I've meditated on this question for quite some time and I have an equally complex answer. However, those of you who are the TLDR types I'll try to make it shorter.
The easiest way to sum this up is the type of guy I would pick out to fuck my wife and the type of guy she would pick out are somewhat different.
It also should be said that we don't play around a huge amount and are kind of selective.
Between fucking and sucking It's hands down fucking. (When I'm allowed to be present and watch)
I love to see how my wife's body moves, trembles and convulses. Listening to my wife's breathing and her vocalizations, grunts, moans and climaxes. Seeing another guy take her over and enjoy her pussy. And the whole whole dynamic of that dude is enjoying the fuck out of my wife's tight pussy while the husband is just sitting there watching and not doing anything about it because of that dude's a stud and I'm not type vibe.
Now let me digress a moment...
When the wife picks up guys It could be a dance club, or just getting hit on or more likely just Tinder.
Wife advertising it at Caesars Palace while I'm guarding our towels at one of the other pools😨
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Be it in Vegas or Tinder, that dude is just going to want to take her back to the room and bone her. Chances he's going to want to entertain having the husband tag along is low, especially in a place like Vegas since they're going to think it's a setup to get robbed. Conversely, I also worry about the wife safety when she takes off to meet with guys solo and I don't get to vet them in any way.
My methodology is a little different. I deliberately search online for guys who are down to find couples for cuckold/hot wife situations because they're fully onboard with the entire scene and don't think the husband's involvement & interests in It is somehow weird.
Specifically, I try to find guys who are Dominant Mature older men. There are a ton of agreeable guys out there that are super flexible and will accommodate couples for whatever they're interested or want to do. I like finding a guy who will just completely take my wife over and dominate her and do what he wants to do while I watch. When guys are self-confident, highly dominant and firmly aggressive, the wife usually goes into the submissive mode and becomes very compliant. (Part of my vetting /screening process is to make crystal clear with the rules and limits are for this type of thing ahead of time)
I also like to pick them considerably older than her, Absolutely love the opportunity to share my wife much younger pussy and body with an older mature male.
I try to go for the Daddy Doms types, I love it when they do some type of kink on her, pre-approved by me of course.
And if the guys a former service member that's a huge plus to me. Enjoy my wife, You've earned it!
All that said
I think I've been looking at the whole blowjob thing wrong.
Most of the time if the wife fucks the guy she'll suck him too, Even if briefly, although not always.
On one trip I set her up with an almost 30 year older Daddy Dom Shibari Master for rope bondage, And of course when you're tied up and helpless, you end up sucking some cock.
But like I said before, we're very selective.
I'd very much be into her giving out just BJ A little more free spiritedly if that makes sense. I don't think it's going to happen but interesting to think about.
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