Is she cheating on me?

[Strong234]

Hello everybody

Me and my wife are married for years, now we're both in our 30s, looks like a happy married couple. Our sex life had always been pretty good, we never had any problems in bed. My wife is open for experiments but with strict limits, so I would say we always had been more classic and vanilla than tried something really extreme or "kinky". But more than a half of the year ago I started to notice that she's less active and initiative in bed. She started to refuse having sex more often than previously. Even if she always did it in a very respective and gentle way

In fact I suspect that she is cheating on me with her personal trainer. She is an active woman and spends a lot of time at the gym, keeping in shape and working out (as she says). She goes there regularly, like 4 or 5 days a week. She used to have a female personal trainer who really helped her a lot to lose some extra weight and keep in shape. But since that lady couldn't work with my wife anymore (because she was going to move to another place), she hired another one. And he is a muscular tall man in his 30s too, very good looking, I would say. I never saw him in person, only in social media. But I noticed that my wife started to act less open with me when it's about him. Like she never shows me her text chatting with him. When she had a female trainer, she liked to share some messages about diet, sport advices with me. Now she doesn't do it

I don't have much proves of her cheating but this situation really bothers me. And honestly I feel a bit arousal because of it since I've already had a cuckold fantasy. I don't know how to react and what to do in this situation. Maybe better do nothing and ignore my suspections... I am not sure that I can openly speak about it with my wife since I know she will deny that she has an affair even if she really has it. And I know she will react emotionally about it

 

[SNJ_Dom]

Well if your wife apparently will not answer questions about it, and you think she'd respond with hostility to asking her, can you get into her phone and look at messages? When she's in the shower or ...... or something. Otherwise you're going to have to follow her or find some other way to figure out what's going on.

Also, do you have location tracking on each other's phones? If you can see where she is spending time, and it's somewhere she's not supposed to be...

What does your wife look like?

 

[Strong234]

Well if your wife apparently will not answer questions about it, and you think she'd respond with hostility to asking her, can you get into her phone and look at messages? When she's in the shower or ...... or something. Otherwise you're going to have to follow her or find some other way to figure out what's going on.

Well, it makes a sense. I know that she has a password on her phone but I can try to get an access to it. It sounds like a simple solution. I can't believe that I didn't think about it before damn...

And as for following her, it's not so easy to do since usually she visits the gym when I am at work. I work a lot and spend most of my day at work not close to our house, unfortunately

Also, do you have location tracking on each other's phones? If you can see where she is spending time, and it's somewhere she's not supposed to be...

No, we don't have it. And we never thought about it. In fact I always belived her enough to not suspect anything. Until this situation

What does your wife look like?

She is good looking. She has a bit curvy body but it looks more "round" and "meaty" now than "curvy" in classical meaning of this word. She is not tall, having black hair and nice boobs. I am sure that many men would say she is attractive and hot

 

[Cuntfister]

Hello everybody

Me and my wife are married for years, now we're both in our 30s, looks like a happy married couple. Our sex life had always been pretty good, we never had any problems in bed. My wife is open for experiments but with strict limits, so I would say we always had been more classic and vanilla than tried something really extreme or "kinky". But more than a half of the year ago I started to notice that she's less active and initiative in bed. She started to refuse having sex more often than previously. Even if she always did it in a very respective and gentle way

In fact I suspect that she is cheating on me with her personal trainer. She is an active woman and spends a lot of time at the gym, keeping in shape and working out (as she says). She goes there regularly, like 4 or 5 days a week. She used to have a female personal trainer who really helped her a lot to lose some extra weight and keep in shape. But since that lady couldn't work with my wife anymore (because she was going to move to another place), she hired another one. And he is a muscular tall man in his 30s too, very good looking, I would say. I never saw him in person, only in social media. But I noticed that my wife started to act less open with me when it's about him. Like she never shows me her text chatting with him. When she had a female trainer, she liked to share some messages about diet, sport advices with me. Now she doesn't do it

I don't have much proves of her cheating but this situation really bothers me. And honestly I feel a bit arousal because of it since I've already had a cuckold fantasy. I don't know how to react and what to do in this situation. Maybe better do nothing and ignore my suspections... I am not sure that I can openly speak about it with my wife since I know she will deny that she has an affair even if she really has it. And I know she will react emotionally about it

Show me and tell me everything I’ll bet she’s so damn Sexy