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Which do you like more? Watching your wife suck another man or fuck her?

Personally I like when her eyes light up as she first starts sucking her new man and it slowly grows in her mouth. She didn’t know my friend had a big cock and she started sucking him and it got huge In her mouth. Her eyes lit up and said that she wants his cock in her every night. He even came to a family event and she sucked him off in the car when all the family was inside!
There is something very arousing and erotic and at the same time humbling and humiliating watching the love of your life, your bride, the first time she kneels before a new man or takes him into the marital bed or leaves the house for an overnight without you present and in your heart and head that she is giving her body to him so that she can experience a level sexual euphoria that you are totally incapable of matching. And while she is engaged with him, her body, heart and soul are his and you are the farthest thing from her mind
 
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There is something very arousing and erotic and at the same time humbling and humiliating watching the love of your life, your bride, the first time she kneels before a new man or takes him into the marital bed or leaves the house for an overnight without you present and in your heart and head that she is giving her body to him so that she can experience a level sexual euphoria that you are totally incapable of matching. And while she is engaged with him, her body, heart and soul are his and you are the farthest thing from her mind
Yeah, I make sure my Cock is in her mouth in under five minute
 
There is something very arousing and erotic and at the same time humbling and humiliating watching the love of your life, your bride, the first time she kneels before a new man or takes him into the marital bed or leaves the house for an overnight without you present and in your heart and head that she is giving her body to him so that she can experience a level sexual euphoria that you are totally incapable of matching. And while she is engaged with him, her body, heart and soul are his and you are the farthest thing from her mind
 
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Yeah, I make sure my Cock is in her mouth in under five minute
Increasing my humiliation and subordination when it occurs so quickly. And when you cum on her face or in her mouth, your power over her evidenced when seeing it running down her smirking face or puddled in her open mouth and on her lips is devastating to whatever self respect I might have had
You win Sir
 
I've meditated on this question for quite some time and I have an equally complex answer. However, those of you who are the TLDR types I'll try to make it shorter.

The easiest way to sum this up is the type of guy I would pick out to fuck my wife and the type of guy she would pick out are somewhat different.

It also should be said that we don't play around a huge amount and are kind of selective.

Between fucking and sucking It's hands down fucking. (When I'm allowed to be present and watch)

I love to see how my wife's body moves, trembles and convulses. Listening to my wife's breathing and her vocalizations, grunts, moans and climaxes. Seeing another guy take her over and enjoy her pussy. And the whole whole dynamic of that dude is enjoying the fuck out of my wife's tight pussy while the husband is just sitting there watching and not doing anything about it because of that dude's a stud and I'm not type vibe.

Now let me digress a moment...

When the wife picks up guys It could be a dance club, or just getting hit on or more likely just Tinder.

Wife advertising it at Caesars Palace while I'm guarding our towels at one of the other pools😨
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Be it in Vegas or Tinder, that dude is just going to want to take her back to the room and bone her. Chances he's going to want to entertain having the husband tag along is low, especially in a place like Vegas since they're going to think it's a setup to get robbed. Conversely, I also worry about the wife safety when she takes off to meet with guys solo and I don't get to vet them in any way.

My methodology is a little different. I deliberately search online for guys who are down to find couples for cuckold/hot wife situations because they're fully onboard with the entire scene and don't think the husband's involvement & interests in It is somehow weird.

Specifically, I try to find guys who are Dominant Mature older men. There are a ton of agreeable guys out there that are super flexible and will accommodate couples for whatever they're interested or want to do. I like finding a guy who will just completely take my wife over and dominate her and do what he wants to do while I watch. When guys are self-confident, highly dominant and firmly aggressive, the wife usually goes into the submissive mode and becomes very compliant. (Part of my vetting /screening process is to make crystal clear with the rules and limits are for this type of thing ahead of time)

I also like to pick them considerably older than her, Absolutely love the opportunity to share my wife much younger pussy and body with an older mature male.

I try to go for the Daddy Doms types, I love it when they do some type of kink on her, pre-approved by me of course.

