Stag- Explain your rational... the high or thrill of "wife sharing".

For me, it's complex.

  • For a long time I didn't know about stags, only cuckolds. I knew I didn't like the humiliation aspect, for the most part, but I liked the sharing and watching her enjoy herself.
    • I want a measure of control and being the stag gives me that.
    • On the other hand, I like relinquishing some control because I have so much control in my real life.
      • Watching someone give her a rough, dominate fuck does it for me.
  • Someone cumming in my wife and then me fucking her as well, if not better than him and then reclaiming her by cumming hits all the spots.
    • There's probably some reassurance that she's mine and I'm hers, too. Probably should delve into that at some point lmao.
  • Lastly, porn has been so accessible over the last 25 years, that I've been able to choose my favorite pornstars to watch.
 
Honestly, there is no rational that I can make sense of. I still question why I enjoy my wife fucking other guys so much. I just do.

It helps that she also really enjoys it. That’s a big one for me. A lot of it is seeing her enjoy herself and get so much pleasure from it.

Her and her bull have been fucking now on and off for over 2 years. She was unsure at first but now agrees with me that having a regular bull is the way to go. She has told me how sex continues to improve with him and she really enjoyed him from the start.
 
To be honest I put my wife on a pedestal. I know she'll read this but here goes.
She is incredibly hot and I can't get enough of seeing her enjoy her life.She loves sex and our lifestyle is great.
To see her take another man's cock is the biggest thrill ever,it's intoxicating.
Knowing other men desire my wife is a Fantastic high .
Plus she is filthy,I could write a novel about her and our life together
Mr P
This is exactly how I feel! I've started working towards this slowly..I don't want to screw up the opportunity for us to enjoy this life.
 
We haven't put the reasoning into words. But most of the reasons discussed here resonate with us.

We come from a BDSM perspective. She is a submissive who I share like a fucktoy with others. Like how you would let someone else drive your ferrari for a while to see how cool the car is.

When I married her I told her that she is going to be my sex slave and I am going to whore her out. She is a wife only for the world to show.

She has a beautiful body which I love playing with but I also enjoy watching that body in action. Like a personal pornstar.
There is a also a bit of humiliation aspect for her, that she is shared without her opinion and has to obey.


I have started to share her in gangbangs now. I love how rough the men are with her and how loose her pussy is afterwards.

I am thinking of making her an actual e.s.c.o.r.t girl for a while to go closer to promise of whoring her for real.

Here's a photo of her ass, how can a man keep this to himself?

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Nothing cuck about us in fact we find that kind of creepy and disrespectful to all involved BUT to each their own and we dont judge that's just us? anyhow we have a very sound confident loving relationship its all about us and helping the other explore/enjoy NOT about the third party itself LOL it's about the experience that party brings to US. regardless of if it is another woman or man same concept. Just an addition to what is already an established awesome ?
 
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For me, it's complex.

  • For a long time I didn't know about stags, only cuckolds. I knew I didn't like the humiliation aspect, for the most part, but I liked the sharing and watching her enjoy herself.
    • I want a measure of control and being the stag gives me that.
    • On the other hand, I like relinquishing some control because I have so much control in my real life.
      • Watching someone give her a rough, dominate fuck does it for me.
  • Someone cumming in my wife and then me fucking her as well, if not better than him and then reclaiming her by cumming hits all the spots.
    • There's probably some reassurance that she's mine and I'm hers, too. Probably should delve into that at some point lmao.
  • Lastly, porn has been so accessible over the last 25 years, that I've been able to choose my favorite pornstars to watch.
Wow! This encapsulates my feelings. Nothing has happened yet but this is what I'm working towards.
 
Nothing cuck about us in fact we find that kind of creepy and disrespectful to all involved BUT to each their own and we dont judge that's just us? anyhow we have a very sound confident loving relationship its all about us and helping the other explore/enjoy NOT about the third party itself LOL it's about the experience that party brings to US. regardless of if it is another woman or man same concept. Just an addition to what is already an established awesome ?
Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us.
 
I agree with so many on here and the explanations. There have been studies on this very subject and many reveal the thrill of a guy sharing his wife with other men as much more common that you would think. It just goes unspoken for the most part. It is a thrill to watch your wife being pleasured by someone else. Men watch porn and this is a way to watch starring your wife. It is such a thrill and turn on to watch a guy fuck your wife, do the things that you both do together, but now with him. Watching them let loose and give up their bodies for their pleasure as well as your pleasure and satisfaction. It is just raw sex at the very core. The thing we all crave at some point and in some fashion. Love this post.
 
Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us.
Weeeel, for my wife and I her lover has turned out as our friend too. We do other things with him outside bed also, sometimes on a couple of day on a boat, a cabin trip to her lovers cabin one weekend, maybe a motorcycle trip somewhere or a stay at an hotel where we also having a lot of sex... Cos my wife always ends up having sex with her lover no matter what we do, like in one of last summer MC trip, when we stopped at a lockout tower and since it was nobody there we fucked her with a view in turns.

But yeah, I have found out that my wife is twice as horny when we have threesomes with her lover, cos she knows he visiting us to fuck her, and she really loves it... Loves to use his cock for her pleasures sometimes for hours...
 
"Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us".
I like the above quote, I think, from Nariah 1957

The other male in a Stag/Vixen marriage/relationship is basically a willing sex toy. Used... with his consent, to participate in what the wife and I like to do. While the wife is having her fun with the "3rd", I'm enjoying the show.
This image (not us) has the desired impact.

Wife is holding the 3rd in with her heels, even helping him pump using her legs to pull him in with the rhythm. The husband can see 3rd is balls deep in his wife. 3rd is not shy about packing every inch of his cock into the married woman's pussy as her husband watches.

Now I'm thinking if I'm watching this kind of action with my wife, there is no way 3rd is going to pull out. He certainly will cum in my wife. And she's encouraging it by holding him in. She wants the dick in here, she wants the dick to release. In that way she controlled the session, she's proven her desirability and was able to bring a complete stranger to orgasm without even knowing him an hour before.

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For me it's about the pleasure it gives her.
I love to hear her moan with every thrust. She's loved cock since puberty.
When we met we were both already in the lifestyle so it wasn't a big thing to share her.
I've rarely met a woman who loves being fucked as much as she does.
When I watch a men fucking her, I know how much he's enjoyng her and she him.
She only fucks bareback because to her the ultimate compliment to a women is for a man to cum inside her.
Because of that I love to see a mans increased thrusts as he about to cum and when he pushes deep and holds it there until the last squirt. I know he feels good and more importantly, she feels good.
If she holds is ass until she feels the last spasm of cum, I know she feels he's enjoyed her and that is very important to her.
So for me, it's not a cuckold humiliation thing, it's not about giving her away to another man it's about how much I enjoy seeing 2 (or more) people feeling pleasure.
 
it's about how much I enjoy seeing 2 (or more) people feeling pleasure.
Know what you mean.

I love to watch my wife with her lover, cos I WANT him to have pleasures with my wife. I want it so much that I still prepare my wife before every meeting with her lover. I wax her legs and shave her pussy and her ass crack to get my wife more fuckable for her lover and I love it! It is sometimes hard to watch my wife's open pussy and and ass when I shave her, cos I know full well that the next cock that is going to slide in to her hot and wet pussy or into her tight ass is not going to be my cock, but it is so darn arousing and I know I get my reward when she comes back the next morning... Had anyone told me before we started that I would love preparing my wife for another man I wouldn't believed him... Or getting aroused when I get my wife back after she had spent a night with her lover alone, at his place. Or on a Sunday after she spent a weekend alone with her lover. The hottest ten days in my life was when I let my wife go on a ten day vacation with her lover in Spain. It was so arousing when I picked them up at the airport knowing that she had been her lovers women for ten days, that he have had a lot of pleasures with my wife and that she had loved every minute of it.

I love listening to her lover grunt and moan in deep pleasure when he fucks my wife and when he empty himself wildly and unrestricted in my wife's mouth, pussy or ass is just as arousing to me as it is listen to my wife getting pleasures and orgasms with her lover.

And I really enjoy the moments when my wife is not my wife anymore, but her lovers women in everything she does after she have given herself completely to her lover. Sometimes I feel like a fly on the wall and just really enjoy seeing my wife become her lovers women, just signaling to him that he can have as much pleasures with her as he likes, that he can fuck her in every hole she has and that she really, REALLY enjoys getting his cum inside her. I still don't know why I love this so much, but I do. I love watching my aroused wife and seeing her having deep and real pleasures with her lover. Nothing beats the sight of her pretty face dissolved in pure pleasure over her lovers shoulder while I can see her breast bounce under his hairy armpit in sync with his trust and listen to her loud and wild goose like orgasm shout when she cum on his cock and pushes her pussy up while she digs her fingers in to his ass cheeks to get him as deep inside her she can. I love watching that and I love giving my wife a sloppy second after her lover has enjoyed her...
 
