. Your nipples beckon me. You push out your breasts in invitation and I must comply with kisses. . . . little sucks . . . . and tender bites. You feed my sex with your sex. You are the mother of sexy beauty. mmmmm . . . . I think I smell your arousal . . . . lovely . . . more to kiss. Spread for me. . . I'm still so thirsty for you. . . all of you . . . . mmmmm so very wet . . . . I hope you don't mind but this will take awhile . . . . tastes so so good . . . . ;-) . . . . . . . . thanks for sharing and for the fantasy
 
Amazon and the Bear said:
Kinda glad this question was asked....I asked the same thing 20+ years ago...and it was explained to me like this. To do anything you need a means, motive, and the opportunity. Just like an episode of Law and Order. What everyone has said before is true! You have to be honest about your feelings and what you want...that is the means....That is how she knows she is safe to proceed and not throwing away a relationship. The next is motive. You have to find some one who pushes her lust buttons (that is Amazon's saying even though I wish I could claim it). She won't give in to desire, if there isn't anyone that she desires. And, for the first time, it needs to be someone that really gets her motor running. And once again, this is where honesty comes in....don't force it. Let her decide. Lastly is opportunity....You have to set up her and the stunt cock in a place where both are comfortable enough to act naturally. It may be with you there, it may not. It may require alcohol...actually it will probably require alcohol.....Anyway, you have to talk to her and find a good safe place.....Now, the last part. LET IT HAPPEN! Don't try to force it. If it only goes to kissing or petting, that's ok. There is always next time. If it goes all the way....let it...don't try and stop it unless she wants you to. There, that is my 2 cents. Use what you need, discard the rest.
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Great tips!
 
Black Jack said:
I am 45 years old My wife is 42 years old I want my wife to moan under someone else I gave her the opportunity to fuck under someone else She knows she opened her breasts last year I wanted her to dress very tight, we made it I watched porn in bed for a year, she knows I want to cheat, sometimes she says yes, sometimes no will my wife fuck
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Ask her ideal candidate. Keep talking. Communication is key.
 
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Merkaba34 said:
I want to know what the first step many of you tried?.....While my wife hasn't actually said she would do a MMF, or sleep with other men in front of me......she seems like she would try it if I allowed it. I was just wondering what possible situations or scenarios you would recommend to help facilitate it. I know alcohol would have to be involved to loosen her up and help with her inhibitions. Any help or ideas would be greatly appreciated.......
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We did it completely alcohol free! And it was fucking amazing
 
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Hey guys,
My situation is similar to other posters here. i have been talking to my wife about her having a friends with benefits for a couple years now. In the last couple months she has come around to the idea. It took a lot of honest discussions about why I wanted to do it and that completely honest approach looks like it is going to pay off. She is now actively looking but is unsure how to approach a guy she likes and how to explain the agreement she and I have without her sounding crazy. Any ideas on how to meet and start a conversation with a guy for her to have fun with?

Thanks,

Husband.
 
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HusbandandWife12345 said:
Hey guys,
My situation is similar to other posters here. i have been talking to my wife about her having a friends with benefits for a couple years now. In the last couple months she has come around to the idea. It took a lot of honest discussions about why I wanted to do it and that completely honest approach looks like it is going to pay off. She is now actively looking but is unsure how to approach a guy she likes and how to explain the agreement she and I have without her sounding crazy. Any ideas on how to meet and start a conversation with a guy for her to have fun with?

Thanks,

Husband.
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Congrats, hope things go well with your adventures, where are you based?
 
Emma&Carl said:
We have only ever got as far as showing her pics to other men. It turns us both on especially tributes but neither of us can commit to the final act although its what we both crave. Its the finality of it... You cant undo the cock or cum once its done!
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I love face to face meeting and real fuck meeting not tribute .it's only time waste .But real taste and feeling in real sex between two bodies
 

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