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Update: We'll join an erotic event and a couple swingers party. She is looking for sexy dresses. She is curious about the vibe and the people. During sex talk she said she could imagine to try out threesomes with men or women - but doesn't know if she will like it or not.
Question: When hitting a good swingers party for the first time: How do you prepare your girl? How to agree on anything that the situation will not be strange there?
She knows I like threesomes etc. But its important to her no to be pushed in anything. She doesn't like strangers touching here out o nowhere. I always said "its all about the party". I want to make her get used to the lifestyle but want to avoid strange situations.
Question: When hitting a good swingers party for the first time: How do you prepare your girl? How to agree on anything that the situation will not be strange there?
She knows I like threesomes etc. But its important to her no to be pushed in anything. She doesn't like strangers touching here out o nowhere. I always said "its all about the party". I want to make her get used to the lifestyle but want to avoid strange situations.
Update:
She buys sexy dresses. She wants to fuck all day long. She is addicted. But when it comes to our next party, now she said: don't expect too much. I have a bad gut feeling. I am not pushing anyway.
Its a bit confusing because when we watch her favorite MFMF porn, she said she liked every little thing that happened in the clip.
She buys sexy dresses. She wants to fuck all day long. She is addicted. But when it comes to our next party, now she said: don't expect too much. I have a bad gut feeling. I am not pushing anyway.
Its a bit confusing because when we watch her favorite MFMF porn, she said she liked every little thing that happened in the clip.
I'll keep you posted, I know it's a monologue, but I'll use it to write down my thoughts. As I said, I don't know where we are going next. She is open but unsure about new things, both at once.
Just picked up the idea from other threads: I'm going to buy a large penis sheath with nipples. Never mentioned a desire for other dicks. There were even small signs of rejection. She is so focused on other women. With a penis sheath, I can probably even improve sex life, give her more screaming orgasms, and most importantly: hopefully awaken her desire for other big dicks.
Just picked up the idea from other threads: I'm going to buy a large penis sheath with nipples. Never mentioned a desire for other dicks. There were even small signs of rejection. She is so focused on other women. With a penis sheath, I can probably even improve sex life, give her more screaming orgasms, and most importantly: hopefully awaken her desire for other big dicks.
A nice coincidence happened !!
A friend of mine approached her, as it turned out afterwards. Another friend told him afterwards that it is my girlfriend.
Well he asked her for the number, but failed. It would go too fast for her. But she likes to get to know many people and it's possible. She would be there again tomorrow
Afterwards she told me her untrue completely different version: She supposedly told him directly that she was taken and not interested. Besides, he was not her type.
Something is very fishy there. Sounds like she's ready to cheat which is hot on the one side. But dating another man is out of the question. But why would she do it secretly alone behind my back? At least there is a desire for other men here. Hopefully only sexually.
What does that mean for our development? Very strange!
A friend of mine approached her, as it turned out afterwards. Another friend told him afterwards that it is my girlfriend.
Well he asked her for the number, but failed. It would go too fast for her. But she likes to get to know many people and it's possible. She would be there again tomorrow
Afterwards she told me her untrue completely different version: She supposedly told him directly that she was taken and not interested. Besides, he was not her type.
Something is very fishy there. Sounds like she's ready to cheat which is hot on the one side. But dating another man is out of the question. But why would she do it secretly alone behind my back? At least there is a desire for other men here. Hopefully only sexually.
What does that mean for our development? Very strange!
Probably need to undertake some surveillance or something haha. You need undeniable proof otherwise, if you confront her, she will totally deny it, then potentially stop her activities, so you will never know and it won't lead anywhere. If you can get undeniable proof, you can get her to admit it and then say you want it to continue (assuming you do). My wife knows I want an MFM and get turned on by her past exploits but for years she kept secret that she fucked guys and then, how many, when we broke up before getting married.
I think women can be excited by the idea of hotwifing but still feel very uneasy / guilty about actually admitting they're ready to do it / sharing what they're going to do or have done. We haven't gotten to that stage yet but I have a strong feeling that if I push my wife more to do something, it will end up starting out as cheating behind my back.
It's kind of weird but knowing my wife, she would never let me find a guy online and set up a meeting - she would be weirded out and totally uncomfortable with that. If it happens, I think it will either be that she goes out and randomly fucks a guy without telling me (which I'm fairly sure I could get her to do, except that isn't something I'm down with) or it happens spontaneously together where we're on out drinking vacation or whatever, with a hotel room, and we meet someone.
From the progression you've described, it sounds like you've emphasized the group sex route. Taking her to swinger functions and getting into swapping is a legit step in the right direction but, it doesn't sound like she can get to the place where she's a slut in front of you or anyone else. You just may have to let her know, without telling her of your suspicions, that she has the green light to fuck around on you. Here's the imprtant part, you need to be supportive and reassuring each and every step along the way. Get her to acknowledge that she's going out on a date with someone and do everything you can from start to finish letting her know that your OK with it and you support her. Every step must be met with positiive reinforcement so that she's sure of your love and commitment.
Your number one priority is to get her to the point where she realizes that being a slut, loving different cocks and playing around can be great for her and great for your relationship. Anything that deviates from that will just push her away from you. Be loving, supportive and above all, proud of her and any steps she takes.
Your number one priority is to get her to the point where she realizes that being a slut, loving different cocks and playing around can be great for her and great for your relationship. Anything that deviates from that will just push her away from you. Be loving, supportive and above all, proud of her and any steps she takes.
Been there! Lying sucks. Most people 'die with the lie". AND if they do own up they generally recant later.
Yeah, I agree - that's the problem... If you just say you support it without enough evidence to call her on it, she may still just deny it forever, no matter how supportive and encouraging you are about it. My wife would probably do that because, even if she accepted that I genuinely did want her to fuck other men, she'd still feel guilty about what she'd done and not want to acknowledge having hid it and lied about it. She might finally come clean with some booze like 5 years later.... but who wants to wait that long?
Udate:
Yesterday she celebrated Halloween - girls night out. In a short dress and stockings only. Visibly! I told her it turned me on. She said they were approached very often.
Lets see what the club event brings and where we will get about cheating and evidences.
Yesterday she celebrated Halloween - girls night out. In a short dress and stockings only. Visibly! I told her it turned me on. She said they were approached very often.
Lets see what the club event brings and where we will get about cheating and evidences.
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True that she builds "webs of lies", but it only tells me that she's not comfortable letting you know that she wants sex with different men. If you can get her to the point where she realizes that you REALLY REALLY REALLY are OK with her dating other men, her ex included, then you might finally unleash the genie. Once she realizes that you're OK with this, then she will figure out that she doesn't have to conceal anything from you and she may even tell you about past lies she's told you to spare your feelings. She may then want to take the steps towards more public displays of her sluttiness, accompanying you to lifesstyle events and enjoying others with you.
Women are very sensitive to trickery and deceit. Don't pursue this by snooping around her devices and spying on her even if she is cheating. She's doing the deed now, you just have to figure out how to get her to sharing that with you
Where do you live (country)? Are you concerned that that she is regularly seeing her ex and still acting shy to you about opening things up for you and her sexually? It makes it seem like she likes the sex but not so much with you if she is reluctant to talk to you about it but ready to cheat. Who is your “buddy“ and what is his role in your plan? Now that you know they get together every 2 weeks when you are out of town, how does she act/treat you when you get home? Could you tell from the texts where they meet? At some point she has to admit she’s been seeing her ex. Can you think of any way for that to happen without a confrontation?
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