Should I start using condoms?

Should I start wearing condoms?

  • Yes, every time

    Votes: 45 29.6%
  • Yes, most of the time

    Votes: 12 7.9%
  • No need, but pull out just in time

    Votes: 7 4.6%
  • No need at all

    Votes: 52 34.2%
  • You should settle for an occasional handjob

    Votes: 44 28.9%

  • Total voters
    152
Of course. I’ve had the opportunity to cum in her mouth a few times after she’s been fucked. But other than that I only cum in condoms. The best thing? When she’s had another man and we fuck after. I get her raw but when it’s time to cum I put the condom on.
You are then still lucky that you can cum inset mouth. A lot of woman do not want to have any contact anymore with the sperm of their cuck...
 
When I was told that hubby was cut off, I know it increased my own pleasure every time, that only my cock went in her, and she said she was happier being exclusive. She didn't even touch his cock. Yours will be pleased if you do the same, even if she doesn't know it yet, and he will be thrilled every time he enters and cums in her knowing you don't, better for all.
The relationship between the lover of my then girlfriend and her became also beter once he knew that she had no contact anymore with my penis or semen. Most very manly bulls do nt want to have possible contact with the semen of another man. Also it enhanced the power over her that she refused me partly because he requested that I would not have PIV sex with her and also because she also wanted and chooses for that. It make also our relationships and functions very clear wat takes a lot of stress away.
 
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You first posted this on 9 December 2023 that you and your wife are in the stage that she prefers to have PIV sex with her lover and that you were thinking wearing a condom would be the middle ground. Now that are you are 2 months further what is the evolution?
I haven't asked her yet 🙄
There's still time. She did tell me that she wants to keep seeing him for another 6 months with him (preferably another year she said). That was the right moment to ask her 'what about us?' but I didn't. I just encouraged her to keep seeing him. There were a few other developments.
 
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I haven't asked her yet 🙄
There's still time. She did tell me that she wants to keep seeing him for another 6 months with him (preferably another year she said). That was the right moment to ask her 'what about us?' but I didn't. I just encouraged her to keep seeing him. There were a few other developments.
I think that is al always better once the snowball is rolling of the hill (that the wife is seeing a lover) not to insist that she seed him. Once she tasted that dynamic and that she likes it its better to adapt you to her needs and wishes and evolve together in that dynamic. To much encouragement can have the inverse effect.. it’s my experience
 
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Afterwards I realized that my girlfriend being annoyed that cum was leaking out of her, staining her underwear afterwards and/or the bedsheets was only with me but with the excuse it was easier for clean-up. It was simply because she did not want me or my semen in her anymore and that this was only for her lovers. She admitted afterwards that she liked that the semen and the smell of it and the stains in her underwear coming out of her were a reminder she han been cheating and owned by another man. She also found it arousing that the semen was in here and stayed there for some time. (Scientifically
it is accepted that ejaculated sperm remain viable for several days within the female reproductive tract. Fertilization is possible as long as the sperm remain alive — up to five days. ) I must admit, me knowing that that she was around me with his sperlm and DNA in her also aroused me once I got used to it. She was seeing her lover at least one time a week so in fact he was biologically almost all the time between us... So after licking up her creampie all the following days I was interacting almost with his sperm and DNA when I was pleasing her in one way or the other...
My wife also gets aroused having her lovers cum in her and smeared around in her crotch and ass for some time after she fucks. That's why she started to wear my plastic diaper pants after he filled her with cum. The vinyl panties would retain all his cream unlike cloth underwear that soaked up and absorbed most of it. She finally got some latex rubber panties of her own. After a morning fuck by her man she slips them on and goes about her day for several hours. She told me she feels close to him after he leaves when slithering around in her slippery rubber panties as she goes about her day. Says it feels sexy and she likes his scent. Very kinky girl.
 
I was wondering about that too, whether I want him to know. How would you feel if you noticed that he had cum in her and she came over to you for more?
It never happened: he was cut off from sex with her, but got off imagining what we were doing, or she'd sometimes tell him later as he stroked so he could imagine better next time.

See how she reacts if you say she can tell him she's now exclusive to him.
 
It never happened: he was cut off from sex with her, but got off imagining what we were doing, or she'd sometimes tell him later as he stroked so he could imagine better next time.

See how she reacts if you say she can tell him she's now exclusive to him.
If I do that what reaction should I expect from her? I only want it if she wants that. I don't want her to do it for me. Why would she want it? She loves me, so why would she want this? I can sense that we are heading there but why? I'm not as good in bed with her as he is but I am still her boyfriend. He doesn't seem to care either way.
 
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If I do that what reaction should I expect from her? I only want it if she wants that. I don't want her to do it for me. Why would she want it? She loves me, so why would she want this? I can sense that we are heading there but why? I'm not as good in bed with her as he is but I am still her boyfriend. He doesn't seem to care either way.
Well I guess part of the kink is the wife's power to deny the cuckold and he gets off on it so she doesn't feel bad for him. As the cuck, what you lack in bed you make up for in some other way like emotional support. IMO
 
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Everyone must be happy with what they do.My hotwife does cage ne sometimes a day or two.before her hotwife dates
They can range from.1 daybto the entire weekend and sometimes im cHed a day after. She.will at times deny me haveing sex with her even when im not caged alomg with nor seeing her naked but she does let me reclaim her. Sometimes when in allowed to reclaim her her pussy is filled with another mans cum. Fsw times she teases me before she goes out to fuck and makes me wear condom and .her you deserve your release but my pussy must be clean for my date ..But i could never go without sez with her I COULD NEVER DO WHAT YOU GUYS DO AND I DON'T GET SEXUALLY IMVOLVED WITH THEM. FEEL FREE TO ASK ME ANYTHING. BOB
 
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Of course. I’ve had the opportunity to cum in her mouth a few times after she’s been fucked. But other than that I only cum in condoms. The best thing? When she’s had another man and we fuck after. I get her raw but when it’s time to cum I put the condom on.
A lot of women have an aversion to having an inferior males cum in their pussy or even on them. My wife only lets me cum inside my panties.
 
