Who are you fucking?

Who is fucking you? Were do you find your sexual partners?

  • Immediate family member? (cousin etc.)

    Votes: 16 9.0%
  • Family member by marriage? (brother-in-law...etc )

    Votes: 17 9.6%
  • Work colleague? (boss, co-worker, customer etc.)

    Votes: 43 24.3%
  • Partners work colleague? (their boss, co-worker, customer etc)

    Votes: 34 19.2%
  • Friend? (either yours or your partners)

    Votes: 73 41.2%
  • Chosen stranger (someone found via advertising, internet etc specifically for sex)

    Votes: 95 53.7%
  • Random pick-up? *(stranger found in a bar, club etc)

    Votes: 74 41.8%

  • Total voters
    177
Very interesting poll! My husband says he'd love to see me be picked up by another man. He wants to be in the background and watch me but my coolness/sexuality factor is nonexistent. Typically the men that gravitate to me in social settings are equally as shy and flirtatiously inept as I am so I doubt they'd have the testicular fortitude to attempt picking me up in front of my husband. Anyway, I digress. We use the internet!
 
Very interesting poll! My husband says he'd love to see me be picked up by another man. He wants to be in the background and watch me but my coolness/sexuality factor is nonexistent. Typically the men that gravitate to me in social settings are equally as shy and flirtatiously inept as I am so I doubt they'd have the testicular fortitude to attempt picking me up in front of my husband. Anyway, I digress. We use the internet!

What you describe is what my wife and I like to do. We will go to a hotel or casino a couple of hours away and go to the bar. She usually dresses with a tight, form fitting dress that does not show a lot of skin but lets guys know what is underneath. She does not want to look slutty but does want to look sexy.

She will sit at the bar and I go sit at a table several feet away. I watch guys come and talk to her and try to pick her up. If she wants to, she will go to a room in the hotel, parking lot, garage, etc. for sex with him while I sit in the bar and wait. When she comes back, depending on how she feels, she either comes and sits with me or goes back to the bar.

The only rules we have is that she never leaves the premises with a guy and if we see anyone we know, its all off.
 
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Nice to see so many different approaches to finding a suitable sexual partner.....although it seems most if not all of us prefer it to be a stranger, whether found via the internet or the bar, and most seem wary of involving someone we know socially outside of the lifestyle.....:cool:
 
Nice to see so many different approaches to finding a suitable sexual partner.....although it seems most if not all of us prefer it to be a stranger, whether found via the internet or the bar, and most seem wary of involving someone we know socially outside of the lifestyle.....:cool:

I set the rule against no friends and family because of a lesson learned when I was in my early 20s. A friend of mine and his girlfriend got married very young. He was into sharing her and she was into group sex so it ended up that a lot of his friends, me included, fucked her on a pretty regular basis.

After a couple months of that, one of the guys decided that he was not comfortable sharing her and wanted her all to himself, even excluding her husband. It caused a lot of problems and in the end, they just cut everyone off from fucking her. They ended up getting involved in a swingers club and playing with strangers, but after that I had decided that if I was ever in that situation there would be no friends involved.
 
I set the rule against no friends and family because of a lesson learned when I was in my early 20s. A friend of mine and his girlfriend got married very young. He was into sharing her and she was into group sex so it ended up that a lot of his friends, me included, fucked her on a pretty regular basis.

After a couple months of that, one of the guys decided that he was not comfortable sharing her and wanted her all to himself, even excluding her husband. It caused a lot of problems and in the end, they just cut everyone off from fucking her. They ended up getting involved in a swingers club and playing with strangers, but after that I had decided that if I was ever in that situation there would be no friends involved.
Yes you said earlier and I agreed with the reasons then....
 
Always strangers for us and never long term with anyone. Some guys we have met with many times but it was over the course of several years, not in a short period of time. We like going to Hedonism II resort in Jamaica, we have a chance to visit with people on the nude beach or nude pool for multiple days if we want before deciding who we want to invite to join us. Some trips we find 2 or 3 different guys & sometimes just 1 but we have never so called "struck out" at Hedo. We also attend a lot of motorcycle rallies, there are always a lot of single guys looking for a hook-up. We have used the internet but there are just to many fakes and guys pretending to be someone they are clearly not.
 
It's amazing every guy thinks they're gods gift to women, we were SO lucky to find David my lover the stars the moon and the sun were all aligned when we found him. Perfect combination of a huge cock, a great body and a personality that is really cool. He takes me places sexually that I"ve never been before. I"m hornier now then when I was in my 20's and 30's. Amazing !!
 
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