Without Condoms?

My girlfriend is having her first bull over this weekend. We met this guy online, he seems super nice, and he’s gotten tested so we know he’s clean. We’re both very excited for our first time.
However, I’m curious on your thoughts regarding condoms. My girlfriend is on the pill and he was recently tested so they should be ok right? I’d love to set it up without condoms since it seems far sexier but I just want to play it safe. Thoughts?
 
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My girlfriend is having her first bull over this weekend. We met this guy online, he seems super nice, and he’s gotten tested so we know he’s clean. We’re both very excited for our first time.
However, I’m curious on your thoughts regarding condoms. My girlfriend is on the pill and he was recently tested so they should be ok right? I’d love to set it up without condoms since it seems far sexier but I just want to play it safe. Thoughts?
I prefer bareback but it's always my call to make and it really should be her call to make and then her bulls.
 
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I prefer bareback but it's always my call to make and it really should be her call to make and then her bulls.
@YoungPetiteSlut, @Hotwife_Rachel is 100% correct in this one. Yes, having everyone tested is critical and the right thing. If she doesn't want to risk pregnancy then being on BC is critical also but none of that should mean it isn't still completely her (and the Bulls) choice. I've personally had guys that even with all the testing in the world, something about them meant that there was no way I was going bareback with them. Candidly, if I get that vibe, I almost never fuck them at all. Not worth it. I've also had guys that have said they will only fuck with a condom, period. I respect that also. Again, I usually find someone else but I do respect it. Protection is the choice of the people involved an no one else's. So... is she safe, probably! I've been doing this for over 15 years and never had an STD... knock on wood. But it is still up to her completely!!!
 
@YoungPetiteSlut, @Hotwife_Rachel is 100% correct in this one. Yes, having everyone tested is critical and the right thing. If she doesn't want to risk pregnancy then being on BC is critical also but none of that should mean it isn't still completely her (and the Bulls) choice. I've personally had guys that even with all the testing in the world, something about them meant that there was no way I was going bareback with them. Candidly, if I get that vibe, I almost never fuck them at all. Not worth it. I've also had guys that have said they will only fuck with a condom, period. I respect that also. Again, I usually find someone else but I do respect it. Protection is the choice of the people involved an no one else's. So... is she safe, probably! I've been doing this for over 15 years and never had an STD... knock on wood. But it is still up to her completely!!!
As sexist as this sounds… BIRTH CONTROL is and should be 100% up to her. She would be the one getting pregnant (or not)
STD protection is EVERYONES responsibility.
Even as a Bull that prefers bareback, I have walked away from situations that seemed off. I’m very okay if she wants to get pregnant and that has never stopped me. But even tested I have had uneasy feelings that condoms could not ease.
My number one red flag is if I get the sense she is there only because her husband decided she wanted to be there. So if it feels forced, I decline the offer.
However, if we click, I don’t hold back with or without condoms.
 
My girlfriend is having her first bull over this weekend. We met this guy online, he seems super nice, and he’s gotten tested so we know he’s clean. We’re both very excited for our first time.
However, I’m curious on your thoughts regarding condoms. My girlfriend is on the pill and he was recently tested so they should be ok right? I’d love to set it up without condoms since it seems far sexier but I just want to play it safe. Thoughts?
If you have any doubt use protection.
 
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If you have any doubt use protection.
Yep. Condoms have their place for sure.
Way befor I was married I ALWAYS wore a condom. Some girls would insist on going bare but I never did. I knew too many girls that got knocked up way too young.
The first woman I went bare with was older(41) and married, she 100% assured me she wouldn't get pregnant. I was 22. She loved the mess we'd make, she'd rub her clit after we finished. That's when I realized how women liked playing with sperm.
Different girl I was seeing while I was involved with the married gal, I was 22, she was 20, very upstanding church girl, strong church family. She was on the pill so she could have sex with her older(26) fiancee. Her parents didn't know obviously. I think I fucked her more often that her fiancee. Her thing was we'd have sex till I unloaded in her, she'd lick my dick clean then we'd make out while she rubbed her clit and MESSY puss till I was hard again then we'd go another round.
 
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Yep. Condoms have their place for sure.
Way befor I was married I ALWAYS wore a condom. Some girls would insist on going bare but I never did. I knew too many girls that got knocked up way too young.
The first woman I went bare with was older(41) and married, she 100% assured me she wouldn't get pregnant. I was 22. She loved the mess we'd make, she'd rub her clit after we finished. That's when I realized how women liked playing with sperm.
Different girl I was seeing while I was involved with the married gal, I was 22, she was 20, very upstanding church girl, strong church family. She was on the pill so she could have sex with her older(26) fiancee. Her parents didn't know obviously. I think I fucked her more often that her fiancee. Her thing was we'd have sex till I unloaded in her, she'd lick my dick clean then we'd make out while she rubbed her clit and MESSY puss till I was hard again then we'd go another round.
A good church goer is always fun to be with.
 
A good church goer is always fun to be with.
To say the least.
Small church, small town. About 80 people on a typical Sunday.
Early 80s, I was 19-20.
Single girl my age, elders ......, not good looking at all. MANY bjs in my car, fucked her many times at my place, butt sex no problem.
Single girl, 19, a little pudgy, wouldn't fuck but bj no brop.
Married gal, 25-ish. I nailed her 5 or 6 different times, she came to her senses and we stopped.
Married, 30-ish, married 30+, married 25....all one time hook-ups at my place.
Was like shooting fish in a barrel.