I love this thread. I find everyone's post about why they love this lifestyle to be reflective of my own thoughts and experiences

This is exactly how I feel! I've started working towards this slowly..I don't want to screw up the opportunity for us to enjoy this life.To be honest I put my wife on a pedestal. I know she'll read this but here goes.
She is incredibly hot and I can't get enough of seeing her enjoy her life.She loves sex and our lifestyle is great.
To see her take another man's cock is the biggest thrill ever,it's intoxicating.
Knowing other men desire my wife is a Fantastic high .
Plus she is filthy,I could write a novel about her and our life together
Mr P
Wow! This encapsulates my feelings. Nothing has happened yet but this is what I'm working towards.For me, it's complex.
- For a long time I didn't know about stags, only cuckolds. I knew I didn't like the humiliation aspect, for the most part, but I liked the sharing and watching her enjoy herself.
- I want a measure of control and being the stag gives me that.
- On the other hand, I like relinquishing some control because I have so much control in my real life.
- Watching someone give her a rough, dominate fuck does it for me.
- Someone cumming in my wife and then me fucking her as well, if not better than him and then reclaiming her by cumming hits all the spots.
- There's probably some reassurance that she's mine and I'm hers, too. Probably should delve into that at some point lmao.
- Lastly, porn has been so accessible over the last 25 years, that I've been able to choose my favorite pornstars to watch.
- When I got married, I had my personal pornstar walking around my house, that I get to fuck, but I never got to watch her fuck.
- Being a stag lets me do that
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Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us.Nothing cuck about us in fact we find that kind of creepy and disrespectful to all involved BUT to each their own and we dont judge that's just us? anyhow we have a very sound confident loving relationship its all about us and helping the other explore/enjoy NOT about the third party itself LOL it's about the experience that party brings to US. regardless of if it is another woman or man same concept. Just an addition to what is already an established awesome ?
Weeeel, for my wife and I her lover has turned out as our friend too. We do other things with him outside bed also, sometimes on a couple of day on a boat, a cabin trip to her lovers cabin one weekend, maybe a motorcycle trip somewhere or a stay at an hotel where we also having a lot of sex... Cos my wife always ends up having sex with her lover no matter what we do, like in one of last summer MC trip, when we stopped at a lockout tower and since it was nobody there we fucked her with a view in turns.Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us.

Know what you mean.it's about how much I enjoy seeing 2 (or more) people feeling pleasure.
Don't you love it when she comes home not long after a fuck and her pussy is red, gaped and still wet with cum and you know that not long before a big cock was shoving into it. You can picture it. You know the sounds she was making and you know the moan he made as he unloaded his cum into her.Know what you mean.
I love to watch my wife with her lover, cos I WANT him to have pleasures with my wife. I want it so much that I still prepare my wife before every meeting with her lover. I wax her legs and shave her pussy and her ass crack to get my wife more fuckable for her lover and I love it! It is sometimes hard to watch my wife's open pussy and and ass when I shave her, cos I know full well that the next cock that is going to slide in to her hot and wet pussy or into her tight ass is not going to be my cock, but it is so darn arousing and I know I get my reward when she comes back the next morning... Had anyone told me before we started that I would love preparing my wife for another man I wouldn't believed him... Or getting aroused when I get my wife back after she had spent a night with her lover alone, at his place. Or on a Sunday after she spent a weekend alone with her lover. The hottest ten days in my life was when I let my wife go on a ten day vacation with her lover in Spain. It was so arousing when I picked them up at the airport knowing that she had been her lovers women for ten days, that he have had a lot of pleasures with my wife and that she had loved every minute of it.
I love listening to her lover grunt and moan in deep pleasure when he fucks my wife and when he empty himself wildly and unrestricted in my wife's mouth, pussy or ass is just as arousing to me as it is listen to my wife getting pleasures and orgasms with her lover.
And I really enjoy the moments when my wife is not my wife anymore, but her lovers women in everything she does after she have given herself completely to her lover. Sometimes I feel like a fly on the wall and just really enjoy seeing my wife become her lovers women, just signaling to him that he can have as much pleasures with her as he likes, that he can fuck her in every hole she has and that she really, REALLY enjoys getting his cum inside her. I still don't know why I love this so much, but I do. I love watching my aroused wife and seeing her having deep and real pleasures with her lover. Nothing beats the sight of her pretty face dissolved in pure pleasure over her lovers shoulder while I can see her breast bounce under his hairy armpit in sync with his trust and listen to her loud and wild goose like orgasm shout when she cum on his cock and pushes her pussy up while she digs her fingers in to his ass cheeks to get him as deep inside her she can. I love watching that and I love giving my wife a sloppy second after her lover has enjoyed her...
"Absolutely. The 3rd party is just a sex toy. He is used for our entertainment and enrichment of our lives. Once he is used it's back to us".
I like the above quote, I think, from Nariah 1957
The other male in a Stag/Vixen marriage/relationship is basically a willing sex toy. Used... with his consent, to participate in what the wife and I like to do. While the wife is having her fun with the "3rd", I'm enjoying the show.
This image (not us) has the desired impact.
Wife is holding the 3rd in with her heels, even helping him pump using her legs to pull him in with the rhythm. The husband can see 3rd is balls deep in his wife. 3rd is not shy about packing every inch of his cock into the married woman's pussy as her husband watches.
Now I'm thinking if I'm watching this kind of action with my wife, there is no way 3rd is going to pull out. He certainly will cum in my wife. And she's encouraging it by holding him in. She wants the dick in here, she wants the dick to release. In that way she controlled the session, she's proven her desirability and was able to bring a complete stranger to orgasm without even knowing him an hour before.
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Yes, it's that moment when you know he's pumping his sperm into your wife's pussy and she's willing receiving it. In my own head, at that moment, I'm thinking, "Yes, she needs to have a lot of dicks use that pussy".You know the sounds she was making and you know the moan he made as he unloaded his cum into her.