And if the guys a former service member that's a huge plus to me. Enjoy my wife, You've earned it!

All that said

I think I've been looking at the whole blowjob thing wrong.

Most of the time if the wife fucks the guy she'll suck him too, Even if briefly, although not always.

On one trip I set her up with an almost 30 year older Daddy Dom Shibari Master for rope bondage, And of course when you're tied up and helpless, you end up sucking some cock.

But like I said before, we're very selective.

I'd very much be into her giving out just BJ A little more free spiritedly if that makes sense. I don't think it's going to happen but interesting to think about.
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I've meditated on this question for quite some time and I have an equally complex answer. However, those of you who are the TLDR types I'll try to make it shorter.

The easiest way to sum this up is the type of guy I would pick out to fuck my wife and the type of guy she would pick out are somewhat different.

It also should be said that we don't play around a huge amount and are kind of selective.

Between fucking and sucking It's hands down fucking. (When I'm allowed to be present and watch)

I love to see how my wife's body moves, trembles and convulses. Listening to my wife's breathing and her vocalizations, grunts, moans and climaxes. Seeing another guy take her over and enjoy her pussy. And the whole whole dynamic of that dude is enjoying the fuck out of my wife's tight pussy while the husband is just sitting there watching and not doing anything about it because of that dude's a stud and I'm not type vibe.

Now let me digress a moment...

When the wife picks up guys It could be a dance club, or just getting hit on or more likely just Tinder.

Wife advertising it at Caesars Palace while I'm guarding our towels at one of the other pools😨
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Be it in Vegas or Tinder, that dude is just going to want to take her back to the room and bone her. Chances he's going to want to entertain having the husband tag along is low, especially in a place like Vegas since they're going to think it's a setup to get robbed. Conversely, I also worry about the wife safety when she takes off to meet with guys solo and I don't get to vet them in any way.

My methodology is a little different. I deliberately search online for guys who are down to find couples for cuckold/hot wife situations because they're fully onboard with the entire scene and don't think the husband's involvement & interests in It is somehow weird.

Specifically, I try to find guys who are Dominant Mature older men. There are a ton of agreeable guys out there that are super flexible and will accommodate couples for whatever they're interested or want to do. I like finding a guy who will just completely take my wife over and dominate her and do what he wants to do while I watch. When guys are self-confident, highly dominant and firmly aggressive, the wife usually goes into the submissive mode and becomes very compliant. (Part of my vetting /screening process is to make crystal clear with the rules and limits are for this type of thing ahead of time)

I also like to pick them considerably older than her, Absolutely love the opportunity to share my wife much younger pussy and body with an older mature male.

I try to go for the Daddy Doms types, I love it when they do some type of kink on her, pre-approved by me of course.

And if the guys a former service member that's a huge plus to me. Enjoy my wife, You've earned it!

All that said

I think I've been looking at the whole blowjob thing wrong.

Most of the time if the wife fucks the guy she'll suck him too, Even if briefly, although not always.

On one trip I set her up with an almost 30 year older Daddy Dom Shibari Master for rope bondage, And of course when you're tied up and helpless, you end up sucking some cock.

But like I said before, we're very selective.

I'd very much be into her giving out just BJ A little more free spiritedly if that makes sense. I don't think it's going to happen but interesting to think about.
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Your wifes feet are beautiful
check your dm
I have a question for you
 
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Your wifes feet are beautiful
check your dm
I have a question for you

Thank you! I'm honored. I'll try to dig up some more pics if you want.
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I do BTW suck her toes, Not because I have any type of weird foot fetish or anything even close to it. I don't whatsoever, just to be sensuous. When she's the Hot Wife, I act like she's a dominatrix and I'm her slave "I exist to serve you Mistress Adriana!" Kiss her feet and suck her toes longer than her massage.

Although she is not into the toe sucking whatsoever, lol, Just for massage

She hates her middle name so that's what her mistress dominatrix name is 😜

Edit: wanted to add some more about that particular bikini but I don't want to hijack this thread away from its original intended focus 🤐
 
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