Know what you mean.

I love to watch my wife with her lover, cos I WANT him to have pleasures with my wife. I want it so much that I still prepare my wife before every meeting with her lover. I wax her legs and shave her pussy and her ass crack to get my wife more fuckable for her lover and I love it! It is sometimes hard to watch my wife's open pussy and and ass when I shave her, cos I know full well that the next cock that is going to slide in to her hot and wet pussy or into her tight ass is not going to be my cock, but it is so darn arousing and I know I get my reward when she comes back the next morning... Had anyone told me before we started that I would love preparing my wife for another man I wouldn't believed him... Or getting aroused when I get my wife back after she had spent a night with her lover alone, at his place. Or on a Sunday after she spent a weekend alone with her lover. The hottest ten days in my life was when I let my wife go on a ten day vacation with her lover in Spain. It was so arousing when I picked them up at the airport knowing that she had been her lovers women for ten days, that he have had a lot of pleasures with my wife and that she had loved every minute of it.

I love listening to her lover grunt and moan in deep pleasure when he fucks my wife and when he empty himself wildly and unrestricted in my wife's mouth, pussy or ass is just as arousing to me as it is listen to my wife getting pleasures and orgasms with her lover.

And I really enjoy the moments when my wife is not my wife anymore, but her lovers women in everything she does after she have given herself completely to her lover. Sometimes I feel like a fly on the wall and just really enjoy seeing my wife become her lovers women, just signaling to him that he can have as much pleasures with her as he likes, that he can fuck her in every hole she has and that she really, REALLY enjoys getting his cum inside her. I still don't know why I love this so much, but I do. I love watching my aroused wife and seeing her having deep and real pleasures with her lover. Nothing beats the sight of her pretty face dissolved in pure pleasure over her lovers shoulder while I can see her breast bounce under his hairy armpit in sync with his trust and listen to her loud and wild goose like orgasm shout when she cum on his cock and pushes her pussy up while she digs her fingers in to his ass cheeks to get him as deep inside her she can. I love watching that and I love giving my wife a sloppy second after her lover has enjoyed her...
Don't you love it when she comes home not long after a fuck and her pussy is red, gaped and still wet with cum and you know that not long before a big cock was shoving into it. You can picture it. You know the sounds she was making and you know the moan he made as he unloaded his cum into her.
The only thing that mattered to both of them at that moment was his cock and her cunt both using them for their own pleasure.

My favourite view and it doesn't have to be black but the skin contrast makes for a good pic
 

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"Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us".
I like the above quote, I think, from Nariah 1957

The other male in a Stag/Vixen marriage/relationship is basically a willing sex toy. Used... with his consent, to participate in what the wife and I like to do. While the wife is having her fun with the "3rd", I'm enjoying the show.
This image (not us) has the desired impact.

Wife is holding the 3rd in with her heels, even helping him pump using her legs to pull him in with the rhythm. The husband can see 3rd is balls deep in his wife. 3rd is not shy about packing every inch of his cock into the married woman's pussy as her husband watches.

Now I'm thinking if I'm watching this kind of action with my wife, there is no way 3rd is going to pull out. He certainly will cum in my wife. And she's encouraging it by holding him in. She wants the dick in here, she wants the dick to release. In that way she controlled the session, she's proven her desirability and was able to bring a complete stranger to orgasm without even knowing him an hour before.

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So the stud is just a big dick sex toy for you both.

That is so hot! I always just wanted to be a Big Dick sex toy for an M/F couple. I love to pretend I'm going to get the woman nice and pregnant. LOL.

Your pictures are incredible. My Big Dick is harder than a rock.
 
for me it,s about humiliation&domination,getting forced to watch ,forced to be submissive and making her cum,doing whatever she asks,and the best thing that happened to me was getting feminized by my wife,confessing this to family&friends etc and wearing sexy outfits at home also with family etc,it,s dificult to explain but i just love femdom,dominated by women or my wife using me as housemaid,also letting family renting me as housemaid etc,i just love to be obedient&sexy&slutty&kinky&naughty etc for everyone ,and beside dominant women i got a big fetish for old&fat&hairy men!
 

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