I believe you because I have the same type of marriage. The difference is that I was cuckolded and discovered my true self years ago before we were married. Back when we were just in high school my girlfriend(wife to be) knew I was cuckold material. I was submissive to her then and my tiny cock was laughable. She told me straight out that if I wanted to be in her life that she was going to fuck other guys and I needed to get used to it. Actually I loved it. How could I turn her down,she was way,way out of my league. She often teased me or encouraged me to wear more feminine clothes,which I did because it amused her and seemed to draw us closer. She called me her : "Little sissy pants" and her and her gfs made sport of me. She also liked to flaunt her date in front of me and make sure I knew she was giving it to him. This set the stage for our marriage. I like your plan for the Las Vegas marriage. You can be their little "ring girl". Make sure you are dressed appropriately. When we got married our best man came with us on our honeymoon and consummated the marriage. They slept in the bridal bed and fucked all night while I stayed in the sitting room on the sofa listening to her moans of pleasure. I wasn't even allowed to fuck my own bride on our wedding night! He is now her steady lover and every time he visits it's a re-enactment of the honeymoon. I'll bet you are excited that he is moving in. I hope you will be able to hear them every night from your new place. My wife's bull doesn't live with us yet but I did get kicked out of the master bedroom by him. He told me that the marital bedroom and my wife were off limits to me if he was there or not. I'm not allowed to use the guest room so I had to make a small 12x12 bedroom out of a walk in closet across the hall and put in a youth size bed to ...... in. They told me the tiny room and bed matched my status. I guess it's true. To further humiliate me he made up a sign that says sissycucks room and put it on my door. My wife jokingly said if I didn't like it I could grow some balls and a proper cock and stand up to him or I could kneel and submit to him. I knelt and bowed my head in front of him and submitted. That sealed the deal and changed the way my wife looked at me. I know what you mean about how it just feels right to wear panties and dresses. My wife has me do the same thing and it really puts me in girly mood. I love when he comes over and I'm in something feminine. I feel and act so much more girly when he is around and my wife really gets off on that. She loves the contrast between her man and her sissy.
Should I start using condoms?
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2cruzin3
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the year that we had our Bull fucking and cumming in my Wife. I also came in her often. Her fucking the bull made both of us want sex more. It was very exciting for both of us to reclaim her a night or two after they had been together. I was super hard each time in anticipation, and she was wetter and super turned on. We never used condoms, and all were tested. So I say no condoms and husband/Wife sex more often.
Cuckoldhubby
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That's wonderful, I'm happy to see more and more husbands becoming sissy cuckolds like myself, I don't feel so bad when I know I'm not alone.
You need to do what’s right for you as a couple! Me and my wife are very very much still in love, we have amazing communication and are very tactile. All our friends are envious of how close we are after 20 years of marriage, we are in a cuckold relationship! Some of our friends know this some don’t.
we very rarely have penetration during sex and if we do I wear a condom, I have never had anal sex with her but her bulls do. They are allowed to cum in her I’m not. All that has nothing to do with how much we are in love! It’s a choice that we have made together that we are both very happy about.
I feel like I’m the luckiest man alive that she is my wife! And nothing will ever change that for either of us! Cuckolding has taken our relationship to the best it could ever be and I’m privileged that I can give her the space and freedom to have the most incredible sex life.
It takes work, communication and trust and will only ever work if you are committed to her heart and sou.
good luck with your journey.
xxx
Thank you so much. To be honest, this is really how I like it too. It is strangely intimate to have this understanding that 'it is better this way'. It still feels like a huge sacrifice on my part but in ways it also seems fair. I only want the best for her and, strangely this is one way to give that to her.
What are the reasons for the two of you to rarely have penetration and if you do, then only with a condom? How did it come about?
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Just a thought, but are you making sure your wife can't get pregnant with her bull? Suppose this happens and you stay together long after the bull is no longer in the picture and decide to keep the ....... Will he/she grow up thinking you're the father and would you ever reveal the truth.? This could have particularly hard explaining to do if the ...... looks nothing like you especially if the bull is black.
Hi, my wife recently went on the pill, but this is only happened for medical reason.
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its taken me a long time to be able to be able to answer this…. I think it’s because it was never a conscious decision it just happened over time. I know the first time I wore a condom it was because her bull at the time wanted it. He didn’t want me to cum in her, that was just his privilege. I know that it was something that turned us both on, the fact that he was in charge! So I think it just became part of our relationship.
Then as a natural progression between them they began to limit my sexual gratification, added to the fact that Bee has always been very turned on by watching me masturbate. She has recently bought a cock cage for me and we are moving to where she will lock me up again to limit when I can have an erection. Hope this explains a little….
Pampix
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You first posted this on 9 December 2023 that you and your wife are in the stage that she prefers to have PIV sex with her lover and that you were thinking wearing a condom would be the middle ground. Now that are you are 2 months further what is the evolution?
My wife denies me sex too and keeps me locked up and like your wife she likes to watch me masturbate. She finds it very amusing how eager and excited I get when she gives me permission after being shut off for so long. Usually she tells me a day or two in advance so she can observe my behavior and anticipation, like a ...... waiting for Christmas. Once in a while I have a special day when her girlfriends visit for a girls night out party and my wife gives me the option of jerking off in front of them. This is extremely embarrassing but I love the humiliation of the girls laughing at me and teasing me about my tiny size. A fun time for all.
