Surprising things about the lifestyle

[HubbyJohn]

On the Bull-side of the lifestyle, I still can't get over how many cuckolds are retired US Marines ... big guys ... guys with 10 inch cocks ... not the type of guy that one would ever have expected to spend a Saturday evening watching baseball in the living room while I, or several of us, are filling his wife up with cum in the back bedroom.

Not as a surprising as it would seem when you think about it. Men who spend long periods of time on the other side of the world, likely start to fantasize about their wives being satisfied as they jerk off. Likely worry that their wife might cheat and use a cuck fetish to feel in control of the cheating. They also have high stress jobs that leave some trauma and I would imagine the idea of relinquishing responsibility for satisfying her sexually while at the same time controlling it would be natural. I feel like once your brain crosses over into being a cuck there is no going back.

 

[HubbyJohn]

For me what was surprising was that she had tolerated mu little dick for so long and was willing to live a life with unsatisfying sex or almost no sex with me before I encouraged her.

I’m also still surprised about the deep emasculating shame I still feel after I orgasm. It just never goes away. Also never imagined that I would stop initiating sex and just feel too inadequate to bother her with it. I serious think that I will never have PIV sex again in my life. With my wife or even if she left me. I just feel too small and inadequate to do that again. That is shocking to me that I have accepted it.

 

[Jack W]

Not as a surprising as it would seem when you think about it. Men who spend long periods of time on the other side of the world, likely start to fantasize about their wives being satisfied as they jerk off. Likely worry that their wife might cheat and use a cuck fetish to feel in control of the cheating. They also have high stress jobs that leave some trauma and I would imagine the idea of relinquishing responsibility for satisfying her sexually while at the same time controlling it would be natural. I feel like once your brain crosses over into being a cuck there is no going back.

I never thought about it like that.

 

[jsaltydog]

We go to a regular LS houseparty. Mature crowd. We're in our 50s and are usually the youngest couple there!! 70 seems the average age and, probably thanks to the wonder of modern ED meds, there are some very horny and active septuagenarians in attendance - both men and women! This is me (left) with two wives taking a break at one of those parties. I had the pleasure of having these two to myself that night and they were pure fire 🔥
SView attachment 3034913o yeah. I am surprised at the way older are embracing the Lifestyle these days!

Two really beautiful women.

 

[jsaltydog]

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Picture of mine on the right… I have some old homemade videos in the vault, but don’t know where or what lifestyle site allows videos, so, as of now I just take screenshots of the videos and share them.

Your wife is beautiful.

 

[Stevens4fun]

On the Bull-side of the lifestyle, I still can't get over how many cuckolds are retired US Marines ... big guys ... guys with 10 inch cocks ... not the type of guy that one would ever have expected to spend a Saturday evening watching baseball in the living room while I, or several of us, are filling his wife up with cum in the back bedroom.

You will also find high level businessmen, even CEOs who want their wives seduced and pleased by other men. Real life example: my wife's "big boss" at her workplace wielded total power, was an aggressive, domaneering alpha male. But in our home with my wife and traveling with her, or even with him in the corporate suite at the Marriott, she owned him. My wife loves this on many levels.

The Marines, and CEOs, professional athletes, etc. are accustomed to wielding power, and controlling things. But what "sharing" or "cuckolding" is really about is an exchange of power, of control. Most of the wannabes in this forum who are frantically jacking as they fantasize about watching their wife haven't yet moved beyond the more voyeuristic aspects. Or hubby wants to be an XXX director! 🤣🤣🤣🤣Giving up control is so hard for many guys.

Seriously, all of us guys have a little voyeur in us, but...in order for us to find our sexy wives enjoying other men often in a way that's rewarding to her, we have to give up some power in our marriage. We have to give the control up. Some guys can't do this, but it's the price.

 

[dinoo-2]

.....in order for us to find our sexy wives enjoying other men often in a way that's rewarding to her, we have to give up some power in our marriage. We have to give the control up. Some guys can't do this, but it's the price.

My wife, Lady D, played around as if it were part of her life.

She once told me:
'I'm surprising myself by taking cocks into my mouth, getting fucked by strangers and cumming constantly when they lick my pussy. It's become such a normal part of my life. I love seeing you get aroused when you watch me, but rest assured that I'm enjoying it all myself. I never imagined that I would love it so much. It's a shame we didn't start earlier.'

 

[Stevens4fun]

My wife, Lady D, played around as if it were part of her life.

She once told me:
'I'm surprising myself by taking cocks into my mouth, getting fucked by strangers and cumming constantly when they lick my pussy. It's become such a normal part of my life. I love seeing you get aroused when you watch me, but rest assured that I'm enjoying it all myself. I never imagined that I would love it so much. It's a shame we didn't start earlier.'

Ha ha, for sure! I think that as we move into our middle, and then older years, we all wish we'd started sooner. But life is happening as we are trying to find a way to make things happen. The heavy duty fetishists in this site speak as if we can pursue the fun 24/7. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 The reality is that if we allow ourselves to be too consumed by it all we'll start fucking up at work or with family. As guys, we have to deploy brain #1 and quit stroking long enough to go to work and help our loving wives manage their career, family, and everything else. At first, it's all about the spontaneity, but as time goes by we have to do a good job planning our fun and (for my wife and I) we had to give up spontaneity to create quality experiences for her to enjoy a BF. Block out her weekends with her boss on our calendars. He had to do that too! If we do a good job of planning out time and place, we can be assured that the intensity and quality of the experience will be way beyond the expectation.

 

[White5andahalf]

The most surprising aspect of cuckolding is the pressure it takes off me to sexually satisfy my lovely wife, because of what's she's packing and I am not. Thanks for talking the time to read, whether you agree or not. Phil and Nicole.

 

[keylife022]

What are some surprising things you have experienced in the lifestyle? For me it’s how once my wife got over the first time nervous and saw that we both loved our experience and the lifestyle. It surprised me how my innocent wife and mom of two would easily give herself to another man and would either fuck them or give them a blowjob on a first meet, and how submissive she becomes with a much more alpha male, pretty much doing or trying anything they ask.

For me it was finding out how many married women I have had working for me that were eager to make themselves available inside and outside work hours. EVERY one of them had husbands who knew