When we first started down the hot wife road, I used to get intensely jealous, anxiety filled when KK would kiss an encounter partner. The dissonance of being insanely hard and aroused by the act, in conflict with the jealousy was hard to reconcile.
“We” made a rule - no kissing, as I was uncomfortable with, and objected to the level of intimacy I perceived in KK’s kissing another man. The rule was often broken, with one or both of us suffering emotionally over the consequences.
Eventually I figured out the “no kissing” was my rule - KK needed to kiss, and be kissed for her part of enjoying the experience, and the rule went by the wayside.
I managed to transition from objection, discomfort and jealousy to acceptance; I love stroking my cock while I watch KK enjoying passionate kisses with a lover, even a complete stranger. My most recent discovery is the enjoyment of watching KK engaged in love-making with another man, as opposed to “just fucking.” The kissing is an integral aspect to this experience. I’m rock-hard just thinking about KK’s erotic kisses with her current boyfriend Andy.