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I'm too small to wear a condom they just slip off cuz they're way too big for me. My wife thinks it's hilarious and tells me condoms are designed for men. When she lets me out of my cage she says just jerk off in your panties and keep it away from me.
 
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My wife also gets aroused having her lovers cum in her and smeared around in her crotch and ass for some time after she fucks. That's why she started to wear my plastic diaper pants after he filled her with cum. The vinyl panties would retain all his cream unlike cloth underwear that soaked up and absorbed most of it. She finally got some latex rubber panties of her own. After a morning fuck by her man she slips them on and goes about her day for several hours. She told me she feels close to him after he leaves when slithering around in her slippery rubber panties as she goes about her day. Says it feels sexy and she likes his scent. Very kinky girl.
Condoms can be seen in two ways as a barrier: one to prevent the spreading of semen and the other to keep the semen. Plastic pants can be seen as a kind of large condom. They can be very nice in cumplay.
It ads next to the fact that the receptive person not only has cum inside her/his most intimate bodyparts but that she/he is remaining with her/his lower body for some longer time (literally sitting) in the semen of the dominant breeder what makes the powerrelation even more obvious. Having to cum in panties, chastitycage, diaper or plastic pants have also the same metaphorical idea/message as that you (have) to cum in a condom being that you can not are aloud to spread your semen. If you wear a barier as a receptive person after that you have been seeded as a fertility cup or menstruationcup that keeps the sperm of your lover in you it enhances also your motivation and being possesed by his action, semen and DNA. For a man it could be with a buttplug. For man or woman it can be done with a diaper or plastic pants. The fact that semen drips out of you is something that you can not control and has on its own a certain powerdynamic next to the fact that you have been fucked and have received the semen and in a way the signature of your lover in you. Then sitting in this semen has also an extra powerdynamic and can also be nice to play in as masturbate of for example rub your wife's genital and holes with the semen of her lover in plastic pants or being obliged to pull on plastic pants that have been filled with the leaking semen out of your wife of the bull and being obliged to masturbate in or being massaged in this semen.
 
Condoms can be seen in two ways as a barrier: one to prevent the spreading of semen and the other to keep the semen. Plastic pants can be seen as a kind of large condom. They can be very nice in cumplay.
It ads next to the fact that the receptive person not only has cum inside her/his most intimate bodyparts but that she/he is remaining with her/his lower body for some longer time (literally sitting) in the semen of the dominant breeder what makes the powerrelation even more obvious. Having to cum in panties, chastitycage, diaper or plastic pants have also the same metaphorical idea/message as that you (have) to cum in a condom being that you can not are aloud to spread your semen. If you wear a barier as a receptive person after that you have been seeded as a fertility cup or menstruationcup that keeps the sperm of your lover in you it enhances also your motivation and being possesed by his action, semen and DNA. For a man it could be with a buttplug. For man or woman it can be done with a diaper or plastic pants. The fact that semen drips out of you is something that you can not control and has on its own a certain powerdynamic next to the fact that you have been fucked and have received the semen and in a way the signature of your lover in you. Then sitting in this semen has also an extra powerdynamic and can also be nice to play in as masturbate of for example rub your wife's genital and holes with the semen of her lover in plastic pants or being obliged to pull on plastic pants that have been filled with the leaking semen out of your wife of the bull and being obliged to masturbate in or being massaged in this semen.
You fully understand this fetish. When my wife receives semen from her man it symbolizes her surrender to him and her rejection of me. It has a certain power that helps all three of us to know where we each rank in the relationship. My wife worships his cum, it is the nectar that represents his manly sexual conquest of her and for me as the submissive weakling it keeps me in my place as I'm forbidden to produce any of my own. It would be inappropriate and even offensive to my wife if I were to ejaculate on her or in her presence. That's why she puts me in a cage and it's one of the reasons why she makes me wear diapers. She loves to savor his cum and make it last by wearing non absorbing rubber or vinyl panties to extend her experience after the lovemaking is over. When it's time for her to finally part with this and clean up she employs me to assist her. She has a special kind of enjoyment making me clean her and she knows that I enjoy this submissive act. I guess she feels sorry for me after the fact or because I can't function like a man but she sees how much I relish my duties as her cuckold and usually rewards me by giving me her messy panties. It's now my turn to enjoy her lover's cum on my level. Sometimes when their bedsheets get soaked with overspill she gives me the damp sheets to ...... on. This is another way of being reminded of my place in our marriage and what I am in my wife's eyes.
 
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I would like to know what I should do. My girlfriend has a lover on the side. She has sex with him 2 times per week and it is quite obvious she prefers to do it with him. We also still have sex but I am beginning to accept that perhaps I need to surrender a privilege. She has denied me a couple of times after she let him have her but I am not ready to be denied for a long time. What is the middle ground? The idea has come to mind that I should perhaps start wearing condoms. Should I and what is the reasoning behind this? She's taking the pill so technically there is no need. Would it lessen the feeling of sloppy seconds? Would it help me to last longer? I can't get myself to try it even a single time so I think I need to raise the subject with her. What do I tell her?
There is nothing wrong with hotwife having a hiy ti fuck.her preferably more than ine so she doesn't get attached occasionally being denied adds to the experience but putt the hibby or boyfriend out of the picture is WRONG my hotwife cages me when she goes out to fuck and. Somtimes im denied cged or uncaged occasionally sometimed a week or so But the claiming. Can be great even sloppy seconds