What if husband wants to give direction?

[neutralzone]

Not into humiliation or seeing my wife "railed" and mistreated --- just want to watch her receiving pleasure. But I would like to instruct the bull. What's your experience with this? Are some willing to take direction and follow limits? For example, she likes this, but not this. Or we'd like a soft swing situation to get our toes wet. Anyone have bad/ good experiences trying this?

 

[kort6776]

bulls will usually not want direction, maybe the soft swing place is where you need to be

 

[WNY3somecple]

You wife, her body, you two make the rules. Just tell any potential partners your rules and expectations. If they are not willing to accept them find another

 

[tjlove23]

We found a guy, who understands it is our fantasy. We explained before what our expectations are and he respects that. She could be completely naked and say no, and he will stop.

My point is, find the right guy

 

[Bull_Bergen]

As a Bull, I always do things within the couples limits. I am grateful for the man letting me use his wife. I do never do anything the wife Does not want me to do, and sometimes this means that She wants me to be rougher than her husband is. When it comes down to Harder BDSM, this is always depending on mutual trust. She must know that She can stop me Anytime during play, and this is important.

 

[romans3399]

This is exactly us. When we started.

Guys we have met = I (husband) have chatted to for weeks and weeks. Describing exactly what I want to see and making sure there’s no confusion.

I basically write , direct and watch my own porn scene !

However…. If you are brave enough to hand everything over to a good experienced bull….. it is WAY hotter.

It’s very exciting when you don’t know what he is going to do with her.

 

[Bull for couple]

Not into humiliation or seeing my wife "railed" and mistreated --- just want to watch her receiving pleasure. But I would like to instruct the bull. What's your experience with this? Are some willing to take direction and follow limits? For example, she likes this, but not this. Or we'd like a soft swing situation to get our toes wet. Anyone have bad/ good experiences trying this?

Sure. I've been a bull for a few years and I agree with you. Pleasure to the Wife is the main thing. with me it's always like this

 

[JMNBABE]

This is the reason I have affairs versus let hubby watch...he wanted me to be his provate porn star and I'm not made up that way. I need passion and emotion, not a director making dumb suggestions during sex.

J (the wife)

 

[HotAsianwife]

Not into humiliation or seeing my wife "railed" and mistreated --- just want to watch her receiving pleasure. But I would like to instruct the bull. What's your experience with this? Are some willing to take direction and follow limits? For example, she likes this, but not this. Or we'd like a soft swing situation to get our toes wet. Anyone have bad/ good experiences trying this?

What gives you the opinion that your wife will be railed and mistreated?. In all the years I have shared my wife I have never met a bull who was not respectful. I don’t think you need to tell him what your wife’s likes, she can do it herself. Just let the sex be natural. It’s better that way.

 

[Domuk1]

That’s a no from me, once the rules are set and in place between all parties, I’m in control not u