What's the difference?

[BiAsh94]

Hi! So I've literally only been a member for like a day and I already have come across something my husband and I have never heard of before.

We've referred to our relationship as a hotwife/cuckold relationship since we got into this lifestyle but I've seen the terms Vixen and Stag being used on this site.

What's the difference? Like what is a Vixen compared to a Hotwife or a Stag compared to a Cuckold?

I tried Googling these but obviously all I get is pictures of deer and foxes. :-/

 

[stlhubby4u]

Typically. a cuckold husband is into humiliation and being told his cock is too small, he's not a real man, etc., and often his wife fucks other men with or without his approval. On the other hand, a Stag is a husband who enjoys sharing his wife and loves seeing her get pleasure, but is NOT into any sort of humiliation, and in fact is perfectly capable of fucking his wife anytime he wants, but choses to let her fuck other men for her pleasure AND his !
A Hotwife and a Vixen are very similar, however and vixen truly loves her hubby, and will fuck other men in order to have fun and make her hubby turned on enough to join in and fuck her or "reclaim " her when her lover is finished.
Vixens are basically more playful and respectful of their hubby. And Stags are more like self confident studs who choose to let their wives fuck for the thrill of it.

Personally, I lean more towards the Stag category, but my wife has fucked a few men on her own even though I wished she would wait until I could be there to join her. Also, because I do get turned on by knowing she was out with another man in his hotel room...that makes me a little bit like a cuckold. However, I will never, be submissive to my wife and her lovers enough to stay out of the room while she fucks him, or bring them drinks, and be their servant, or clean his cock after he fucks her. I "May" suck his cock to get him hard, if we all are in agreement, or I may not. I do enjoy seeing my wife "lose herself" and enjoy getting fucked by another guy, especially if she is sucking my cock or we are taking turns fucking her.

I hope that kind of explains everything, and answers your question.

 

[2wheel]

Hi! So I've literally only been a member for like a day and I already have come across something my husband and I have never heard of before.

We've referred to our relationship as a hotwife/cuckold relationship since we got into this lifestyle but I've seen the terms Vixen and Stag being used on this site.

What's the difference? Like what is a Vixen compared to a Hotwife or a Stag compared to a Cuckold?

I tried Googling these but obviously all I get is pictures of deer and foxes. :-/

Urban Dictionary

 

[BiAsh94]

I hope that kind of explains everything, and answers your question.

Yes it does! Thank you so much. After reading that I think Sawyer and I definitely match the Vixen/Stag definition a lot more that the HotWife/Cuckold.

 

[compassionatedom]

Yes it does! Thank you so much. After reading that I think Sawyer and I definitely match the Vixen/Stag definition a lot more that the HotWife/Cuckold.

The activities can be near identical, but the motivations and mindset are a world apart

 

[Robert Smith]

stlhubby gave a great definition of the terms

 

[verkitwme]

I agree

Most of these are just labels. You don't have to have a label to enjoy an alternative lifestyle either.

I agree labels are for canned veggies !!

 

[JaknSuz]

I agree

I agree labels are for canned veggies !!

Sez the lady with the "Cream of Puss" pic! LOL

 

[TexasDaddy]

A cuckold may not know and probably doesn't like his wife fucking other men. A stag is very much into sharing her. The porn/fetish definition of cuckold is different from the actual definition, but both involve humiliation.

 

[Discretefun66]

Typically. a cuckold husband is into humiliation and being told his cock is too small, he's not a real man, etc., and often his wife fucks other men with or without his approval. On the other hand, a Stag is a husband who enjoys sharing his wife and loves seeing her get pleasure, but is NOT into any sort of humiliation, and in fact is perfectly capable of fucking his wife anytime he wants, but choses to let her fuck other men for her pleasure AND his !
A Hotwife and a Vixen are very similar, however and vixen truly loves her hubby, and will fuck other men in order to have fun and make her hubby turned on enough to join in and fuck her or "reclaim " her when her lover is finished.
Vixens are basically more playful and respectful of their hubby. And Stags are more like self confident studs who choose to let their wives fuck for the thrill of it.

Personally, I lean more towards the Stag category, but my wife has fucked a few men on her own even though I wished she would wait until I could be there to join her. Also, because I do get turned on by knowing she was out with another man in his hotel room...that makes me a little bit like a cuckold. However, I will never, be submissive to my wife and her lovers enough to stay out of the room while she fucks him, or bring them drinks, and be their servant, or clean his cock after he fucks her. I "May" suck his cock to get him hard, if we all are in agreement, or I may not. I do enjoy seeing my wife "lose herself" and enjoy getting fucked by another guy, especially if she is sucking my cock or we are taking turns fucking her.

I hope that kind of explains everything, and answers your question.

We believe your definition/explanation captures it perfectly. We both fit in to the category of Stag and Fox as you stated.

 

[stlhubby4u]

We believe your definition/explanation captures it perfectly. We both fit in to the category of Stag and Fox as you stated.

You sound like a fun couple that know what they enjoy !