Pampix
Male
Regarding condoms and others:
Using protection/condoms has been quite an issue In my cuckold dynamic through the years. I am now in my third cuckold-relationship with my actual girlfriend. Condoms have a part of the practical and safety aspect but also a considerable power and symbolic aspect in my opinion. With my first girlfriend because of whom I became a cuckold condoms were one of the key aspects in that dynamic. We were not using condoms but after the first time she cheated on me and that I suspected that she was going to continue to cheat om me I thought it was a good idea to use reverse psychology so I bought especially a pack of condoms for her to use wit her lover thinking that this would help make her stop cheating on me. To what I could notice up to the stains in her panties when I checked them in the laundry-bin she was not using condoms with her lover... The fact that she would use condoms with her lover and have bare sex with me gave me the idea I would be still the number one for her. I got quite obsessed to always have sex with her when she came in late and that I suspected she had been being her lover. Mostly she did not let me have sex with her but the several times we did I smelled semen that was not mine and noticed that she was much more wet and slippery inside the usual. So she was not using condoms with her lover at all. She then stopped being her lover and our relationship then became even better then before.
One year later she wanted to get off birth control for her health and we then started to use condoms what we never had done before. I also regularly started to loose my erections when putting on a condom. It evolved that she started to talk about me having a vasectomy. She in fact started with this idea that it would make everything easier for both of us. I was not so wild for the idea but I thought that if she would not use contraception she maybe would be more faithful to me next to the convenience not to use condoms anymore and me getting of my occasional ED . So I indeed had a vasectomy and everything went very well for a good year.
Then she started to get annoyed (up to her) because of my sperm leaking out of her when we had sex together and changing the sheets of the bed etc. and wanted that we use condoms again. So in fact I got a snipped for nothing and had quite some difficulties keeping my erection and started also to use viagra to help for this problem. Sex between us became less and less, also reproaching me that the sex was not so good anymore between us. At that time sex between us was me licking her to orgasm and she masturbating me in ... a condom... It ended that she bought me a fleshlight fo my anniversary for me to cum in while I was licking her to orgasm and using her favorite dildo on her to make her cum. Some time later I suspected her to have again a lover and found out that she was taking the pill again. So I got snipped for nothing and was made to cum only in plastic and silicone while she was having herself filled up with the sperm of her lover..
Our cuckold-dynamic evolved in me accepting and also liking being in chastity what evolved in me in a permanent state of limpness. But still needed to have some sexual activity. It started me to clean her up, pegging, discovering my bisexual curiosity, sucking dicks with the result that i bacam a gay bottom in the mean time. My girlfriend fucks her boyfriend and I go on gaydates where she now remind me I have to make my boyfriends use condoms when they fuck me to stay healthy!
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Does she now get annoyed that her lovers cum is leaking out of her like she was with you? I could never use a condom because I was too small. They would only be 1/3 rd of the way unrolled and so loose fitting they would slip off. I was too tiny to penetrate my wife anyway so it was just a big waste of time. She got fed up and put me in a chastity cage and made me wear diapers as punishment for failing her. She then cuckolded me with as she called them: "real men." Now I serve only as her "clean up boy." Problem solved.
Of course. I’ve had the opportunity to cum in her mouth a few times after she’s been fucked. But other than that I only cum in condoms. The best thing? When she’s had another man and we fuck after. I get her raw but when it’s time to cum I put the condom on.
When I was told that hubby was cut off, I know it increased my own pleasure every time, that only my cock went in her, and she said she was happier being exclusive. She didn't even touch his cock. Yours will be pleased if you do the same, even if she doesn't know it yet, and he will be thrilled every time he enters and cums in her knowing you don't, better for all.
I was wondering about that too, whether I want him to know. How would you feel if you noticed that he had cum in her and she came over to you for more?
That's truly honourable! So you get to feel her a bit with his cum inside but pull out and then put a condom on before you finish? Isn't it difficult to put a condom on when your foreskin is covered with their juices? Can you feel a great deal of difference, with and without?
She doesn’t take loads inside her since she’s not on the pill but she fucks raw. The only difference is you feel really cucked when you put it on.
Yes, I can imagine! Do you put it on always or only after she's been with her other? I imagine that it is really hard to put on a condom afterf you just dipped in another guys load because his cum will be all over your foreskin. Even if you succeed to put it on, the condom is quite likely to slip off when you manage to get inside her.
Pampix
Male
Afterwards I realized that my girlfriend being annoyed that cum was leaking out of her, staining her underwear afterwards and/or the bedsheets was only with me but with the excuse it was easier for clean-up. It was simply because she did not want me or my semen in her anymore and that this was only for her lovers. She admitted afterwards that she liked that the semen and the smell of it and the stains in her underwear coming out of her were a reminder she han been cheating and owned by another man. She also found it arousing that the semen was in here and stayed there for some time. (Scientifically
it is accepted that ejaculated sperm remain viable for several days within the female reproductive tract. Fertilization is possible as long as the sperm remain alive — up to five days. ) I must admit, me knowing that that she was around me with his sperlm and DNA in her also aroused me once I got used to it. She was seeing her lover at least one time a week so in fact he was biologically almost all the time between us... So after licking up her creampie all the following days I was interacting almost with his sperm and DNA when I was pleasing her in one way or the other...
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