Stag- Explain your rational... the high or thrill of "wife sharing".

[du_sabot]

I love this thread. I find everyone's post about why they love this lifestyle to be reflective of my own thoughts and experiences

 

[anonsinnerman]

For me, it's complex.

• For a long time I didn't know about stags, only cuckolds. I knew I didn't like the humiliation aspect, for the most part, but I liked the sharing and watching her enjoy herself.
  • I want a measure of control and being the stag gives me that.
  • On the other hand, I like relinquishing some control because I have so much control in my real life.
    • Watching someone give her a rough, dominate fuck does it for me.
• Someone cumming in my wife and then me fucking her as well, if not better than him and then reclaiming her by cumming hits all the spots.
  • There's probably some reassurance that she's mine and I'm hers, too. Probably should delve into that at some point lmao.
• Lastly, porn has been so accessible over the last 25 years, that I've been able to choose my favorite pornstars to watch.
  • When I got married, I had my personal pornstar walking around my house, that I get to fuck, but I never got to watch her fuck.
    • Being a stag lets me do that
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[thebeginner]

Honestly, there is no rational that I can make sense of. I still question why I enjoy my wife fucking other guys so much. I just do.

It helps that she also really enjoys it. That’s a big one for me. A lot of it is seeing her enjoy herself and get so much pleasure from it.

Her and her bull have been fucking now on and off for over 2 years. She was unsure at first but now agrees with me that having a regular bull is the way to go. She has told me how sex continues to improve with him and she really enjoyed him from the start.

 

[Maybesomedaysoo]

To be honest I put my wife on a pedestal. I know she'll read this but here goes.
She is incredibly hot and I can't get enough of seeing her enjoy her life.She loves sex and our lifestyle is great.
To see her take another man's cock is the biggest thrill ever,it's intoxicating.
Knowing other men desire my wife is a Fantastic high .
Plus she is filthy,I could write a novel about her and our life together
Mr P

This is exactly how I feel! I've started working towards this slowly..I don't want to screw up the opportunity for us to enjoy this life.

 

[MrBlueyez]

Nothing cuck about us in fact we find that kind of creepy and disrespectful to all involved BUT to each their own and we dont judge that's just us? anyhow we have a very sound confident loving relationship its all about us and helping the other explore/enjoy NOT about the third party itself LOL it's about the experience that party brings to US. regardless of if it is another woman or man same concept. Just an addition to what is already an established awesome ?

 

[Azncouple21]

I didnt do this enough.
I can watch my wife make out with another guy, suck his cock, then give me a hot sloppy cuck kiss all day long

 

[Maybesomedaysoo]

For me, it's complex.

• For a long time I didn't know about stags, only cuckolds. I knew I didn't like the humiliation aspect, for the most part, but I liked the sharing and watching her enjoy herself.
  • I want a measure of control and being the stag gives me that.
  • On the other hand, I like relinquishing some control because I have so much control in my real life.
    • Watching someone give her a rough, dominate fuck does it for me.
• Someone cumming in my wife and then me fucking her as well, if not better than him and then reclaiming her by cumming hits all the spots.
  • There's probably some reassurance that she's mine and I'm hers, too. Probably should delve into that at some point lmao.
• Lastly, porn has been so accessible over the last 25 years, that I've been able to choose my favorite pornstars to watch.
  • When I got married, I had my personal pornstar walking around my house, that I get to fuck, but I never got to watch her fuck.
    • Being a stag lets me do that
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Wow! This encapsulates my feelings. Nothing has happened yet but this is what I'm working towards.

 

[nariah1957]

Nothing cuck about us in fact we find that kind of creepy and disrespectful to all involved BUT to each their own and we dont judge that's just us? anyhow we have a very sound confident loving relationship its all about us and helping the other explore/enjoy NOT about the third party itself LOL it's about the experience that party brings to US. regardless of if it is another woman or man same concept. Just an addition to what is already an established awesome ?

Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us.

 

[MrBlueyez]

While we respect and appreciate the company hence more than just a toy in a sense BUT yes totally see your point