White male Black female I know i love to see my wife with a BBC and having fun just wondering if there are any couples the the combo is flipped

I love my wife being with a Black Lover........but I've tried it a few times (black woman) and it just doesn't work for me. My limited expereince has shown they ahve CAVERNOUS cunts.......WAY too big for me to enjoy, and it can not possibly be doing anything for them.
They are very ROUGH during sex........PAINFULLY rough. No enjoyment here either
And it feels more to me like I am with a guy with a cunt.......there seems to be a competition going on versus sensuality.

Not my cup of tea.
CW